Why do many guys not like girls who talk a lot?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-21
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    A girl who talks a lot? There seem to be two meanings, "talk a lot" and "talk a lot". But either way, boys don't like it.

    The reason why girls who don't like to talk a lot about gossip.

    A girl who loves to gossip a lot, she will go around asking about other people's things, or go around talking about other people's things. It's always going to cause dissatisfaction with others. Moreover, she will not only gossip about other people's affairs, but also about her boyfriend's affairs.

    For example, when she wants to know something about her boyfriend, in addition to asking her boyfriend directly, she will also ask people she knows with her boyfriend, which not only always bothers others, but also makes others think that she is very strict with her boyfriend. In this way, her boyfriend will be very faceless in front of these friends.

    And then in the same way, she will go around talking about bad things about other people, and she will also talk about her boyfriend and the bad things that happened between herself and her boyfriend to others.

    The reason why I don't like nagging girls.

    It's annoying to talk a lot, so I think it's probably a lot of people who don't like it, not just guys who don't like nagging girls. Although nagging is in some sense, a kind of concern. But this kind of care may be too much, or it may not be suitable.

    Because no one likes to say something repetitive. This can be seen in the child's nagging parents. Many parents will always repeat some words and some things when their children are young, probably because they are afraid that their children will not be sensible and not clear.

    So I'll just say it a few more times. Then, because the child is still young, even if he listens, he may not react much. But when the children grow up, the parents get old.

    At this time, parents will always say a lot of repetitive things like their children did when they were young. It's just that this time I said the repetitive words, but it was no longer because the child was ignorant, but because the parents had a poor memory. So after I said it, I forgot whether I said it or not, so I said it again.

    However, when children grow up, few of them can stand these repetitive nagging. Therefore, when a boy chooses a girl, he also does not like to talk too much.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    The vast majority of men have a relatively 'direct' personality, and they don't like to 'nag', 'admonish', 'endlessly repeat one thing', or 'talk too much'.

    Usually, a man is willing to 'correct' or 'help you', he will take it to heart, otherwise, no matter how much he says, it will be useless and upset him.

    In addition, the burden of life given to men themselves is very heavy, especially married men, they can tolerate their wives as full-time wives, but they will be anxious when their careers are not going well.

    In addition, men don't like nagging women at work, first, they will feel that the other party does not trust them or do not believe in their abilities, and second, they will feel that talking to women who talk a lot is simply a waste of time.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Girls who talk a lot are really annoying sometimes.

    Imagine if you were dating a girl who talked a lot. So when you need to ask for the other party's opinion on what to decide, you just want to simply know if the girl is or isn't, because boys are generally more afraid of trouble, and the girl tells you a bunch of her own thoughts, but in the end she still can't make a decision right away.

    I think that in this case, the boy will definitely be impatient.

    Like now that summer is coming, if there is a girl who likes to talk around, that feeling must be more collapsed, as soon as summer comes, the mood will always be unconsciously affected by the hot temperature, at this time it will be more like a quiet environment, if there is someone next to you who has been chattering in your ear, I think it will be very annoying. The mood will get even worse.

    I think there is a more important point, that is, when the two sides quarrel, if the girl is a person who talks more, then the quarrel should be a disaster for the boy, imagine the scene of two people quarreling, the boy feels that the girl is unreasonable and chooses to be silent and does not speak, at this time the girl gushes about the boy's wrong, there is no intention to stop at all, just like chanting the scriptures has been expressing their dissatisfaction in the boy's ear.

    I think boys must be afraid of girls like this. As a girl, I'm afraid of the kind of people who won't listen to them as soon as they talk about it.

    There are always times when we want to enjoy a quiet time, but with such a person, you want a quiet environment is a luxury, and the other party can not quarrel with you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    often appears in your field of vision.

    He will appear in your field of vision whenever he has the chance, and will occasionally come over to talk to you, but not much. In your memory, I don't spend much time with him, and the images are not profound, but it seems that there is him, and it feels like he is silently looking at you in a corner.

    Constantly smirks at you.

    I'm happy to see you, and I often smirk at you, and I don't know what to laugh at. But when you see his smile, you will smile too. Introverted boys are generally very inexpressive, but their laughter is the most real, that is, they like your performance.

    Helping you often.

    He likes you so he pays attention to you and will show up in time to help you when you are in trouble. Many introverted boys will die, and being good to a person is a thorough dedication, and as long as you need it, you will make sacrifices for you at any time.

    Sometimes it's a little shy.

    Sometimes when it comes to boyfriend and girlfriend issues or about the person he likes, he will show a little shyness. An introverted boy, you can see him as an emotionally shy little girl, which is more appropriate.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    A boy with few words likes a girl, then he must be inadvertently going to talk to him, that is, he himself may not usually talk much, but for example, he may occasionally greet you, you go to care about you, or you are not feeling well, he will ask you what's wrong, I think a boy with few words likes a person can be seen, because if he just talks to you alone and talks more, it means that he cares more about you, It also means that your weight in his heart is different, and it is easier to be shy and smile when he sees you, for example, your birthday, he may remember it, and then ask you or something.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Talking a lot doesn't mean you can talk, and talking less doesn't mean you don't have anything to say. Whether you want to be together or not depends on what you want.

    Nothing to be courteous, either a traitor or a thief.

    Hello, then you are more reasonable, use, that boy, can not be compared with you.

    Questions. I met boys online, they all like Deyun Club, and then went out to play once, and then played ** chat at night, he will share his daily life, but these days there are fewer words, and the usual words are okay, and I don't know what to say.

    Boys don't talk much in front of girls they like.

    Hello, then he means that he knows you and doesn't have such a good impression of you, so you're not the type he likes, so he's less talkative to you.

    Questions. But he'll give me a **.

    And ask me what I'm doing [smile].

    Then you can ignore me.

    Hello, he met you on the Internet and talked a lot, right, but after he came out, he had a little less to you, right?

    Hello, may I ask if your personal personality is very strong?

    Such a question, then please know more about him in the future, if he cares about you and he is very respectful of you, what you say is what it is, in fact, in a mutual mutual other, you should let each other go, respect your choice, respect your certainty, mutual you so let you say first.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Silence is golden, and the first is unsteady. The advantage of talking a lot is that it can be reflected in the fact that boys with strong communication skills and a lot of words have two impressions in the hearts of girls, promising, unreliable, pure nonsense, and the kind that attracts bees and butterflies is not pleasing. There are some exceptions, that is, what is said has no connotation, is not worth relying on, is not nutritious, and if you say too much, you will lose such a girl should like to be steady.

    The second is that such a man will give them a sense of lip service, not humorous.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    1.Girls who like to talk a lot (I want to laugh from the bottom of my heart when I see her, a pistachio) The vast majority of boys can't resist laughing, girls who love to talk, life is full of fun.

    Sometimes it's a child, sometimes it's a royal sister.

    It often gives a big surprise to the boys.

    This feeling is like eating spicy hot, numb, spicy.

    It will leave you with a long aftertaste....

    Interesting soul.

    2.I like girls who talk less (well-behaved, with a unique temperament, giving people a sense of mystery) This sense of mystery often exudes full of attraction, feels very special, has a good feeling, and wants to understand her.

    This feeling is like drinking a cup of tea, and you need to taste it slowly.

    Grasp the temperature of the water and the amount of tea leaves.

    Every time you taste it, it will bring you a different feeling...

    3.For girls who like it so much, it's so domineering!

    What I like the most is that she keeps the funny and mysterious side only for me.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Summary. Hello, I'm also a boy, if I've always had a good relationship with you, but suddenly there are fewer words, there will be many reasons: One, I lost interest in you, of course, there are other reasons for losing interest.

    Second, if there is an estrangement between us, or if there is any embarrassment, we should all say it and understand more. Three, or maybe he's been annoyed, stressed, or worried about something lately.

    Boys who talk a lot suddenly talk less to girls.

    Hello, I'm also a boy, if I've always had a good relationship with you, but suddenly there are fewer words, there will be many reasons: One, I lost interest in you, of course, there are other reasons for losing interest. Second, if there is an estrangement between us, or if there is any embarrassment, we should all say it and understand more.

    Three, or maybe he's been annoyed, stressed, or worried about something lately.

    May I ask if he has any conflict with you, dear?

    You can add a little question to answer it for you

    I met boys online, they all like Deyun Club, and then went out to play once, and then played ** chat at night, he will share his daily life, but these days there are fewer words, before the words are OK, these two days I don't know what to say.

    Do you like me?

    Still hate me.

    Still in a bad mood.

    Boys don't talk much in front of girls they like.

    Wait a minute, dear [Bixin].

    It's possible to be in a bad mood lately, but it's not normal to say that you don't have anything to say. You can try to ask him if he has anything to worry about recently, if not, you can try to talk to him more about the latest news of Deyun Club or something, and see his reaction.

    If he doesn't get interested, he may be tired of it

    The two of us are from the same school, and then he will call me and ask me what I am doing.

    That's probably his personal reason (there are troubles, chatting suddenly running out of words, etc.), I should still like you

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In fact, many men like women who talk less, and think that such women are more quiet, more introverted, not the kind of people who chirp and chirp, and are easy to get along with and have a kind of idea of wanting to be petted.

    In fact, men and women want to go further, it is easy to say that it is simple and difficult to say, and the simplicity lies in the fact that as long as two people have a common topic with each other, talk endlessly, and have something they like to do together, it is easy to have a good feeling.

    If there is no mutual understanding, no tacit understanding, and no common goal, then even if two people have a good impression of each other, they cannot become each other's other half.

    Therefore, at this time, the existence of "telepathy" between two people is particularly important, and when there are the following three relationships between you, then the relationship between you will soon change.

    Men and women with these three types of "telepathy" can easily have a relationship.

    Tacit behavior is synchronized.

    Why do many couples develop from boyfriend and girlfriend? In fact, it is because of the tacit understanding between them that they have reached synchronization.

    Two people have been together for a long time, they can find each other's temperament, know what they can say and what they can't say, understand what they like to eat and taboos, even if a group of people go out to party, one of them will help each other avoid things that can't be eaten when one of them orders food, two people have been together for a long time, and their interests and hobbies will become extraordinarily consistent, he likes to play billiards, and the other party is slowly never going to be particularly proficient in playing Two people often play together.

    Even if it is a gift, it will be more appropriate than other people's gifts, and it will be sent to the top of my heart. Thinking about it this way, the tacit understanding between two people is too important, and when the fit of two people is highly compatible, it is difficult for others to enter between two people. When this tacit behavior between two people reaches synchronization, they will soon become each other's partners.

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