Why did my boyfriend give my roommate a barbecue first, and then give it to me?

That's what polite people should do.

You have to see what is the best barbecue he takes, and it will definitely be left to you. And it's a gentlemanly courtesy. For your boyfriend, you are your own person, and your friend is just an outsider, so he is polite to outsiders.

You can think about whether this is the case at home, for example, if you have a guest at home, you will definitely be polite to him, but not necessarily so polite to your loved ones.

Two possibilities 1At best, he is a cultivated person, knows the difference between inside and outside, respects others first in everything, serves himself second, treats you as his own, and treats your roommates with respect and courtesy.

2.Think badly: "eating in the bowl and looking at the pot" is not a gentleman's doing, such a "like the new and not tired of the old", you have to be long-hearted!

I think your boyfriend is doing a good job, such a person is more polite and can do things. The relationship between the two of you is certain, so giving your roommate to eat first is like holding the guest at home, this is due courtesy, for example, if there are guests at home, you must give the watermelon to the guest first, and then your own family will eat, so you don't have to worry about whether he has you in his heart, because he treats you as a family member.

Because for your boyfriend, you are your own person, and he has to be polite to outsiders, so he will give it to your roommate first.

His behavior is gentlemanly and causes you to be unhappy!

Guests first, then family, shouldn't the etiquette at the dinner table be like this?

Dear, think about you first, which means: to be the main thing and put you first.

You are highly valued. Good.

Boyfriend, cherish.

Because your boyfriend values you more, this is his basic courtesy, he is saying that I am and is good to you.

Because she cares about you! Cherish it, a good man.

It is the custom of Hunan people and Hakka people, and it is a kind of etiquette!

Don't be careful.

As said upstairs.

What he meant was to give you so much first.

Not enough to add shellfish.

You can see that your boyfriend is very good to you.

Don't think about it.

It's very simple, which means that you take it first, and it's not enough for me to help you get it.

Don't be careful.

I'll give you my money first, spend it with you first, and I'll figure it out myself.

In short, it's your boyfriend, don't think about it so much, his money is your money, and your money is also his money, help each other, hehe! I don't believe your boyfriend doesn't give him money when he doesn't have any money, right, hehe!

Why do you care so much? It's time to get married in the future! Love will always pass!

Don't think too much, it's just that sometimes you forget, no one can guarantee that you remember everything clearly, and my boyfriend and I sometimes forget, we only remember it when we have lunch, and then we talk together, and we don't care.

Men are prone to negligence in such small things.

Look at who it's clipped.,If it's a boyfriend.。。。 I'll be awkward, if it's a woman, it's not too intimate.

That's why it's weird to pick up food for a friend. Of course, if you use public utensils, that's another story.,That will think that your boyfriend is the master.,Come to greet everyone.,It's quite face-saving.。

At last... If you give your man a dish, I guess he'll like you more.

No, it's that you're too sensitive.

He may feel that you are his own person and need to take care of others first. Or maybe he is more shy, afraid that others will laugh at his children's affection, and he is embarrassed to clip it to you first.

Is it really that important???

This is the minimum etiquette, it's not surprising at all, if you don't even understand this, and you have to care, it's too ignorant!

Your boyfriend is a very generous, decent and polite.

Respect others and treat you as your own.

To tell you the truth, if it were me, I would definitely give the menu to my girlfriend to order first, unless she says that you are in charge, then I will be the master of ordering, which is a kind of basic, whether the other party orders or not, I will show the other party first, or ask the other party what to eat first.

As for the chopsticks reaching into your bowl, this is normal, boyfriend and girlfriend, the mouth is kissing, are you still afraid of chopsticks? Don't overthink this. He is not "someone else", of course it is uncomfortable for someone else's chopsticks to stick into your bowl, but he is different, he is your person.

In addition, I wonder if you have been together for a long time, and if you have been together for a long time, you may be like your own family, men are more careless, they don't think so much, and they don't know how you feel.

A person has a person's habit, maybe he is not too good at this, maybe he is doing other things well, don't be too serious about everything, as long as both of you are sincere, there is nothing that cannot be crossed.

Machismo is too strong, it is recommended to communicate well! Or take you seriously! I hate these people! When I go out to dinner with my friends, I always ask my friends to order first, let alone insiders.

You just ask him why it's okay, they're all boyfriend and girlfriend

No Eating and drinking seems to be a small problem, but you have to eat and drink every day, it's always unpleasant, it's not good, you still talk to him.

Your boyfriend is too self-centered.

The main reason in this situation is that boys are too egotistical and girls are too weak.

First of all, I think that when boyfriend and girlfriend get along, who goes to whose house first is not the point, the relationship between you and the care for each other is the key.

Looking at your description, since your boyfriend has already told his relatives and friends at home, I suggest that you go to his house as promised before, after all, your parents are the only ones in your house, and it shouldn't be a big problem to talk to the old people.

I don't think your boyfriend really said that you are greedy or that you don't think it's right to take other people's things. He doesn't want you to accept anything from someone other than the opposite sex. You ask your boyfriend directly what he wants you to do in this situation in the future, how do you deal with it, he can do whatever you want to do, it's not a big deal anyway, small things can make him happy, why not?

Hope it helps.

It's also a trivial matter, and your boyfriend cares, after all, his roommate is the opposite sex to you.