I hope everyone will come in and help me with the troubles of adolescence

Updated on society 2024-06-24
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Calf love? Morning exercise! It's better to say that. You're not in love, you're just practicing how to pay attention to a person, a different type, and lay the foundation for your future interpersonal interactions.

    There is no need to have a showdown with that classmate, because none of you have the capital to say the word love, and I may not be able to talk to you in such a tone when I am a few years older than you, but I am also a person who has the same experience as you. If she doesn't have feelings for you, you can only give you a reason to be hurt and someone else to laugh at you.

    Again, you are early practice, not early love. You're just learning how to pay attention to other people, whether it's the opposite sex or the same sex. It's your first step into life.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Everyone has a young time, and such things are not surprising. You can try to shift your attention elsewhere. For example, if you try to do your studies admirably, it is natural that someone will turn their attention to you.

    Of course, liking someone is not a bad thing. You can think of the person you like as your confidant or a very good friend, because it is not possible to have a very substantial result when you are a student. You can work the goal you aspire to, and it will be achieved later.

    Let it go; I'm sure you'll know how.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Everyone has had this experience, and I think it's best not to say it, and to downplay it into a friendship between you. Look at it with a normal mind, it's not a big deal, think deeply about your own situation, and you will understand what you should and shouldn't do, what is important and what is secondary. Do your best!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I have had a crush on a woman since my second year of junior high school! It's been more than 10 years now! Children know for themselves!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You have to pay attention to this age, I'm about the same age as you, I had a lot of study in my class at the beginning, but after falling in love, I can't study directly, and I'm sorry. When people say that you and her are here, they may feel a little uncomfortable, it turns out that they may still be good friends, so she may not want to take you. The students' perception of you will also change, teachers, parents.

    Therefore, you take her as your motivation to learn, pay close attention to learning, and change everything with your ability. Thank you

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I agree with the point of view of the first floor, indeed, this situation is normal, but I want to ask, what do you think of the person he likes, if you find yourself very unhappy with him, then you have to quickly adjust your mentality, the most important thing now is to study, I have just graduated from junior high school, I understand your feelings, I have also encountered this situation, in fact, you are now in the deepest feeling, the most difficult to extricate yourself, you wait a while will find that this feeling will be reduced.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Experience: The love experience of a teenager's ignorant and seemingly impenetrable dream is very beautiful, and once you go through the dream to the truth, you will hurt yourself.

    Reality: After 23, I look back and see that this is true.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Everyone has troubles, and when you have gone through a lot of twists and turns and you see things through, your troubles are no longer nothing, because there are things that are better to lose than to gain.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's just the budding of puberty, and if that girl is happier with your friends, then you have to forget about it. I'm a girl, and if I have a similar problem with you, I will give it to my friend without hesitation. I'm not hitting you, this kind of adolescent situation will definitely divide in less than three years, so, I personally think that it is more important to be friends.

    Also, love is the most unreliable thing. By the way, does that friend of yours know you like her?

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