A high school freshman s tangled psychological problems

Cause. 1. Why are those girls so bold?

For example, you yourself say that adolescent people have a kind of restlessness towards the opposite sex, but you only see one side, and the other side is that youth is really short-lived, especially for girls, in the mood for love. So why not enjoy it while doing a good job?

2. Why are you entangled?

You can't get involved in them. Or rather, you can't find your place among them.

3. There's nothing wrong with focusing on learning, but don't ignore other things that are just as important in life. It's not necessarily a good thing for students to focus on their studies, learn to balance and control all aspects of your life. So please communicate more and participate more.

It's normal for you to think about this, what you should do, I believe you also understand.

Don't always think about being like everyone else, blending in with other people or something, if you don't like or don't say anything about their way of life, don't follow them. Do what you think is right. The things you lose are very subtle, that is, you can't get along with them, you're different, a little lonely.

But what's the use of being with a group of people you can't even identify with? You can always find someone who shares your goals. Live your life.

I'm not a professional, but I hope I can help you.

I think that the change in the current student union is related to the social change, which is an open society. And you are both adolescent children, and the manifestations of puberty are different from person to person. So I hope you can see this, and there is no need to think about complicated things in ordinary things.

Open your heart, try to be friends with the classmates around you, and talk to each other about your heart, so you won't feel lonely.

Thinking too much and focusing on learning.

Judging by your description, your situation is similar to mine. The teacher can understand the class, and you can understand the answers yourself, which means that you are still quite smart. The reason why you don't get good grades is because you are not familiar with the knowledge you have learned and the topics you have encountered.

You said that your junior high school score is good, but you can't do it in high school, probably because the question type of the high school entrance examination is relatively rigid, and you can master the basic ideas of solving problems through long-term training. The topics in high school are much more flexible than those in junior high school, so you need to work harder.

For today's high school students, there isn't much time to read. You can try to speed up your homework and never find time to read a book. If you want to get time to read a book, you have to compress it from other times.

Regarding the study method, first of all, you should listen carefully in class and do the questions carefully. The teacher will definitely assign some homework to sort out the questions or knowledge, like this kind of homework, if you think you will definitely not read it, it is better to be so-so and perfunctory, and the extra time is better to read a book. But if you look closely, it's helpful.

The topics should be simple and basic, and any big topic is composed of small topics. Once the foundation is solid, you won't get the questions, and you don't know how to start. Also, don't make too many reference books, if you do too much, it's easy to forget, and in the end you don't remember anything.

The key is to review what you've learned. There is also Chinese English or something, accumulation is also very important, you can memorize more words and sentence patterns when you have time.

When you enter high school, there will be a run-in period, whether it is between you and the teacher, as well as the inconsistency of junior and high school teaching methods, you don't have to be too nervous, you will adapt, as for the boys' grades you said will be better than the girls' grades later, that can't be said like this, the good grades in our class are all girls, because girls work harder, let me say this, boys will come later, especially in the third year of high school, will be like a sudden enlightenment, and the results will indeed be very fast (especially mathematics), but we say that the college entrance examination is not only about mathematics ( Of course, it's a bit utilitarian to say this), but there is indeed English, Chinese, +1, comprehensive, this is that you can't improve your smartness, it's not good to memorize, it's completely nonsense, it's really not good, you think about it again, you have worked hard for more than 10 years, others have worked hard for more than 1 year, and the results will surpass you, that's too unreasonable! ~

So, I suggest you, now you can memorize the English vocabulary list, now the college entrance examination English heavy reading more than grammar, just the third year of high school is not enough, I just finished the exam this year, we rolled 2 sides of the word, can remember 70% is very good, in addition to English is also very good to pull scores

Math, you can preview The importance of pre-study I believe that the junior high school teacher said the most important thing is to believe in yourself! ~

I'm also a freshman in high school, and I've played all the summer vacations, and I'm quite tangled, and there must be a way to get to the mountain for three years!!

First of all, be confident. If you lack self-confidence, you will definitely not be able to do well.

Secondly, it is necessary to cultivate good study methods and habits. There is a certain difference between high school and junior high school, the difficulty and depth are deepened, and learning requires a certain degree of autonomy and time. Therefore, if you don't understand, ask the teacher in time; After class, you need to seize the time, review and consolidate, and do more extracurricular exercises.

Also, it's important to have clear goals. You can set big goals first, and then set small goals, so that you can better tap your learning potential and form a virtuous circle.

What I'm saying may not be too specific, but that's all for it, you still have to rely on yourself to learn, as long as you have a self-motivated heart, learning is not a difficult task.

Good luck with your studies!

I said that you are not worried about the sky, you didn't make Jiang Luo, I think I was tall back then.

First, the first semester of the second and third years of high school put all the scheming on playing computer games, and worked hard in the last semester of high school or took the 2 books (this semester is very hard), first of all, I am not bragging about how good I am, in fact, high school learning is almost the same, that is, there are a few more subjects, I think no matter which subject, you should first figure out the knowledge points, remember the concepts and formulas to remember, and then look at a few classic questions (you can draw inferences from those), and the general questions will be done.

In any case, you always have to go to high school, first of all, you have to get rid of this kind of thinking, which is a very big obstacle to your future learning, and the other is to believe in yourself, it may be difficult, but you can't study with an attitude of [impossible] [worry], it will be very stressful. Study hard! Watch out for you!

There is nothing inferior to boys, in fact, they are all the same, the first is to study hard, if you don't want to, then there is nothing to say, and the second is not to be distracted, just do your job well. The more you think about it, the more frustrated you will become, so let's keep it up.

Take your time and realize that what is other is someone else's, not your own.

Believe in yourself and nothing will fail.

It's just a matter of time.

Your own mindset is the most important thing.

1. You can understand the class, but you can't start the exam homework, because the class is just a process for the teacher to transfer knowledge to you, and you just accept this process, without digesting it or using it, but when you take the exam or homework, it is actually an application of the knowledge in the class, and generally speaking, the class is just to use the things in the textbook to let you understand in the teacher's words, but the homework and exams are an application on the basis of understanding, and the difficulty will become greater. That's why students need to review and practice after class. If you understand it in class, really understand it after class, and master it through practice, you will definitely do it in the exam.

2. Students often encounter this situation, so there is no need to worry. You think it's Koko who can take care of everything, but the time is very limited, so this happens. If sleep is not negotiable, it is necessary to ensure that high school students should have the sleep time, but they should go to bed early and get up early, and even if they sleep late, even if they are long, the effect is not great.

If you sleep well, you will have the most energy, and the efficiency of reading will be greatly improved. Don't just look at the time of study and not look at the quality of learning, otherwise the body will not be able to bear it in the long run. Although there are many subjects, there must be something you are good at, and the subjects you are good at should be mastered as well as possible in class, and you can spend less time after class.

For things that need to be practiced, such as mathematics, you must spend more time practicing, which is a hard subject, and it is not negotiable. Weaker subjects also take more time, provided that you calm down and take a good look. Although there are many subjects every day, it does not mean that the time is the same for each subject.

There is a habit of reviewing at the beginning, and your revision speed will get faster and faster in the future, but you have to persevere. Best wishes.

1. This is because you haven't really internalized what you have learned into your mind. It's like going up a staircase, where one foot is on the top of the stairs and the other foot is on the original steps below, so you can't stand steadily.

2. Find a method that suits you, otherwise you will continue to be troubled.

1. When I was in high school, I also encountered a similar problem, I thought about it and felt that we might lack the proper practice, so we had to calm down and write a serious essay on the questions taught by the teacher. In addition, it is necessary to read extracurricular books appropriately, and the most important thing is to think and do what the teacher says.

2. I think high school should make a class schedule of your own, write down the tasks you have to complete every day, and stick to the plan every day, I think you should still have time to play in a month.

Excerpt from Mr. Lu Xun's "Book of Two Places":

First, there are two major difficulties that are most likely to be encountered in the long distance of "life". One is the "wrong way", if Mr. Mo Zhai, according to legend, he will return in tears. But I did not weep or return, but sat down at the head of the wrong road, rested for a while, or slept for a while, and then took another path that seemed to be the way to go, and if I met an honest man, I might take food from him to satisfy his hunger, but I did not ask for directions, for I was sure that he did not know.

If I met a tiger, I would climb up the tree and come down when it was hungry, and if it did not go, I would starve myself to death in the tree, and I would first tie it with a strap, and I would never give it food even to a dead body.

But what if there are no trees? So, there is no way but to invite it to eat, but you might as well take a bite of it. The second is the "end of the road", I heard that Mr. Ruan Ji also cried back, but I also stepped in like the way on the wrong road, and walked in the thorn bushes.

But I haven't encountered a place full of thorns and no way to go, and I don't know if there is no end in the world, or if I am fortunate not to have encountered it.

Second, I don't stand up for the fight of society, I don't persuade others to sacrifice anything or anything like that. During the European war, the heaviest "trench warfare", the soldiers lay in the trenches, sometimes smoking, singing, playing cards, drinking, and also holding art exhibitions in the trenches, but sometimes they suddenly fired a few shots at the enemy. China has many hidden arrows, and the warriors who come forward are prone to death, and this kind of tactics is necessary.

But I'm afraid that sometimes it will be forced to have to be short-handed, at this time, there is no way, so short-handed.

High school is a time when you know how to take on your shoulders, and you have to be very fulfilling and happy every day. If the difficulty is compared to a tree, the branches are complicated and clueless, we can start with the trunk (itself), a very clear one, which is the country's people-oriented is the way to solve all social contradictions, so my suggestion is to find one or two good friends at night to bring a beer to the playground to vent, sleep well at night, and experience the words of Lu Xun above, and recommend the anime "Chess Soul".

This classmate, you are in the same situation as me when I was a freshman in high school, and I was helped by others at that time. Before you do your homework every day, you can browse the class you are taking today, write your homework, and at the same time you can read the book at the end of class every day to improve your awareness of the content in the book, that's it, I don't have any suggestions, the key is your own attitude towards the school, study hard, I wish you success in your studies.

1. Eyes are high and low, practice more 2 and arrange time, and do not write useless homework. 3 Done.

If you don't understand in class, that's what you should be thinking about! Most of the energy in class is personal excitement about learning, when you really want to learn, the energy is very good, try to improve the desire to learn, do homework for review, as long as you understand the expansion of the same can achieve the purpose of review!

Well, let's talk about me first. When I was in high school, I was reluctantly admitted to the key high school in our county due to diarrhea (I usually study very well), so I was in a very bad mood at that time, and I comforted myself that as long as I was admitted, I could continue to work hard in high school. But I don't know what the reason is when I go to high school, it seems that the high school entrance examination has been finalized, and there are still more than 40 (53 people in total) in each exam, and there are more than 10 students who are not as good as me in junior high school.

I couldn't figure it out, so I started to give up on myself like you, and I became obsessed with reading e-books and surfing the Internet from the first semester of high school, which lasted for more than a year, and the best academic performance in the middle was 34. My family is very poor, my mother works outside, my dad herds sheep at home for me to study, every time the test results come down, my dad never says about me, only a sentence next time to continue to work hard. In my sophomore year of high school, when my dad brought me food, he said to me, "Study hard, don't think about anything else, I will borrow the money for you to be admitted to college."

At that time, I bowed my head to eat, and tears fell into my meal, which was this sentence that made me angry again. The second semester of the second semester of high school was almost finished, and I began to review the college entrance examination, I quit e-books and the Internet, and began to take the college entrance examination for the sake of "family". Facts have proved that my efforts have not been in vain, I have been improving in every monthly exam in the third year of high school, and I have not regressed until the end of the college entrance examination, which was the best one I have taken since high school, fifth in the class, and successfully admitted to university.

First of all, I think God is fair, it is impossible to make a person unlucky forever, as long as you believe in yourself that you are capable, you will succeed one day (maybe a bit of a big statement, but that's what I thought at the time). Secondly, in the sophomore semester of high school, you vented your emotions towards the people you hated to study, so it was not that you were not good at learning, but that you did not regulate your emotions well; When you go back to school, you have a bad exam because you haven't studied for a month, and it's normal to have a bad exam, it's not your fault, don't attribute it internally. So it's not that you're not good at learning, it's because you're not dealing with your own problems (as you can guess from your description, you're probably a perfectionist who expects a lot from yourself and from others).

Finally, I would like to give you a little advice, first, you can continue to go to school, as long as you work hard, at least it will not make you regress, and there is a lot of room for improvement, progress can make you more confident; Second, if you have not dealt with your own problems (emotions and mentality), it is recommended that you take a leave of absence and retake the second year of high school, which can not only keep you away from the environment that has left a bad impression, but also allow you to have more time to adjust your mentality and learn from the past.

Thank you. Good luck with your progress.