I broke up with my boyfriend and became friends, and I was asked if I still want to borrow?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-05
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    This actually depends on the individual, if it is relatively few, like one or two hundred, I personally think it is not necessary, and it is still necessary if there are more.

    Or maybe your boyfriend made it clear before that he asked you to borrow it, so you still have to ask for it. Feelings belong to feelings, and money belongs to money.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Break up with your boyfriend and be friends. But before he owes you money. In general, we can solve this problem just by asking ourselves if we really want to?

    If you think that if you say that you broke up, he owes you money before your friend in the future, and you should come back, well, it is a matter of course that you can actually ask for it back, and this is understandable. There's no way your ex-boyfriend will do anything to you because you want money? After all, are you just friends now?

    But if you feel in your heart that this is the money he borrowed from you when you were together. It's written off along with the previous incident. Then you can also choose not to.

    It just depends on how you think about it?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Of course, since it is a friend, it is borrowed and repaid, otherwise it belongs to the relief of difficult households, so if you want to be friends for a long time, you have to come back, this kind of mutual non-owe can get along for a long time!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Even though you and your boyfriend broke up, the money he borrowed from you still has to be repaid.

    Even if you don't break up, the money he borrowed is still a creditor's right, and he still has to pay it back to you.

    This is a creditor's relationship granted by law, and it has nothing to do with whether or not to break up.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Of course, since he has broken up with you, as long as he is not married to you, the property is your own, and since they have all broken up, this property should be returned, and you said that it was borrowed. But if you don't want it because of human affection, then you have to ask for it, and the closest thing to you is money, not men.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you borrow it, you must pay it back, otherwise is it called a friend? Money must also be clearly divided between friends. You can see that a lot of friends go out to eat together under the AA system, if he treats you as a friend, he will pay it back, especially if he borrows a lot, saying that you are in a hurry to use the money now.

    Thank you!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's best not to be friends anymore after a breakup, if he owes you money must be paid off, otherwise you will regret it in the future, and it's best not to break the thread after the end of love, which will affect your future life.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Since I said before that I borrowed it, I have to pay it back, if it is the common expenses between two people in love, or the money you are willing to let him spend, he can not pay it back, but he must repay the loan from you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It must be, feelings belong to feelings, and money must be distinct.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you want to come back, why not? It's all hard-earned.

    Boyfriend and girlfriend relationship in.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If the amount is large, you have to get it back, after all, it is a loan, and it is natural to repay the debt....But you must pay attention to speak tactfully, otherwise it will make him careless, and he won't even be able to make friends, and it will not be good to make trouble to the point of turning his face.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Theoretically, I think it should be to get the money back, even if two people are in a relationship together, the accounts must be separated, so I think it is very reasonable to ask for the money back.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It should be returned! If you have an IOU, it's even better!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Since you can't be a husband and wife, of course, if you want to pay back the money, whose money is not blowing in the wind, why not. Maybe who'll know who after the end of the year.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If it's a gift, don't want it; If it's a loan, it should be returned.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Before breaking up with a friend and becoming a friend, he asked me if I still wanted to borrow. I felt broken up as a friend later. If you don't borrow money from him, it's time for her to pay it back. This is the principle of being a human being.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    When I was a boyfriend and girlfriend before, I said that I borrowed money, so of course what should happen after the breakup!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Summary. Yes, if you are single and have no conflict with your ex-boyfriend, then it is okay to borrow money from him, but if you have a new boyfriend now or the breakup was very unpleasant, then it is not appropriate for you to borrow money from your ex-boyfriend!

    Yes, if you are single now and have no conflict with your ex-boyfriend, then it's okay to borrow money from him for emergency relief, and if you have a new boyfriend now or broke up very unhappily, then it is not suitable for you to borrow money from your ex-boyfriend!

    However, if you encounter difficulties and urgently need to borrow money from your ex-boyfriend, it is better to say that you have broken up, so it is better not to have too much contact. But if you still get along better after breaking up, then you can also borrow it from him.

    I hope mine can help you, I wish you a happy life and all the best!

    I didn't get in touch much after the breakup.

    But every time he would tell me that he would stand behind me if I needed anything.

    It shows that he still has you in his heart, and he still cares about you, and he hasn't completely let go of you.

    Just because you don't have contact doesn't mean you don't care.

    But he was married.

    Ask him if it would be bad to borrow money.

    Ask about custom messages].

    I think it's better not to have too much intersection with him than to break up with him, and it's better not to borrow it if it doesn't get to the point where it really can't be done.

    Good. Thank you.

    If you go to borrow money now, he will definitely give it to you, but in his heart, your status will be greatly reduced! Integrity is more important than money, so you still have to be cautious!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Summary. My dear, when you don't have the money to lend your boyfriend, he proposed to break up, in fact, this is not necessarily a bad thing for you, because a person who falls in love with you, but it is not true love based on money, in the future, how good you want him to be to you, it is impossible, so through this matter, since he proposed to break up, you can also directly agree and. Because two people are together, the relationship can't make any decisions because of money.

    I didn't lend money to my boyfriend, and he proposed to break up.

    My dear, when you don't have the money to lend your boyfriend, he proposed to break up, in fact, this is not necessarily a bad thing for you, because a person who falls in love with you, but it is not true love based on money, in the future, how good you want him to be to you, it is impossible, so through this matter, since he proposed to break up, you can also directly agree and. Because two people are together, the relationship can't make any decisions because of money.

    In life, no matter what kind of mood you had with Lu Hao's emotions or what kind of mood you were in, don't break up with your partner because of money. If the subject can help you, he is capable, and if he can't help you, then he can only do what he can, not to put pressure on the other person. If you want to have a happy relationship, you must first find someone who understands you, loves you, and thinks about yourself.

    I agreed directly, because we were together, and as long as I wasn't pregnant, I promised not to bother him again.

    My dear, I understand your current mood very well, and of course your decision is also the right one. Because you're a very smart girl and you know how to handle your own affairs.

    As a girl, you must find a boy who loves you to live, so that your marriage will be happy, because if there is such a boy in life, no matter how difficult your life is, you will not embarrass your girlfriend.

    Well. Thank you.

    I didn't test him with money, he tested me in turn.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think that some financial breakups during the relationship between the two can be resolved through negotiation, and most of them can get satisfactory results, but if you are not satisfied with such a solution, you can also use the following solutions to solve it.

    In the first case, it can be returned, which is usually considered as a loan. Chat records, call records, etc., have mentioned that they are borrowings, remarks are borrowings, or "notes" have been issued directly. Some people are very particular, after the breakup, they have settled with the other party, and they have issued an IOU or IOU, which cannot be said, and the authenticity of the "note" can be determined in combination with the transfer record, and there is a high probability that it will be returned.

    Similar to this situation, there is a transfer record, and then before and after the transfer record or both parties have made it clear that the transfer is a loan, several sets of evidence are combined, and there is a high probability that it is a loan and needs to be returned.

    Of course, some people have a little legal knowledge, and secretly prepare the rent and borrow money when transferring money, in this case, unless there are special numbers such as "520" and "1314", there is a high probability that they will be returned.

    In the second case, where it is clear that it cannot be returned, it is usually found to be a gift. There is no remark on the transfer, and the amount is "520", "1314", or a multiple of these two numbers, or on special holidays and anniversaries, if it is expressed to the other party, it will be recognized as a gift to the other party and cannot be returned.

    Of course, if the gift is a valuable "hardware" bought for marriage, because there is a specific purpose, it needs to be returned, it is regarded as a conditional gift, and the conditions are not fulfilled, so it must be returned to the disadvantager.

    In the third case, if it is unclear, it will usually be determined to be unjust enrichment, that is, there is no way to determine that it is a loan and it is not like a gift. The court will judge from the amount to see if it exceeds the normal living expenses, and if it exceeds, it will not be determined that it is a gift relationship, and after the breakup, the purpose of marriage cannot be realized, and there is no reason for one party to obtain a larger amount of money, and it will be judged to be unjust enrichment.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I asked my boyfriend to borrow money + and then quarreled and said to break up, he asked me to pay back the money + can I continue like this.

    Hello, it's a pleasure to serve you oh Breakup meets people's hearts, sometimes, we think that the person we meet is the best, the most unique in the world, but all the bad side of the breakup is exposed. If the two have reached the point where they quarrel and want to break up, some economic disputes should indeed be dealt with clearly. If you want to break off, you will break it cleanly, two people are together, you and me, they are all maintained by the economy, and now many people fall in love basically without money and will not have too good memories.

    Because there is no money, two people can't do anything, but two people are together, and there are many things to spend, so there is some financial relationship between the two. Once a breakup, many people will turn their faces because of financial problems, although the relationship is not too bad, but when two people quarrel and it is a different matter. Still, solve the problem and never let two people walk into the crowd with this problem, because it will constantly remember the money you owe him ......If you are not very sure that the two can go to the end, you will start to make a small calculation when you spend money, and when you break up, you will make up for what you owe each other, and break it clean.

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