Dad keeps his distance when his daughter is a few years old

Dad had to keep his distance when the girl was in junior high school.

3 years old. Because at this age, daughters have gradually differentiated between genders, so at about 3 years old, fathers need to keep a certain distance from their daughters, and some intimate things cannot be done.

In general, as soon as a girl is past three years old, she should start distancing.

This is the so-called saying that "children avoid their mothers, and women avoid their fathers".

As a daughter, she slept in separate beds with her parents when she was very young, and she had an older sister at home, so she slept with her sister at that time. That's when I kept my distance from my father, but I was still very close. Staying intimate doesn't have to be physical, it's more about feelings, such as when my father gets off work, he always brings something we love to eat, and teaches about some things.

As a mother, my daughter sleeps in a separate bed with us at the age of four, and usually takes a bath and changes clothes to remind her that there is a difference between men and women, and that her father cannot change her clothes, and her daughter also slowly develops a good habit of dressing herself. But she usually asks her father to hug her when she goes out to play together, but as her eyes see more and more things, her father in her eyes is no longer the most important, and slowly she begins to alienate her father, and she has a sense of distance.

When a daughter reaches the age of 18, she should keep her distance from her father. Because girls become adults after the age of 18, they have a lot of ideas of their own. Need your own space.

In my opinion, when you are about 10 years old, you should keep a certain distance from your father, because this time is a very important process and development period for girls, so you should keep a certain distance from your father, so it is better to keep a certain distance.

After the age of 7, they should keep a certain distance from their fathers, because at this time they have a certain understanding of gender.

10 years old. After the daughter is 10 years old, she should need to keep a distance from her father, because at that time, the child's body has begun to develop, and he has begun to pay attention to his hidden code and be cautious.

After having a child, parents will always be tempted to kiss the baby. However, as the child grows up, the mother has to keep an appropriate distance from her son, and so on, as a father, he naturally has to keep his distance from his daughter. Some time ago, a father's behavior of making uncomfortable moves towards his daughter in public was hotly discussed and criticized by netizens, although it was later confirmed that the father was only taking care of his daughter who was sick, but the children are so old, and the father should have the awareness of keeping a distance from his daughter.

Many parents will ask, when the daughter is old, the father should keep her distance? In fact, when a daughter exhibits these 3 behaviors, it indicates that she has gender awareness, and then the father should keep his distance from his daughter.

One: I don't like dad kisses.

When the lovely daughter begins to "dislike" her father's kiss, it shows that the child has an ignorant gender consciousness and does not want to be close to her father. At this time, the father should not feel sad, on the contrary, he should be happy, after all, his daughter is finally going to grow up and is about to have a wonderful life of her own.

Two: Reduce physical contact with Dad.

When going out to play, many children may prefer their dads to their mothers, after all, only dads have enough strength to carry themselves around and run around, and even lift themselves high. When suddenly one day you find that your daughter no longer takes the initiative to hold her father's hand and no longer takes the initiative to let her father hug her, it indicates that your daughter's gender consciousness has begun to sprout and she knows that there is a difference between men and women. At this time, parents can teach their daughters some knowledge to protect themselves, so that their daughters can grow up safer and healthier.

When the child grows up, she should clearly tell the child his gender, so that he can have a clear understanding of himself. And don't rely too much on your father. Girls' privacy should also be improved, so that they can better protect themselves.

Keeping a distance between a father and a daughter is also to let girls know not to let a strange man get too close to her. In this way, girls will not be harmed by society when they grow up.

When you reach a certain age, keep your distance from your father, at the psychological level, don't let a strange man get too close to you, improve a girl's privacy, and tell the girl to know about gender.