I want to be open and honest with my husband, is it okay?

Updated on society 2024-06-08
42 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Let's not talk about it yet.

    I think you want to exchange your "history" for your husband's honesty! Not necessarily. If you told him, do you know what he would think?

    You want your husband to be honest with you, as long as you are good to him, he will see it, why bother to show him his "scars"?

    Now that a girl is chasing him, then you can remind him that emotional games can't be played casually, and I hope you are cautious. Of course, you can't make a lot of noise, let alone cry, what you need at this time is calm, rational, calm, and free.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You just have to say the following to him, that is your position, and everything else is redundant, because your past does not have to be a burden to him, or an obstacle to your future marital discord, the past is gone:

    If you're in love with someone else, be sure to tell me.

    If you have a lover for a few years, don't let me know at the end, that will hurt me the most, because that's 7 lying to me.

    I'll hate you for the rest of my life.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think if you and your husband haven't lost their lives before, you will be full of him and be strict with him, I think it's okay, just tell him how to behave well and don't be influenced by the outside world. If you have lost your body before, don't say this to your husband, hide it; Rotten to the stomach, take your time with your husband, let him know that only you love him the most in this world, and let him know that only you are sincere for him. If he makes a small mistake, don't let the Hedong lion roar, make him feel sorry for his family, forgive him, he is no longer compliant from the heart.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Tell him about your past, that's what my girlfriend did, I think it's good, but it's been 3 years since you said it's too late, and it's the most worrying thing, and we're not good at calling the shots for you, so you're thinking about it yourself I wish you happiness.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Tell him there's a girl chasing me right now, but I haven't responded. Because I love my wife, even though we are now separated. I've only had sex with one woman so far, and I'm her only man.

    So it's important to cherish something.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    He loves you and won't leave you. If he can't resist the pursuit of other girls, how can he bear it together for the rest of his life? Love to be understanding and tolerant! You just have to love him well! You just love him more than you ever and say to him :) and you will be happy :)

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you know him, choose one that is acceptable to him.

    If you're really depressed, then explode.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's okay to talk to him frankly, which shows that you care about him very much!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Be confident in yourself. Don't be far-fetched to others. And he confessed. I'm sticking with you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Are you thinking too much about life is unknown so don't worry,. ,

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Oh. All right.

    Yikes. What.

    No. Not really.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you really love your husband, you should treat his father as your own father Otherwise, you are provoking the feelings of their father and son

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    First ask your husband to persuade his dad not to drink, and then suggest to your husband that his dad will stay in his own house honestly after drinking, and don't go to other people's houses to play drunk. also leave a good impression on the daughter-in-law, the posture of the person who drank is not good after all. Just say it slowly, don't make a mess of your husband because of this person, the relationship between the two of you is not good.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Take it seriously and talk in a way that is acceptable to him. The key is that it is not appropriate for the husband and wife to live separately, and it is best to be together, so that --- husband and wife have a good relationship and are also conducive to the education of children.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    As long as you are not by their side, this kind of thing will happen again in the future, resign, for the sake of the children and husband, and for the sake of this family.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Your husband misses you, and the children miss you, depending on your choice, career or family is important, if you choose a career, you will continue to separate.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Don't talk about it, let him choose!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Be honest and disclose everything, he will forgive you, really let go, and you can continue to walk.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    There are children who talk about children and you forgive him for his faults.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Just say that I forgave him this time, and I will never spare him next time.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You shouldn't tell your husband your secrets, because you didn't tell him at first, and if you tell him now, he will feel that you still have something to hide, which is not conducive to the development of two people.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Should. There is nothing that cannot be said between husband and wife, and one of the most important things in a marriage relationship is to be honest, if you don't tell your husband your secret, if one day he finds out through other means, then there may be cracks in your relationship.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Presumably. You are people who want to live together for a lifetime, both parties must be honest, your secret is his secret, just tell him, and avoid unnecessary troubles because of your secret in the future.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think I should tell my husband my secret. The most taboo thing for couples after marriage is that they are not honest with each other, and if you tell your husband your secret, maybe he can help you.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Yes, because husband and wife should be honest with each other, you are the ones who want to spend your life together, tell your husband your secrets, and your husband will share the secrets for you.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I think you should tell your husband your secrets, because husband and wife are one, share blessings and difficulties, and naturally be able to tell him your secrets.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    No. Because even if you are a husband and wife, you have to have your own private space. Some secrets are not easy to share with your husband, and if you share them, it will cause a breakdown in your relationship.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    No, everyone is an independent individual, and although they should be honest with each other, they still need personal space and do not need to tell secrets.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I think it should. Because her husband is a person who wants to be together for a lifetime, there is no need and should not hide anything from him.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If your previous boyfriend or husband loves you.

    The best thing I suggest is to tell you to love one another.

    There are no secrets between two people, you tell her if.

    He really loves you, he will only love you more, he will love someone, he won't.

    If he cares about your past, he will only care about you and him.

    What will you do after being together, no sorry for him on it.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    First of all, it is enough to have self-confidence, a clear conscience, don't be involved in other people's evaluations, go your own way, do your own thing, and life is always beautiful. Secondly, if both of you love each other and trust each other, this problem is not a problem at all, let alone the reason for the existence of this emotional killer. Care more, don't let him have a cold reception and be unhappy, don't avoid anything, you are not afraid of crooked shadows, and understand clearly that some things are in the past.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It doesn't matter, I don't care if it's everywhere or not. There is no point... Who doesn't have a past of their own?

    Let's talk about it·· Nothing.

    After saying that·· If your husband loves you... He's not going to fight someone who has passed away, is he?

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Your prince charming hasn't come yet, what's the hurry?

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If I really love you, I won't talk about the past. This is true love.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If I really love you, I won't mind, I think love can transcend everything.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Confess ......He loves you and will accept you.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Well, you do this because you love your husband too much, I understand very well, I deeply think that you should talk openly and honestly about this matter with your husband, if it causes your husband to misunderstand you, then it will not be good, do you say yes, it's okay, husband and wife have to be honest with each other, otherwise, it will affect the relationship between the two of you.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I think as long as your husband is good to you, you don't have to think so much about the rest, you have to believe him, if there is really something, will he come back and tell you, you have to have confidence in yourself, if you don't worry, talk to your husband openly and honestly, but talk softly, talk about your feelings, see what he says, if he cares about you, he will definitely care about your feelings, but if you don't speak properly, I guess he won't tell you anything in the future About anything with her My former boyfriend was the result, and then I didn't talk about it anymore In the end, it was the end of the breakup So you have to figure out how to say it first, and you tell him that my husband cares about you, you know? So I'm going to be very sensitive, I'm afraid of losing you, so I hope we don't affect our relationship for any other reason, like your first girlfriend, you can contact him, but let me know, okay, if you really want to meet, can you take me with you? So I think he should understand what you mean, and then add a husband to the back, I absolutely believe you, but I care about you too much, can you understand?

    If there is a better one, of course, it will be better, and it will be OK to organize the language.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    I'm not sick at the moment, if you continue to think like this, I guess you'll be really sick. Actually, your husband has helped you with everything, and I don't think there will be any problems for the time being. Looking at my husband's mobile phone, looking at QQ, I think it's very bad, if he knows, either quarrel or don't make a sound, so that there will be a thorn in his heart in the future.

    In fact, if he has a problem, you can manage it, you can't protect it 24 hours a day. If you find a problem, you just need to remind it appropriately. Trust him, you can live a relaxed life, especially now that you are pregnant with a baby.

    If you don't believe him, you will both die of exhaustion, and it will also affect the baby. He went outside and had nothing to feel out. Thinking will never solve the problem.

    Love is sometimes like quicksand, the tighter you hold on to it, the faster it will drain away. The advice is given to you, and you can figure out what I said for yourself. Weigh the considerations yourself.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    That means that your husband doesn't take what you're thinking about seriously at all, so you can relax and he doesn't care that much. But communication is still necessary

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    This is a misunderstanding of communication, since they are two people, of course, they should communicate openly and honestly, and there should not be too many little secrets between each other!

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    If life had never met, I would still be the same person, dreaming occasionally, and then, day after day, I began to run around and drown in the hustle and bustle of the city. I won't understand that there is such a you in this world, only you can make people reminisce, and only you will make me fascinated. If I hadn't met in my life, I wouldn't believe that there was a kind of person who could never get tired of seeing it, and there was a kind of person who felt warm as soon as they met.

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