Does everyone have merit? How do I see all my shortcomings?

Don't be too pessimistic Everyone has shortcomings and there will be advantages You only see the shortcomings Is it that you are more or less psychologically inferior But it doesn't matter Just like the first floor said Some people will only see their own little It's really annoying You must not have discovered your strengths Ask the people around you They will definitely say your strengths But don't be so inferior as to think that they are flattering you Since they think these are your strengths You boldly accept it Knowing that you have shortcomings is also an advantage Support the first floor.

Most of a person's strengths are reflected in the eyes of others, if you think you yourself are perfect and have many advantages, you are too narcissistic, right? You can see your shortcomings, or at least prove that you are real. But be confident, everyone has strengths, at least you lack the eye to spot it.

Me too. It seems that I didn't find any good in it.

Once, when I was talking to a very good friend of mine, I said that I didn't have any good points.

As a result, she told me a whole lot about my strengths.

I'm ashamed, why didn't I even notice it myself.

The most discoveries turned out to be the lack of eyes to find beauty.

Look, you're self-aware, unlike some people who can't even see your own shortcomings, that's your strength.

Don't be too yourself, though.

Everyone is not perfect.

People who often see their own shortcomings are relatively good people. I think that's often the case with people I know in reality.

Why do you look at others are advantages, see yourself are shortcomings, it's normal, because you don't know others, others show that they are very good aspects of themselves, your own shortcomings must be hidden, not let others find out, you yourself know yourself very well, so you know yourself well, especially some shortcomings, look at it more seriously, often continue to magnify your own shortcomings, this is very normal, so you don't care too much, adjust your mentality, occasionally praise yourself, tell yourself, Actually, you're pretty good.

I'm the same way, it's a typical inferiority complex, it's a long time to be influenced by your surroundings (your family or your life circle), and not often get genuine praise from others, and that's okay, from now on you do what you think you can't do (very important!). In fact, you are much better than others, and others may not be able to discover and admit their own shortcomings, in fact, you are very good, it doesn't matter if you have shortcomings, you are not a person if you have shortcomings ( - You will live like that once, don't always live for others, don't always put your eyes on others.

The first truth of life is to know yourself. This is what our great philosopher Socrates said, know yourself, you will not be confused, know yourself, you know how to respect yourself.

In fact, how to know yourself, we may start with the advantages and disadvantages of each person, everyone has advantages and disadvantages, and the advantages and disadvantages are two sides of the same person.

We know this fact and truth, and you will find that the character of any person is a mixture of strengths and weaknesses. Everyone is imperfect.

So don't think we're perfect, and when we want to take the moral high ground and talk about the shortcomings of others, you may need to understand that you're not perfect either.

The nature of imperfection tells us that being more tolerant and tolerant of others' personalities is actually a manifestation of accepting ourselves, and naturally our popularity and popularity will be better.

True strength comes from an incomparable reverence for life. Reverence is the beginning that opens our wisdom, and without reverence, our hearts will be filled with all kinds of pride and prejudice, which will affect our ability to see others, and even more so to affect our ability to make good judgments.

No one is perfect, everyone has advantages and disadvantages, and it is impossible to be useless and not a hundred yards. We must make full use of our own strengths and specialties and give full play to them, and we will reap the rewards of our efforts.

Don't talk about feelings when you're poor. Improving oneself and working hard is just what is needed; If you have money, you will naturally be surrounded by beautiful women, and if you don't have money, you will talk about it in vain, which is a pure waste of time and energy.

Don't engage in interpersonal relationships when you're poor. The circles are different, they can't be hard-melted, melted and melted in vain, and wasted feelings; The circle is the same, uninvited, pushing the cup and changing the lamp, and having fun. Be clear about which circle you are in.

The most important thing is that people are not exhausted. When people are poor, they are afraid of losing confidence, being poor and short-sighted, complaining about others, and giving up on themselves. Only by persevering and moving forward bravely can we get out of the trough of life.

If you are poor, you will think about change, learn lessons, change your thinking, adjust your thinking, and reformulate a new life plan and life goals.

If you are poor, you should be good to yourself, be strict with yourself, improve your quality, and enrich your connotation; Don't indulge in short-term entertainment, don't engage in useless socializing, make less friends with alcohol and meat, and pay less attention to people and things that have nothing to do with you.

Everyone's life is a process of finding themselves, to say that everyone understands themselves very clearly?

Or are they all particularly able to recognize that they have no shortcomings? In fact, not necessarily, when we are confused and confused in our unremitting efforts, we may sometimes lose hope and confidence. If the opportunity does come, how can we seize it?

No one is perfect, and everyone has their strengths and weaknesses.

In fact, it is not necessarily your friend who points out your shortcomings in many places, but it is you who really have friends who point out your shortcomings after everyone has left. Perseverance is inseparable from your strengths and weaknesses, and you can make up for your shortcomings by clearly understanding your strengths and weaknesses and giving full play to your greatest strengths. Rather than just looking at your own strengths and the shortcomings of others, and what impact your own efforts will have.

In daily life and work, we must learn to respect the opinions of others.

Able to listen to others point out their strengths and weaknesses. Regardless of whether his opinion is desirable or not, what is his identity and position. We all have to listen or analyze and learn rationally, and work hard without being hasty.

If we can do it, we will be more mature and steady, and we will be more brilliant in our future life with our own efforts.

Treat the advantages and disadvantages of hospitality, do not feel inferior and depressed, and do not appear too proud and proud.

For the advantages and disadvantages, you should treat them equally, and do not overemphasize or downplay the strengths and weaknesses. By recognizing the strengths and weaknesses, you can better grasp the abilities and limitations, so as to better plan your career and life development. Continuous improvement through learning, experience accumulation and reflection.

Treating ourselves with our own strengths and weaknesses can help us better understand our abilities and limitations, and lay a solid foundation for our life and career development.