After the blind date, the other party went to another place, and the man went to the woman s city to

You're two types of people, you have to change your personality, you have to be proactive, you have to do a lot of bad things.

Otherwise, the chance of being really possible is too small, and since you like it, you have to change yourself first.

It can be said that she also likes you, and it may be a test of whether you are true to her, ask for leave to find her, then she is moved to hold you, haha.

You should go, maybe she is testing you, just because you are not good at work and go away, you go to show that you value him.

I don't know how to say it, just write it... Text messages, or even handwritten letters.

The best thing to do is to stay in touch and capture her heart. Since you don't know how to speak, but you can always write. Writing gives you plenty of time to think, to think ... Send her an email or a message.

It's good to write a text message if you don't dare to say it, and I tried it myself.

Didn't she tell you before she left? Where is she? Then go to her, she will be very touched.

Move her with sincerity.

Summary. The man who goes on a long-distance blind date goes to the woman's city to meet. I think it would be better for the boys to go to the girls' city first.

This is because girls are generally more road-obsessed, and their sense of direction is relatively weaker than that of boys, so if you let a big girl's family come all the way to your city to find you, and you are so tired all the way, you won't seem very distressed as a boy.

The man who goes on a long-distance blind date goes to the woman's city to meet. I think it would be better for the boys to go to the girls' city first. This is because girls are generally more road-obsessed, and their sense of direction is relatively weaker than that of boys, so if you let a big girl's family come all the way to your city to find you, and you are so tired all the way, you won't seem very distressed as a boy.

Therefore, I think relatively speaking, boys are generally not afraid of getting lost, not afraid of any dangerous accidents, and are more calm and calm when encountering things. In addition, the boy's initiative to go to the girl's city is also a manifestation of attitude! If you let a girl come to a boy, wouldn't it seem that you are very insincere.

A long-distance relationship with no emotional foundation.

is undoubtedly to make matters worse, when they are together, they can't enter each other's hearts, and the feelings of sudden separation will inevitably be shaky. People who can't see each other only use ** and WeChat as a tool to communicate with each other, and over time they will get to know each other less and less, and finally lead to a breakup. Communicate more and share new things, don't call** if you can meet, don't text if you can call**, communicate often, at least once in two days, and share the fresh work and experience in your days.

<> this matter may be that the other party is also on a blind date with you for the purpose of marriage, but going on a blind date with you does not mean that she has to sell herself to you, and it cannot affect her own personal development too much. And it depends on the situation, if the economic situation in your city is not very good in all aspects, people also need an economic foundation to form a family.

When she went on a blind date with you, she probably didn't expect a job transfer, and felt that since the job was like this, let's find a partner locally. However, the situation changed suddenly, and the place where she wanted to go was clear, and she was naturally very happy to do the work, and she was the choice she had no choice at the beginning - blind date, I "cheated" my daughter-in-law from her city to my city, and at the beginning I had the mentality of giving it a try. It's not the kind I like very much.

In a month, various routines deceived her to Lanzhou, and then she found a job and lived together. There have also been quarrels and disagreements, as long as you go to the undergraduate and behave rightly and sit up straight, other people's gossip should be the wind in your ears. Go can enhance the mutual understanding of the two of you, run in your temperament, love each other, deepen the relationship between the two, gain mutual trust, test his love and care for himself, so that the foundation is not deep in the future, don't go to the southern city first, the eight characters have not been held back, who knows if it will be done.

To get to know a person, it is estimated that there must be half a year of contact.

There are also people who don't believe in long-distance relationships. Those who believe will think that no matter how good the relationship is, it should actually go through the tempering of a long-distance relationship, because only after experiencing a long-distance relationship can the other party's heart be truly tested; People who don't believe will think that instead of talking about a "distance" love, it is better to trust singles no matter when and where trust is very important, and the love between the two ends is completely based on trust, if the bridge of trust collapses, then the love at both ends will not exist.

In fact, it is necessary to be together, because although it is a long-distance relationship, you can also buy a plane ticket and a train ticket to meet him, and there is no need to break up, if you break up, you may miss out on a real relationship.

If you both have a crush on each other, a long-distance relationship is okay. Although long-distance relationships are difficult, there are also positive results.

Summary. So whether to decide whether to go, first of all, you must think clearly about three questions, what do you have, what do you want, and what do you want to give up. These questions must be thought out clearly, when you think clearly, then you can have no hesitation, it is possible not to let yourself have regrets and regrets, and it is possible to work with him again and live together, and you will not let yourself be embarrassed or entangled.

So whether to decide whether to go, first of all, you must think clearly about three questions, what do you have, what do you want, and what do you want to give up. These questions must be thought out clearly, and when you think clearly, then it is possible for you to have no hesitation, and it is possible not to let yourself have regrets and regrets after Heng La, and it is possible to work with him again and live together, and you will not let yourself be embarrassed or entangled.

Finally, I want to ask you for such an opinion, Bi Rolling Stove actually understands that going to work in other places with your boyfriend is not only your business, but also has a certain relationship with your family. If your family doesn't object, and you don't have any other opinions, then I think you should go. After all, it's not easy to find a boyfriend, so don't miss it if you can find the right one.

Judge first what kind of person your boyfriend is, whether he will lose his temper with you, whether he will bring home the bad mood he encountered at work, and if he hits these two points, don't go, because you may be angry to death. Secondly, whether your boyfriend is a motivated person, to put it in layman's terms, if he is good enough, it is not too late for you to go over in the future, maybe he can help you at work at that time. If he doesn't have any skills, don't worry, he will come back by himself if he can't get along.

In this regard, if your parents are now more accomplished than you and can look at this rationally, you can ask for their opinions, because their opinions are the most beneficial to you of all the opinions you receive, and they have lived more than half your life, and maybe they have had the same problems as you when they were younger. In addition, you have to think about yourself, can you find a stable job like you are now, and will your quality of life be forced to decrease after you go to other places to solve problems such as rent, water and electricity? These are all questions you have to consider, although it is said that you only have one life, and it is really cool to do something like fighting for love, doing something risky, but you have to continue to live, even if you want to take risks, you have to do everything you can to minimize the risk.