Alas... Dad said to look at me in the future.,What should I do?。。

As a bystander, standing in your father's position, I want to be a father, he is helpless, you are now grown up, but you are not independent, what he wants you now is that you grow up, mature, steady, the family will definitely rely on you in the future, because as a father is getting older and older, and you are one step closer to entering the society, what you have to do now is to study hard, because it is not a good secondary school, so you have to accumulate more social experience, don't just think about what to do, what to do, It's useless to say that these are all things, the only thing you can do now is to study hard, and do what is in front of you is the most important thing.

Don't worry, buddy, there are thousands of paths in life, so why bother about it?

Go to social practice more, meet more friends, try different careers...

There are thousands of reasons for starting a business, so why bother about it?

Try to do something that you like and feel suitable for, and it's okay if you fail, after all, you've done it! Experience is valuable!

Try to start a business with trusted friends around you, the tacit understanding of cooperation is precious, and the road --- if 2 people walk together, it will be more spacious...

Looking at your words, you know that you are very young, youth is capital, what are you afraid of???

A word for you: start small! Wait for the time! Waiting for friends who will work with you!!

There are always difficulties in life, and when something happens at home, of course you have to stand up. There are always a lot of things in life that you don't want to do, but you can't help but do, because of responsibility, since you didn't get into a good school. But you can't admit it, learn more.

Hehe, yes, "part-time work and can't be developed" is very right! You've got to see the income side. You can learn from your dad! Your dad can build a factory, why can't you!

Don't be too negative! Much worse than you! Study hard, have a skill, and everything will be fine!

Hello, hello, you asked me if I couldn't see my dad happy when I came home, and if I said it, I would say it?

First of all, when faced with this situation, it is important to build a safe space in your mind to acknowledge each other's feelings and respect each other's ways of expressing their feelings. After all, communication is the key to building a good relationship, and communication depends on both parties being able to recognize their feelings and thoughts in order to correctly and deeply understand the problem.

Secondly, you can try the "comparison" method, that is, compare your own feelings with your father's, experience the difference between the two, and discover your father's psychological situation. At the same time, you can ask your dad how he feels, express his concern, see if he has any worries or troubles, or what thoughts or opinions he has, and you can even let dad talk about his feelings early to facilitate communication.

Finally, you should understand your father's emotions, deal with them with a gentle and patient attitude, try to release your father's feelings, listen patiently and understand, let him feel the support and encouragement from the family, make his relationship with his family more solid, and ignite the fire of the family!

Summary. In this case, if you are unclear about your father's intentions and reasons, you can directly ask him why he asked you to go back so that you can better understand and respond. Here are some possible reasons:

1.Family relationship issues: Your father may want you to come home to deal with some family relationship issues, such as conflicts between family members, property disputes, etc.

2.Health conditions: Your father may want you to come home with him to take care of the elderly in the family or to take care of their health and living needs.

3.Work arrangement: If you are in the same area as your father:

You may be asked to go home for some important family gatherings, anniversaries, etc. It should be noted that when you understand the specific situation, you can decide whether to go back or not according to your actual situation. If you are unable to go back, you can tell your father about your confusion and difficulties in a gentle tone and seek other ways to solve his problems and needs if possible.

Dear, what do you want to consult, you can talk to me in detail, I will answer you in detail.

In this case, if you are not clear about the intention and reason of returning to your father, you can directly ask him why he asked you to go back so that you can better understand and deal with it. Here are some possible reasons:1

Family relationship issues: Your father may want you to come home to deal with some family relationship issues, such as conflicts between family members, property disputes, etc. 2.

Health conditions: Your father may want you to come home with him to take care of the elderly or hungry people in the home, and pay attention to their health and living needs. 3.

Work arrangement: If you are in the same area as your father: you may be asked to go home for some important family gatherings, anniversaries, etc.

It should be noted that when you understand the specific situation, you can decide whether to go back or not according to your actual situation. If you are unable to go back, you can tell your father about your confusion and difficulties in a gentle tone and seek other ways to solve his problems and needs if possible.

Summary. Dear father, you gave me a blue sky, gave me a fertile soil, raised me, accompanied me, and encouraged me when I encountered setbacks, father!

You are the eternal sun of my life, happy Father's Day to my father!

Dear father, it was you who gave me a blue sky, gave me a fertile soil, you raised me, you accompanied me, and you encouraged me when I encountered setbacks in my promotion, father! You are the eternal sun of my life, I wish my father a happy Father's Day!

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Your dad is sick, go take him**.

He's a drunkard, and one day he heard about him when he hated and beat him once.

Maybe what pressure forced him, try to find out with his friends and colleagues around him, whether he has encountered any difficulties, it is useless to just complain, to help him reduce pressure, there is no hurdle that cannot be overcome.