Hello Grandpa Feng, what should I do if my son is still crying in kindergarten now

I am doing early childhood education, for parents who have just entered the nursery, I have always recommended to start kindergarten in March and August and September every year, when the weather is suitable for children to prepare for admission, and the second preschool teacher will also form a system for collective routine training. For parents to enter the nursery parent-teacher meeting, we have been implementing the idea is to trust the teacher, for just arrived in a strange environment, even we adults will be a little afraid when they go out, not to mention that the children's minds and hearts are not perfect, their fear will be more reflected in crying and trouble, parents must implement the let let go of the child's independence, you can let the child be familiar with the kindergarten environment he wants to join before entering the nursery, so that he can understand the joy of the child going to school, and encourage him to go to school with the children around him, the current community lifeThere are many children of similar age, they are in contact with them in ordinary times, so that there are actually many benefits for children to enter the nursery, in addition to the children who begin to go to the nursery school, for the collective life of some children are not very adaptable, for example: sudden decline in physical function, high incidence, this is not the standard for parents to evaluate the quality of the nursery, the mental reflection of the child will be reflected in the child's physical reflection, so as long as the child's daily arrangement of reasonable living habits, the child will gradually adapt to the environment, Parents who send them to kindergarten must send their children to kindergarten can leave, don't be around, so that the child will be more uncomfortable, in fact, when the teacher receives a new child, in fact, there are many ways to let the child's attention shift elsewhere, the child will only cry for about 10 minutes in the kindergarten, will cry at noon, and cry for a while when you see other children coming to pick up at night, but the teacher will have a lot of fun education methods to divert the child's attention, so that the child will fall in love with the kindergarten in the slow adaptation, For parents who have just entered the nursery, we will have three requirements:

One: Bring more pants for young children Second: Don't bring snacks or toys for toddlers to go to school Three:

In addition to the kindergarten diet, add more nutrients to the recipes at home to supplement the daily absorption of young children, and also drink more water, preferably plain water

Baby's separation anxiety The baby leaves relatives and families for the first time, and has to face a new environment and unfamiliar teachers alone, there will be crying, nervousness, and even illness, which is normal, psychology collectively refers to these phenomena as "separation anxiety", if parents do not understand this, always pass on their excessive worries to the baby, not only can not help the baby reduce and eliminate separation anxiety, but will make the baby more insecure. Parents should be resolute Parents should insist on sending the baby to kindergarten every day, do not coax the baby or agree to the baby's unreasonable requirements. Once some parents see that the baby's emotional reaction is greater and the crying does not stop, they immediately promise the baby to rest for a few days before going; Some parents send their babies to kindergarten, hug the baby tightly, and are reluctant to leave, which will prolong the baby's adaptation period to the kindergarten.

Whether the baby cries, refuses to eat, and will he be bullied......"With a lot of questions, parents can't leave. Anxious expressions and worried eyes will be transmitted to the baby, which can only make the baby's mood worse. "Mom and Dad go to work, baby goes to kindergarten!

This is a very natural thing, send the baby into the kindergarten, please show a very calm look, "ignore" the baby's crying, to smile, leave firmly, do not show reluctance, indecision, negative impact on the baby's psychology. Don't give the baby inappropriate verbal hints Some parents will promise or coax the baby in order to keep the baby in kindergarten, such as "the first to pick you up" and "go home after a while", and these promises often cannot be fulfilled, which will bring the baby you don't like him and don't want him to feel. In addition, parents ask their babies inappropriate questions such as, "Did the child bully you?"

Have you eaten enough? Is there anything good to eat at home? Is the teacher good to you?

etc., invisibly make the baby feel that kindergarten is a bad place. Pick up and drop off on time When you first enter the kindergarten, please try to pick up and drop off your baby on time, so that your baby can develop good habits from the beginning. In particular, I left the kindergarten at night to pick up the baby on time, giving the baby more security, knowing that my parents would come to pick me up on time, and I was not afraid.

Do a good job of communication In the early stage of the baby's kindergarten, the feelings are very fragile, parents should understand the baby's performance in the kindergarten through various channels, and if problems are found, they should also discuss solutions with the teacher. Parents should also talk to their baby frequently to understand his performance and activities in kindergarten, such as "What did you eat in kindergarten?" What toys are there?

How many good friends have you met? What games are played in kindergarten? And so on, the baby's should be correctly guided, affirmed and praised.

This will also keep you informed about your baby's presence in the park.

It is also a relatively normal process for babies to not like to go to kindergarten, and there is a reason for separation anxiety when the baby just starts to go to kindergarten, and some belong to a stage of children's behavioral and psychological development, which requires patience to let children gradually adapt.

The baby has just started to go to kindergarten, contact with a strange environment, leaving the mother and the familiar family environment, there will be a short period of separation anxiety, to understand the child's period, as far as possible to meet the child's psychological wishes, such as picking up the child earlier, the child comes back and communicate with the child more about the learning situation in the kindergarten, timely understand the child's demands, give the child more care, the child will gradually adapt.

Babies do not like to go to kindergarten may also belong to a child's behavioral psychological development stage, after going to kindergarten is not like freedom at home, there will be psychological resistance, parents should understand this process, guide children to know the relativity of freedom, guide children to experience the sense of achievement after learning new knowledge after going to kindergarten, encourage children in time, children will love to go to kindergarten.

For children who are entering kindergarten for the first time, because they have left the familiar living environment and the care of their parents, they will have the problem of separation anxiety. This situation can have a very big impact on the child and needs to be dealt with by taking steps to deal with it. ......Specifically, to cope with and solve the problem of separation anxiety in children, it is necessary to lead the child to do adaptive exercises in advance, give the child care and comfort to help him calm down, and guide the child to discover interesting things in the new environment and generate interest.

1. If you want to eliminate your child's separation anxiety, you need to lead your child to do adaptive exercises in advance.

The root cause of separation anxiety in children is that they are not familiar with the new environment and feel uncomfortable. ......Therefore, parents should lead their children to do adaptation exercises in advance to help them have the ability to quickly adapt to the new environment, which can help them effectively overcome separation anxiety and adapt to the new environment.

2. Give your child care and comfort to help him calm down.

When a child has separation anxiety problems, he needs care and comfort the most. At this time, parents should try to be with their children as much as possible, so that they can feel cared for, so that their discomfort with the new environment can be alleviated, and finally separation anxiety can be eliminated.

3. Guide children to discover interesting things in the new environment and become interested, which can eliminate separation anxiety.

In the new environment of kindergarten, there are a lot of interesting things that are attractive to children. ......When the child comes to the new environment for the first time and has separation anxiety because he does not feel comfortable, parents can guide the child to discover interesting things in the new environment and become interested in it, so that he can become familiar with and adapt to the new environment as soon as possible, so as to completely solve the problem of separation anxiety and grow up healthily in the new environment.

1. Hug your child.

It is very normal for a child to cry on the first day of kindergarten. Some parents feel particularly ashamed when they see their children crying, and even yell at their children, hoping that their children will obey their authority. Then I think it is completely impossible for parents to do this, and we must pay attention to it.

For children, the home environment is completely different from the kindergarten environment, and they tend to be more timid when they come to a new environment. Then parents must care more about their children, we must give their children a hug, and encourage children to welcome the new life of kindergarten.

2. Calm your child's emotions.

Many children will still cry after a week of kindergarten, so parents must calm their children's emotions, and there are many parents who cry silently when they see their children crying. For children, after reaching a certain age, they must go to kindergarten, if they do not let their children go to school, it will hinder the healthy growth of children. Parents should let go appropriately and let their children embrace their new lives.

3. Encourage your child.

Some children are more timid, so when they face the new environment, they will be very scared, and even cry when they come back from kindergarten. Then parents must give their children more encouragement, we should let their children make more new friends, so that children can integrate into the new environment as soon as possible, and at the same time, it is recommended that parents go to see their children during the break.

There are many reasons why kindergarten children cry, but crying in children who are just starting school is usually due to separation anxiety. When a child leaves a familiar person or environment, it produces a strong emotional response of anxiety, upset, or unpleasantness, a manifestation known as "separation anxiety" in the early childhood education profession.

Except for a few children who are not afraid of strangers and have strong adaptability, most children have separation anxiety to a greater or lesser extent, children with a milder degree may be slightly restless or depressed, more serious children are irritable and crying, and more serious children are accompanied by headaches, abdominal pain, nausea and other physical reactions.

1. Take your children to get familiar with the kindergarten.

If you take your child to kindergarten before school starts, your child will cry less by the time school actually starts. Nowadays, many kindergarten registration will be carried out a few months in advance, parents can determine which kindergarten their child will enter very early, parents should take their children to kindergarten before entering the kindergarten to familiarize themselves with the environment, conditions allow it is recommended to go several times, so that children know what interesting things are in the kindergarten, so that children will even have expectations for kindergarten.

2. Adjust your child's work and rest time.

Some children may feel that the kindergarten is not good at home, so they start to feel homesick, and then start to be anxious and crying. Parents should let their children develop the same routine at home as early as possible, so that their children can adapt to kindergarten life as soon as possible. If you don't do this in advance, it's important for parents to start now, otherwise your child may cry for a longer time in the future.

3. Find a sense of belonging in kindergarten.

For children, kindergarten is a completely unfamiliar environment, all the furnishings are unfamiliar, teachers and classmates are also unfamiliar, even the utensils for eating and drinking will be unfamiliar, which makes them feel scared. In fact, we can also let children find a sense of belonging in kindergarten.

You can prepare some exclusive supplies for your child, such as your own school bag, drinking glass, towel, pillow and quilt, and even one or two beloved toys, these familiar things can give your child some psychological comfort. If possible, go to the same kindergarten with your child's best friend. Many parents generally choose a kindergarten closer to home, if there are children in their community who also go to this kindergarten, then let the child go to school with their friends, and the child's separation anxiety will be reduced a lot.

4. Communicate interesting things in kindergarten with children.

After the child goes to kindergarten, parents should communicate more with the child about going to kindergarten, such as asking the child what the teacher said today, how many classmates you know, what the classmates played with you, etc., and it is best to discuss it with the child, rather than simply making a report. Over time, children will find that there are many interesting things to do in kindergarten and will fall in love with kindergarten more. Don't complain about kindergarten too often, though.

It is very common for children to cry in kindergarten, basically every child will have symptoms of crying in kindergarten, this is due to the child suddenly changing a new environment, people and things in the new environment are not familiar with the new environment, and lack of sense of security, so there will be symptoms of crying, such a situation is not related, and the child will slowly adapt to the life of the kindergarten, the symptoms of crying will be alleviated and do not need to **, the child can go home and coax more.

First of all, the child is not adaptable, timid can not do without mom and dad, this type of child is afraid of the unfamiliar environment, adapt to a few days, some children are bold and do not fear of life? Will the personality be? Either mom and dad can comfort or the kindergarten teacher will have some good ways to keep the child from crying!!