Elementary school students are deliberately tricked by their classmates, what should parents do?

When a child is teased by classmates at school, parents should calm their children's emotions, and then enlighten them through their own examples, guide them to realize that it is not their own problem, and should not let themselves fall into this negative emotion, and finally parents can do something to communicate with the teacher in time, so that the teacher can deal with this matter positively.

If primary school students are deliberately tricked by their classmates, parents should teach their children how to deal with problems, not interfere with problems, and only by teaching children how to deal with relationships with classmates can children grow up.

At this time, we should tell our children that if he plays tricks on you, you should also play tricks back, don't let yourself be wronged at school, be okay in school, don't cause trouble, and don't be afraid of things.

Parents should let their children become good friends with that classmate. There is nothing too malicious about telling your child to do this at the same time. You should take the initiative to find out the specific situation.

Parents should not get involved in this matter, but should tell their children how to solve it, and if it can't be solved, then intervene.

As a parent, how would you deal with your child bullying his classmates at school? There is no love without a reason in the world, and there is no hate without a reason. Children are bullied at school, and we ask at a deep level, why are they being bullied?

Have other children been bullied? Figure out the reason. There must be a reason for being bullied.

Some children are pampered at home, and when they arrive at school, this habit does not change, and they do not adapt to the school environment, so they will cause disgust from their classmates, and they may be bullied at this time; There are also few exchanges and communication at home, and when they go to school, they will bring this habit of not communicating and not communicating to their classmates, and as a result, their classmates may not look good; Another point may be that you bump into a classmate and don't apologize or communicate.

All in all, there are many reasons. But there is one point, the solution is to communicate with the person, if you can't communicate, you can communicate with the teacher and parents. Don't cover up the problem and drag it on for too long, so that it will form the said child being bullied at school.

Whether it is being bullied or there are other reasons, it must be put on the table to talk about it, which is good for the child's physical and mental health. If you are bullied by your classmates at school, parents and teachers must be cool-headed and deal with it reasonably, otherwise it is easy to cause unpredictable consequences. First of all, the reason why the child is being bullied is investigated.

Is bullying a child impulsive, or is it a long-term behavior? Is it your own child's problem, or someone else's child's problem?

Second, it is necessary to "prescribe the right medicine". If it is the fault of their own children, parents should strengthen education. If it is the cause of other children, the teacher should strengthen the education.

If your child is discriminated against by her classmates because of poor family or other reasons, parents should report to the teacher, and after the teacher has failed to educate the bully-loving child, he should report to the parents of the bully-loving child. At the same time, it is intentional to praise the bullied child in class so that he can establish his authority among his classmates. Finally, it is necessary to grasp a certain degree.

No matter who the reason is, parents must grasp a certain degree and must not act excessively. Otherwise, it is easy to intensify the conflict between the parents of both sides and cause unpredictable consequences. Therefore, no matter how much the child is wronged at school, as a parent, you must deal with it calmly.

If you have tried all kinds of attempts, and the effect is very poor, you might as well "go up with thirty-six strategies", we can't afford to hide, and it is also a good choice to transfer children to classes or schools.

I will deal with it properly, and will educate the child ideologically, shape the correct moral concept for the child, let the child understand that it is wrong to bully classmates, and let the child take the initiative to apologize to his classmates.

I would go to school and apologize to my classmates who were being bullied, and then apologize to the teacher. When you go home and educate your children, don't bully your classmates anymore, this is not right, and you must get along with your classmates.

I will punish my own child because his behavior is not very good, and such behavior may make him more extreme.

I will communicate with my child, ask him why he is bullying others, and make sure that my child apologizes to other classmates.

First of all, you have to have confidence in yourself, ignore the teasing of others, and after a long time, they will not play tricks on you anymore if they find it boring.

Let your son practice sa and overwhelm them in momentum.

1.A classmate who plays tricks on others must be a classmate who lacks a tutor and has a bad character. Your son should stay away from these classmates and do what he has to do!

2.It is recommended that you encourage your child to fight hard and devote his mind to learning and strive to be excellent and excellent. (This way, the teacher will praise him, the classmates will be impressed, and your child will have a sense of pride).

3.If the pranks of these classmates have a serious impact on your child's physical and mental health, you still have to report it to the school immediately, and the school will deal with it seriously!

4.As a student, it is only right that you should do your own learning, and using your mind to tease your classmates can only show that your character is poor, so that you are a report card comment that leaves a stain, and if you don't do it well, you will be punished by the school, which is really worth the loss! It is recommended that you talk about this truth to your child, and his psychology will be balanced!

I wish your child to study hard and make progress every day!

1. Learn to protect yourself. In the face of unprovoked bullying on campus, we must teach our children to protect themselves, we don't hurt others, but we never allow others to hurt us! This awareness of self-protection is not something that can be cultivated overnight, and parents should consciously cultivate it in their daily lives.

In ordinary life, increase children's physical exercise and enhance physical strength. Cultivate your child's courage and self-confidence in life, so that they will have enough ability to fight back when facing bullying.

2. Distinguish intentions and distinguish between good and evil. Many children in school may not be malicious. The child is small, and it is normal to fight simply because of things like grabbing food and toys, at this time, we don't have to be very serious, just pull the child away and explain the reason clearly.

But there is also a part of school bullying, which requires children to learn to distinguish the relationship between the two, only by distinguishing good and evil, and figuring out intentions, children can get along better with their friends in school, and they can better protect themselves.

3. Be yourself and be tolerant. Many behaviors among children may be inadvertent, especially in the early grades of kindergarten and primary school, when children can't distinguish the severity of the fight and the boundaries of getting along, it is easy to cause friction. Therefore, teach children to be moderately tolerant, and in the face of no malicious behavior of their friends, they can be solved with tolerance, that is, unpleasant occurrence is avoided, and children also learn an excellent character!

4. Learn to express and ask for help. After all, the child's experience is relatively small, and many things may be encountered for the first time, and they don't know what can be done to solve them, and even if they come up with some solutions, they may make things worse. Therefore, parents must always be the friends behind the child, and let the child feel your existence at all times, and when he has something that cannot be solved, he can also learn to ask others for help.

When educating children, parents should first teach their children to protect their own things, others have no right to take their own things casually, and they must also learn to be brave enough to say "no". Children who blindly tolerate will only suffer more grievances and will not have a positive effect. Parents need to let their children know that it is not difficult to express themselves firmly.

Sometimes there is a lot of theory, but when it comes to practice, children may still hesitate and worry. Because children worry that when they say "no", other children will be unhappy. But it doesn't matter, all exercises need to be repeated constantly, and continuous practice can make children know how to express themselves firmly.

Some time ago, I was chatting with a professional counselor friend, and she told me about an incident that happened in her home, and I was particularly shocked!

When her son was in junior high school, he once had a small conflict with his classmates at school, and the parents of his classmates actually came to school and slapped their children! After the friend and his wife knew, as parents, our instinct was to protect the calf, my friend's husband directly brought a car of people to block the door of the community where the child letter cover classmate lived, the situation was very scary, and finally the parents of the classmate apologized to the friend and the whole family in front of the child and the teacher! My friend said that since this incident, the child has been very confident in everything he does, because the child knows that he has strong support from his father and mother after growing up!

Some time ago, on Douyin, a kindergarten father consulted the dean, saying that his 5-year-old child was often bullied by classmates in kindergarten, and the child did not dare to fight back, especially unconfident, worried that things would make a big deal, and worried that the teacher would criticize him! The dean replied directly to the parent and followed the process to solve the problem of the child being bullied!

1. Communicate with the child first, say that the father is going to the school to find the teacher, and invite the parents who beat your child to come to the school to talk about it!

2. Clearly tell the child that you don't have to worry, Dad doesn't go to school to find trouble, but to solve problems!

3. Tell the teacher: We parents are here to solve the problem, and on the surface, it is a conflict between children, but in fact, it is also school violence! It's impossible for a teacher not to pay attention!

4. After inviting the parents, sincerely solve the problem, we are not looking for trouble on purpose, we must show that our children are not bullied once or twice, the problem is very serious, and I hope that the other party will cooperate with the discipline of their children! And apologize!

As a result of this treatment, not only did there be no quarrels, but our parents also gave specific support to their children through our specific behaviors! In the future, the child will not only be more confident, but also the parent-child relationship will get better and better! Who would dare to bully our children?