What kind of quality does Yan Hui have, and what is the quality of Yan Hui

Yan Hui's excellent quality is not angry and not offended.

Shandong TV Yan Hui is a diligent and studious person who lives in a bad alley and does not change his pleasure. When Mr. Fu Peirong talked about "learning happiness from Yan Hui" in "New Xingtan", he especially talked about the meaning of "gentleman". Why does Mr. Fu Peirong talk about gentlemen?

What is the relationship between a gentleman and happiness? Mr. Fu Peirong made a brief introduction to the "gentleman" from three aspects. He said, first of all, "the gentleman is harmonious and different, the villain is the same but not harmonious", the gentleman is in harmony with others, the ancient "and", that is, the harmony, when playing **, various musical instruments have different sounds, but the whole together is harmonious, just like you get along with others, each has its own characteristics, does not require consistency, the same is consistent.

A gentleman can be in harmony with others and does not require uniformity. If the villain is upside down, he must listen to me, and he can only be like me, that is, the villain. Secondly, "the gentleman does not have to be thoughtful, and the villain must not be thoughtful", "Zhou" is universal, and the gentleman generally loves everyone.

When I go out on the street, whoever needs help, I help, not that the person is injured, see if it's a classmate, a neighbor, a relative, it's too narrow. A gentleman generally loves everyone, and "must" is to only like a few dead friends, a few good friends, and villains upside down. Therefore, a gentleman has no selfish intentions.

Again, "the gentleman is proud but not arrogant, the villain is arrogant but not arrogant", "Tai" is Shutai, "proud" is proud, why is a person proud? Because of self-centeredness, he likes to compare himself with others. On the contrary, you are not self-centered, you can get along with everyone calmly, and you will naturally be very comfortable.

Finally, "the gentleman is frank, and the villain is often related", why is the gentleman frank? It is because he is selfless and unselfish. Why does the villain frown all day long?

Because I am always comparing myself to others, competing with others. So who can do what Confucius said about a gentleman? Yan Yuan can do it, and he has been working hard to do it.

So why is Yan Yuan happy? Open-minded, Thai but not arrogant, harmonious and different, such a person is welcomed by everyone everywhere, and he also feels very happy, and because of this, he continues to grow. In the lecture of "learning happiness from Yan Hui", Mr. Fu Peirong made a comprehensive analysis of Yan Hui and came up with the reason for Yan Hui's happiness - the quality of a gentleman.

It also pointed out to us the way to be happy, and the witty words were full of witty words, so please tune in.

Zi said: "Virtuous and virtuous, a spoonful of food, a scoop of drink, in the alleys, people are unbearable, and they will not change their pleasures." Xianzai shouted frankly. ”

Notes: 箪: pronounced dān, bamboo utensils used to serve rice in ancient times.

Lane: This refers to Yan Hui's residence.

Happy: Willing to learn.

Confucius said, "How noble is the quality of Yan Hui! A spoonful of rice, a scoop of water, living in a simple hut, no one else can endure this kind of poverty and hardship, but Yan Hui has not changed his joy of learning. How noble is Yan Hui's quality! ”

In this chapter, Confucius once again praised Yan Hui and spoke highly of him. Here it is said that Yan Hui "does not change his happiness", which is also the spirit of poverty and unswerving, which contains a universal truth, that is, people always have a little spirit, Feng Zhichi for their own ideals, they must continue to pursue, even if life is hard and difficult, they are happy.