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Anonymous users2024-02-11Implement soft education and education communication first. Children learn to scold parents should first reflect on whether it is related to their usual bad words, if so, when communicating with children, they should first apologize to their children, tell their children that their mistakes will be corrected in the future, and then explain to their children that scolding is wrong, hoping that the child can also correct it, indicating that both parties will supervise and correct.
If the child's scolding is learned from others, it should also focus on educational communication. When the child is young, he is well-behaved, and there is no need to beat him and scold him to solve the problem, even if it is solved, it will make the child feel uncomfortable and will inevitably commit it again in the future.
Of course, if education is not good, it is not impossible to beat him occasionally, after all, some bear children can only use violence to tell him that they are really angry, not smiling with him. After the beating, don't rush to comfort the child, tell him why you hit him seriously, and tell him what to do.
In short, it is a bad phenomenon for bear children to scold, and it is necessary to focus on education first, after all, parents are also distressed when they beat their children.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10The bear child scolds, as a parent, you must first simply understand what happened, understand why the bear child scolds, and then educate!
The bear child can't tell right from wrong, maybe sometimes he scolds others as a kind of self-protection! It may be that he has been greatly wronged, or it may be that the person bullied him, so he scolds.
If this is the case, if the adult goes up to educate the child, it will inevitably make the child think that no matter what others do, whether they sit right or not should accept it. Then when the child grows up, he will become cowardly and dare not defend his legitimate rights and interests.
Of course, scolding is not right in any case, but scolding for self-protection is different from the nature of active scolding, and the education method is completely different. In the case above, we don't need to blame the child too much, but teach the child some ways to handle things correctly.
If the bear child scolds others indiscriminately, the parents must stop it, and let the bear child admit his mistake to others. No matter what the attitude of the bear child is (some bear children will not apologize), parents must admit their mistakes and gain the understanding of others. This is the minimum attitude that parents should have.
Parents do this to set an example for the bear child, and he will listen to his parents in the future. A place with a lot of people must not be the best place for parents to educate their children, so don't be ashamed in front of the public, and take the children away first.
After returning home, parents must reason with their children, tell him that he is wrong today, and can also give corresponding punishments, so that he can bear the consequences for doing wrong. It is also necessary to tell the child the seriousness of casual scolding, and if he encounters someone who is stronger than him, he is likely to suffer from flesh and skin.
Maybe once the child can't listen to it, but if you educate him regularly, he should gradually get better. Some people say that bear children do not do well because their parents do not do enough. This sentence is very right, if parents let it go, then the bear child will always be a bear child; But if parents discipline them in time, the bear child will one day become an excellent child!
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Anonymous users2024-02-09The bear child was beaten for doing something, and the parents were distressed to ask for an explanation, netizens: Who can you blame if you don't teach it?
Introduction: Nowadays, many families are only children, and there are many parents who treat their children very pampered, which can be said to be afraid of falling in their hands and afraid of melting in their mouths. It is completely different from the previous stick out of filial piety, and now the child stumbles, and the parents have to feel distressed for a long time.
Isn't this such a pampered bear child being beaten by a strange man, what is going on?
It all started with the child's mother's request for help. The mother told reporters:His child was thrown to the ground by a strange man for no reason and slapped hard.
The reporter couldn't help but wonder, how rampant this strange man is, to beat a child for no reason? Then the reporter and the mother came to the place where the man was, but unexpectedly got another statement from the man's mouth.
After this matter was said,For their child's behavior, the parents also apologized to the man. At the same time, the man also apologized to the parents for teaching the child privatelyThe matter was also reconciled.
After this incident came out, it was quickly hotly discussed by many netizens. Many netizens watch the bracelet line show:Why can't you see your child knocking on someone's door, but you can see it when you are beaten?
I just want to say that you play well, you don't teach others to teach you, although it hurts a little, but you can remember it for a long time. Because if you have been defending your children in front of your children, it will definitely make your children feel that no matter what mistakes they make, they will be protected by their parents, and if this goes on like this, won't the children be lawless?
There are also some netizens who feel:It's normal for children to be naughty, just teach a lesson, and there's no need to hit someone. In addition, Burning Xuan also wants to say to this mother, your child's behavior has interfered with others, and it has not been done once or twice, haven't you found out before?
This slap is a slap that saves your child, and he makes him understand that there is always a price to pay for doing whatever you want.
In the author's opinion, the emergence of bear children is because the education of these parents is not in place. If the parents of the children are smart, they should know that this is the time to educate the children, so that the children know the consequences of doing the wrong things. In fact, the author also hates these bear children very much, they are really too lawless sometimes, especially those unreasonable parents, it is really a headache.
But if you don't teach your own children, there will always be someone to teach, I don't know if you will regret that you are too doting on your children when they make big mistakes in the future.
Today's topic:
What bear children have you seen?
For example, if you just bought a new water bottle, or you just bought a new mobile phone, as long as they pass through their hands, they will become a bad thing, and they feel quite helpless, and they generally give her a certain lesson or punishment.
I would first and again warn him or his parents that these things are very important to me and that they are expensive, and that they should not be messed around. If I find that if they still don't listen to others and break me, I will directly ask his parents to pay for it, and no one has an obligation to give it to his children.
In fact, some parents are quite cute, just like a child, childlike, funny, I think it's very good, quite distinctive, although it doesn't take into account the child's feelings, but the name or something, it's just a code name! If they are all such serious people, how can they have so much fun, maybe the parents are a memorial to their children, so I don't think it's the fault of the parents.
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