How could I have such parents 30

In fact, people's minds change at every stage, or they have been slowly maturing, and there may be more such things than you, perhaps worse than you. We can't choose, we can only be ourselves, and if nothing satisfies them, you must make yourself strong. I was just like you when I was younger.

I think they may have wanted you to be good too much, or maybe to put it bluntly, they may not have had much education at the time, and they didn't communicate with their children like other parents to know what they wanted. It is also possible that your parents' relationship is not very good. You have to think more about them, because parents want their children to be well, so much so that they have extremely selfish opinions in their hearts.

Make you the person they want you to be. And how could you become. I used to swear I wouldn't raise my father when I grew up because he broke my heart back then.

And now I think, even if I am struck by lightning, I must be filial to them. Everyone's life is different, and even if it's the same, the details are different.

Yes, now as a parent, I can only talk about myself.

1. Don't trust children. Many parents have this cognitive misunderstanding, and they think that if we ignore our children, we will destroy them. Children are likely to kill people and set fires, and be lawless.

Parents manage their children every day and worry about their children, and this mode of getting along continues, and the result is that children outsource this part of their own management functions to their parents. The child's self-management ability is weakened, and even the gap has not been cultivated. Therefore, many children have no motivation to learn and are not proactive, which is the result of excessive substitution by their parents.

2. Treat the child as a machine without emotions and feelings. Many parents especially like obedient children, hoping that their children will obey their words, don't talk back, don't refute, parents issue instructions, and the child will be obedient and do what he says. Treat children like machines.

She is to obey my commands. Otherwise, you will be beaten. We are emotionally isolated from our children at this time, and many of our children's problems are caused by their parents' improper parenting methods.

3. Parents regard themselves as gods and rarely show their true selves in front of their children. Many parents have high moral standards for themselves, want to behave perfectly in front of their children, completely ignore their own needs and feelings, and are willing to sacrifice themselves for their children. Ask yourself not to have emotions, not to lose your temper, and want to be a perfect parent.

But the result is not only a lot of pressure on the child's heart, but also exhaustion himself.

I've seen it, aren't you such a parent, why should you care about how much money you give your child, be a man, the life of the older generation itself is more difficult, so you will be more concerned about how you can make money, but you can get by a little better, this is not wrong, we do Zixin Zheng Xinu to make the life of parents better, and Cong Shi is not to get anything from his parents.

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and parents have their own reasons for doing things.

It is a misfortune in our lives to meet such parents. But we must not give up on ourselves, the more such an environment, the more we can't give up on ourselves, because without the protection of our parents, we must learn to grow up, be strong, not give up on ourselves, and live a good life.

Words to meet such parents. Then try to make yourself as strong as possible. In the future, it is better to stay away from your parents, and only you can save yourself.

Each family has its own difficulties, and the parents' approach is a little too extensive, the reason may be that the parents are also busy with other things, so they form a disregard for you, no matter what, the parents are still good at home, and it is also for your future sake.

Such parents are more irritable, but it is difficult to say that you do not have the right mentality as a parent, so I hope you can communicate with your parents.

Such parents are indeed a bit excessive, and their unfortunate life is still imposed on their children, which is a bit excessive, this is a serious psychological deformity, and you should see a psychiatrist.

Parents are quite irresponsible and don't care much about their children, maybe this is also a kind of philosophy of theirs, wanting their children to be more independent.

Do you know the water and the moon? The passage of time is like this water, but it has not really passed; What is round and lacking is like this month, and there is no increase or decrease after all. It can be seen that from the volatile side of things, everything in heaven and earth is changing all the time, and even the blink of an eye does not stop; And from the unchanging side of things, all things are eternal with us, so what is there to envy?

Moreover, between heaven and earth, there is a ruler of all things, and if it is not what you should have, you cannot ask for even a penny. Only the breeze on the river, and the bright moon in the mountains, when you hear it, it becomes a sound, and when you enter the eye, it paints a shape, and no one will forbid it to obtain it, and there will be no exhaustion of worries when you feel it. This is a gift from nature, and there is no endless praise for the brows and the decadence.

Hello, you have to be strong, the only thing we can't choose is our parents.

Good children, don't quarrel with them, quietly talk to the people who can call the shots among relatives and friends about these situations, your mother has mental problems, or go to the hospital for a check-up, and it will be fine with some medicine.

Study hard to make yourself a better person and help your parents get out of the trough.

It's really not good like this, sister, you have to learn to respect other people's choices and lives, your mother gave birth to you and raised you, whether it is good or not, it is a kindness, all you can do is to be yourself, and let your mother take care of her when she needs you. You can only give your parents a good life when you are strong, right? That you.

Yes, it is normal, and it is treated with a normal heart.

Your current efforts, hardships, pressures, and all the things you are bearing are all in order to save enough ability and capital to do what you like more and fight for your right to choose.

Shouldering their ardent hopes. Every time you are hurt and shaken, think more about their eyes and their love

Being a mother really has a mental problem. Neurology should be seen.

Don't set unattainable goals for yourself because of the pursuit of perfection, in fact, happiness is very simple, just like having a big house where there is no shortage of what you want and nothing superfluous. It is the bell that rings, what has passed is the years, what is planted is hope, what is left is the story, what is hoped for is beauty, what is sent is blessing, may my friend: happy every day!

Happiness all the time!