Troubles and confusion of junior high school students, adolescent psychological problems

From the perspective of a sister, let's first talk about the grades, since it has declined, one of the reasons must have its own factors, but don't be too pessimistic, you have always been a good student in the teacher's heart, so the teacher's expectations for you will not disappear because of this time, now what you have to do is to make good use of the pressure that the teacher gives you between words, and turn pressure into motivation; There is also the emotional problem you mentioned, which everyone will experience, maybe it is because of the relationship between classmates, maybe it is more contact, and she is a little interesting to you, usually embarrassed and awkward, these are inevitable, and you will naturally think of her, so don't worry, don't take it too seriously, it's okay.

I know you're a little tempted by that girl, or maybe it's just your delusion, because you haven't tried the taste of love, and you want to try to fall in love. It's okay to fall in love, sometimes falling in love can be a motivation to study harder, but don't be affected by love to affect your learning, restrain yourself, study hard when it's time to study, and take time to come out when you're in love. If your love will affect your studies, I suggest that you don't fall in love for the time being, because the most important thing for you at the moment is to study, you are still young, you have read good books, and you will have stable money in the future, and it is not too late to fall in love again.

During this period, you still focus on your studies, and you can go to college to fall in love again.

Silly child, if you like it, you like it, tell her that you love her. Otherwise, you will always be in a trance, and now that elementary school students are starting to fall in love, what are you afraid of junior high school students. Now you can get married at the age of 16 in the UK.

A person with strong ability is able to handle feelings and work well. You just need to study hard when you should study, study with your girlfriend after class, and play with you.

It's almost like me, it's just that I'm a girl, sometimes it's easy to get out of it without thinking about it, and the more you care, the easier it is to fall into it, and some things may have unexpected endings if you let it go naturally.

The netizens in front of me have already said very well, let me say more, is that guy called Professor Millennium Bug selling ads, I always see you selling that lecture or something.

Second? At that time, the relationship should not be regarded as any beloved, that is, a curious and occupied heart, as for you, you are too fragile, this thing can't be solved, you will eventually fail

This is really difficult to deal with, and this bad handling may affect your lifelong emotional life. I used to be similar to you, and I would like to give you some advice: first, you have to change your introverted personality a little, introversion is not very good, and boys must be extroverted in the future.

Chat with your classmates more and make friends, you can also deal with her, but you are now looking for a psychological support. It's normal, talk to her more, communicate more, this can't make it your trouble, it should be a kind of happiness for you. Participate in school activities and properly handle the relationship between everyone.

Second, learning is also a step-by-step process, a failure can't mean anything, keep working hard, everything will be fine. If there's anything else you want to know, you can add friends with me, and I know that I can enlighten you. I wish you all the best!

Believe in yourself and stick to whatever decision you make.

This phenomenon is normal in adolescence, who doesn't care about the person, but you have to keep in mind your real task, study hard, like this kind of thing in your heart, just have a hazy feeling, don't affect your learning.

I wish you success in your studies.

Saying that let you put it down and let you put it down Although it is such a truth, but who does it for ordinary people, so it is better to start with yourself As long as you see it and figure it out, all problems are not a problem Believe in yourself Come on!!

Focus on academics and show your strength with your grades.

Hello, your situation is repeated in many people......In fact, the final thing is to go with the flow! You can think about it, you are a junior high school student, and you are not talking about love, but trouble! Why put yourself in the so-called love and affection?

Isn't that a mess in your life......

Now your mission is to grow! Everything is a ...... that will passGo with the flow, pick up what you should pick up, and give up the ...... you should give up

I hope mine will be of some help to you.

What you said are very normal adolescent psychology, in fact, as long as you adjust your mentality, you must have a correct understanding of the opposite sex, she is a friend who is very attractive to you, you should be outgoing and interact with her normally, you can say what you want, you don't have to hide your feelings, you are kind to her,

After listening to the lecture on a happy life, there is a way.

Middle school students are in the early stages of adolescence. During this time, their physical and mental development is quite mature, and it is a period when students are ready to move towards independent living. At the same time, because middle school students are not deeply involved in the world, it is inevitable that some psychological problems will occur.

1.Rebellious mentality

The so-called rebellious psychology refers to the antagonistic emotions that are contrary to cognitive information and contrary to universal laws due to their inherent traditional stereotypes and ways of thinking and specific educational situations in the process of receiving education. Normal educational requirements. and behavioral intent.

Many middle school students, due to their poor ability to distinguish between right and wrong, are full of doubts, and are often unable to properly cope with the painstaking management of their parents and the criticism and education of teachers. They are suspicious and arrogant, negatively view positive propaganda, unreasonably deny role models and advanced figures, emotionally identify with bad tendencies, and passively resist ideological education and abide by rules and regulations.

2.Learning problems

1. The psychological pressure of students' learning is increasing, which leads to mental malaise, resulting in loss of appetite, insomnia, neurasthenia, memory loss, and slow thinking.

2. Aversion to learning is a prominent problem in current learning activities. Not only are students with poor academic performance reluctant to study, but some students with better grades also hate learning. Most of them are because of a lot of homework, procrastination in class, and exam anxiety, especially when encountering more important exams.

3.Interpersonal problems

1.Relationship with teachers. The main problem is that teachers' incomprehension and distrust of students lead to students' antagonistic psychology, and teachers' cognitive biases and other situations lead to students' depression and aggressive behavior.

2.Relationships between classmates. In addition to the understanding and support of teachers, middle school students also want to have a sense of belonging between their classes and classmates, and seek the understanding and trust of their classmates and friends.

4.Star-chasing issues

When the colorful spotlight shines on the screen and stage of youthful singers, dancers, movie stars, body stars, writers, and other successful people, the eyes of admiration from the heart follow. With the emergence of these "star" figures, Shirdi has become one of the phenomena of youth culture - the emergence of "star chasers" and the rise of "youth idol fever".

5.Psychological problems in adolescence

1.Teenage lock-in mentality. Its main manifestation is that the external manifestations tend to be closed, and the increasingly rich and complex internal activities coexist in the same body. It can be said that the closed mind is a common and special sign of the psychology of adolescence.

2.Emotions are emotional, expressive, and subtle. The physiological changes of puberty are bound to cause emotional agitation in middle school students. This surging emotion is sometimes revealed, sometimes hidden.

3.Calf love. Middle school students are generally minors, and we call the love of middle school students when they are minors as early love.

One of the most prominent contradictions in middle school, especially high school students, is the period of puberty, which is the contradiction between the rapid maturation of sexual development and the relatively naïve sexual psychology.

Junior high school students are in the period of puberty, so they are often rebellious, and there is also the possibility of early love. Parents must communicate with their children correctly.

The psychology of inferiority, because junior high school will be more prone to vanity.

Adolescent children may be rebellious, and they may also have puppy love with other members of the opposite sex.