Is my future bleak? 40

Your future is not bleak at all, but it is a little difficult at the moment.

I hope you don't dwell on the sadness and reluctance to come out.

Accept the reality as soon as possible. You're in college, and it's time to support yourself.

Nowadays, many college students are working part-time to do internships, which is also a good exercise. You may also find many business opportunities in it. Maybe you'll be the big boss in the future, hehe.

Mindset is everything, adjust well. Let's get started with a wonderful university life.

I like a sentence from the movie "Unparalleled in the World": I am just a speck of dust in the world, a big trouble, a deep breath, and there is nothing.

How can you not have friends, your classmates and hair are all friends, but you haven't contacted them for a long time. Go get in touch, and there is hope as long as you live.

I'll give you advice, do you think it's okay to sue the mu?

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve the sock sleep, for example, when you are walking, someone else apologizes to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you is actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, but how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

The boat will naturally go straight to the bridge, don't be too discouraged.

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you only know that no matter when and where, whether you are in a good or bad mood, you want this person to accompany you, the real feeling is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, there is no requirement that the relationship is to give, not just want to get.

What can we do if we are confused about the future? Don't think too much. If you care, you will be chaotic, do you know the epiphany?

Someone else's stuff is someone else's, and you won't understand what to say, maybe you'll know what to do after a lot of experience, so now all you can do is live each day happily, don't think too much, and the answer will come.

Do what to do well! If you are born eloquent, then business, sales, commissions, can make a fortune!

Or you can just enter the factory casually and be an ordinary employee!

If you want to learn something, I have some suggestions:

Learn to repair mobile phones, mobile phones are very profitable, the purchase price is 100 yuan and sell for a few hundred yuan, after the maintenance of the school, you can open a mobile phone mu Meng store, and the rent is paid by mobile or Unicom, as long as a certain number of mobile phone cards and phone bills are sold!

And my friend is learning decoration and prefabricated houses, and he opened a material store by himself, and hundreds of thousands of dollars a year are not a problem, that is, people come to you to buy materials and you take the job for others or make it yourself.

There are also restaurant chains, which are looking for specialty stores on the Internet or looking for things.

Chefs, you can earn 4000-5000 yuan after a year!

Haircut for a year, 3000-4000 yuan. It's not enough to open your own store!

ps Half a year, you can earn 3,000 yuan in the future, but it is best to open a family bureau store by yourself, advertise the store, and the first 100,000 yuan a year is no problem!

CAD half a year, enter the shipyard or decoration company, 5000 yuan a month is no problem!

At least software development and the like are outrageous, and there is no one who can't learn anything for more than five years!

You have to remember: you must have perseverance, patience, and concentration in everything you do, once you choose, don't give up, don't stop until you learn!

Xing Zhaonai let the line out of the champion, as long as you learn well!

Hope mine can be helpful to you, thanks.

You're still young, it's never too late to learn what to do. However, only you know what you can do and what you are suitable for, and we can only give you suggestions in the big picture for reference.

Confusion is temporary, but at the same time normal. Everyone feels more or less lost in the process of growing up. To get out of this situation, it is recommended that you set a goal for yourself according to your own capabilities and the future needs of the market.

Don't set that kind of lofty goal, you can't achieve it in a year and a half. It's best to set a milestone, the kind that can be achieved by jumping on your own. After achieving it, set a goal that you can achieve without regret by working hard, so that you can reach the ultimate goal step by step.

The goal should not be too big, but it should be within reach, so that you will not be confused and discouraged, and in this way, you will be able to get happiness from the success of achieving your goal.

Goals can be anything, as long as they contribute to your own success. After setting a goal, let yourself make a little progress every day, work hard and honestly, accumulate experience, and the land shed will definitely have a harvest; After that, set a new stage goal and work hard. Give it a try.

Instead of feeling lost, try to lay the foundation for success.