There are too many wrong ideas in the elderly, and I often have conflicts with her, what should I do

1 Be considerate and calm.

The best way to communicate with the elderly is to be more considerate of the elderly and care for their children, and deal with the conflicts between the two generations with a peaceful mood; The elderly should definitely pay attention to their opinions, after all, they have rich experience, and if there is a conflict with scientific knowledge, they should be patient and persuade the elderly and take some compromises.

2. Learn parenting methods together.

Studying parenting books together and buying some scientific parenting books and magazines not only enriches knowledge and enhances understanding, but also serves as the most powerful basis for judging the two.

3 Do not say anything that is detrimental to unity.

As a child, don't say things that are not conducive to unity in front of your children, as this will leave a gap in their hearts. The elderly selflessly love their children, and the younger generations should be more filial to the elderly, share more worries and sorrows for the elderly, and care more about the spiritual and material needs of the elderly in life. Hope in educating children on the generation gap.

ceases to exist. 4. Invite parents with excellent educational methods to bring their children to their homes.

Many old people do not accept the new concept of education, because they feel that such educational concepts and methods are not conducive to the development of children or are not necessary, if there are friends of children to come to the house, so that parents can see science, contemporary educational views and ways to raise children are also excellent and healthy, parents will naturally be touched, can better communicate.

Every generation has its own ideology, and everyone's ideology is not necessarily the same. The ideology of the elderly is already fixed and it is difficult to change, and occasionally learn to empathize.

In fact, it is really impossible to expect people of different generations to have the same concept of parenting. It is a fact that the old man's thinking is solidified, and in order to avoid the conflict of parenting concepts in the family, some education experts have given a very interesting suggestion: Separate "teaching" from "education", parents decide how to teach, and grandparents help how to educate.

1 The memory decline of the elderly is comprehensive, but the memory decline of recent events is the most obvious. The more recent things happen, the more they can't remember, and some elderly people will aggravate the sense of aging, leading to self-blame and low self-esteem.

2. The elderly often find it difficult to tolerate the noise, like a quiet, leisurely environment and atmosphere, and feel comfortable in a quiet environment.

3 people often show self-righteousness, stubbornness, inflexibility in encountering things, slow to accept some new things, especially young people are not used to doing things, and forcibly intervene.

Emotionally unstable elderly people often show uncalmness, irritability or anxiety, which can easily cause increased heart rate and blood pressure.

4. The elderly often like to recall the past, accompanied by an emotional state of mind. In the process of reminiscing, when you think of the things that are exciting, you will be psychologically satisfied; When you think of sad things, it is easy to have a bleak feeling of "sunset" and "life is unbearable".

5. The elderly often like to move alone, do not want to be disturbed by others, and do not like to trouble others. This is associated with their sluggishness, slowness, and disturbance, and is associated with habitual behavior patterns.

6. The elderly often show low interest in things in the surrounding environment, and their sensitivity to the things around them decreases, which is an obvious manifestation of psychological aging.

7 people in the last years of life, most of them have a sense of crisis of "precariousness", often worry about what serious diseases will appear in their bodies, so they pay too much attention to their own health, which leads to the appearance of some symptoms of poor physical health.

8. The gradual decline of the eyesight and hearing of the elderly, coupled with the fear that their children or others will dislike them and disrespect them, are prone to suspicion and misunderstanding, resulting in "nothing to do", "mediocrity disturbs themselves", and "people worry about the sky".