Why is grandma always truncated by grandma when she takes her baby to the age of three?

Is Grandma <> willing to quit? The reason behind it is moving.

Many families with children will appear, grandma before the age of three with children, grandma after the age of three with children, so why do some grandmothers willingly give up their children to grandma?

1) Exercise your daughter's ability to raise children independently.

Many first-born parents have no experience in bringing babies, and the elderly, as people who have come over, often hope that their children can take care of their children by themselves, which can not only enhance the relationship between children and parents, but also reduce the pressure of the elderly.

Nowadays, it is more and more common for grandmothers and grandmothers to take care of children, and many young parents are becoming less and less experienced in raising children.

Therefore, many grandmothers are willing to take the initiative to withdraw from the task of taking care of the children, and let the children take care of the children themselves, after all, the children are their own, and cultivating the independent ability of the children is an important factor.

2) Enjoy your old age.

The old people are not as strong as the young people when they are old, and if they take care of children for a long time, they will also be physically exhausted, which will seriously affect the lives of the elderly. Moreover, the elderly should enjoy their old age when they are older, and if they spend all their time with children, it will reduce the time for the elderly to enjoy their old age.

3) Enhance the relationship with grandma.

Just like Xiaohua's family, the child has been with his grandmother for a long time, but he doesn't know anything about his grandmother, which makes the relationship between the child and his grandmother gradually fade. Grandma does not want to affect the harmony of the family because of the child, so she often chooses to quit automatically, so that the child can communicate more with grandma and increase the relationship with grandma.

This is actually the love for the child, but also the care of the son-in-law and daughter, the deep affection behind it will not be expressed, but the children must understand.

What kind of elderly people are suitable for children?

If you want your children to grow up healthily, it is also very important to choose the right elderly, so what kind of elderly people should parents choose to take care of their children?

1) Be in good health.

Only when the elderly are healthy can they take care of their children wholeheartedly, help their children solve all kinds of small things, and can easily cope with children's problems, and the elderly who are in good health can also share the affairs of the family and reduce unnecessary troubles for the family.

2) Good living habits.

The living habits of the elderly will unconsciously permeate the lives of children and be used by children, so the elderly themselves have good living habits in order to set an example for children.

3) Generous personality.

The growth of children also depends on the attitude of the elderly towards children, if you often beat and criticize children, naturally children will not form a good psychology, so you should choose the elderly with a generous personality.

When young people welcome the arrival of a new life, they should be prepared to be responsible, and do not leave the mess and let the old people clean it up.

Parents should try their best to take care of their children, so that the elderly can enjoy their old age freely, and when the elderly take care of their children, they should also comfort and understand the elderly, coordinate the internal relationship of the family, and reduce the pressure of parents.

It may be that grandma thinks that the child has grown up and knows who is good to her, so grandma always has her beard cut off when she takes the baby to the age of three.

Because grandma is also a relative of the child, grandma is also an immediate relative, and she also has feelings for the child, and the child is sensitive, and whoever is good to the child will be close to the child.

There are many such phenomena, some grandmothers feel that it is troublesome to take children when the children are young, and when the children are old enough to go to kindergarten, they feel that the children at this time are easy to bring, and they will send them to the kindergarten every day and pick them up.

After the age of three, the child will form his own memory, if he is asked to take the grandmother, then he will only have very few memories about the grandmother's side, so the grandmother will intercept the child.

From the perspective of the grandmother herself, there may also be an element of getting closer to the child, after all, the child will kiss whoever takes it for a long time, and there is no way to do it.

Because the baby at this time has a strong learning ability, some of the living habits of the elderly are not good for the child. After the child is 3 years old, it is better to bring it by himself.

Because the child reaches the age of three, the memory will be slowly formed, at this time who is with more accompaniment, the child will be closer to whom, many grandmothers are worried that the child is not close to themselves, so at this time the baby from the side.

One is that there is a period of tiredness with children, and the children have been brought for three years, and grandma also needs a certain amount of time to rest and buffer; The second is that children after the age of three are relatively easy to bring, and grandma chooses to take relatively large children, which is easier and more effort-saving.

Because it is difficult to carry a child before the age of three, the child needs to be taken care of. After the age of three, the child slowly becomes sensible, and the grandmother will want to take it, and the child has no memory before the age of three.

Because the three-year-old baby is sensible, he can eat by himself, walk by himself, and do not need to wake up at night to feed, and the 4-year-old can go to kindergarten, so the grandmother at this time will generally appear!

The most difficult time to bring has passed, and three-year-old children are just having fun, they will coax and tease, and if it is later, the feelings will not be easy to cultivate.

Because before the child is three years old, the grandmother is reluctant to bring. It is especially tiring with children. In fact, it is best for grandma to take care of children, so as to avoid many contradictions.

Grandma felt that the doll was very easy to take at this time, so she took Yu Ying's child away. They feel that good things should be given to themselves, and they are the best. Grandma's approach is not good for children, so grandma is better. or destroy the source.

The main reason is that the grandmother thinks that the child after the age of three will be better to bring, in fact, it should be better for the more open-minded party to take the child.