How do relatives get along with you, but they don t really look down on you?

Ignore your predicament, let alone help, or like to take advantage of you and dig into your corners.

Whenever you do something very successful, your relatives always surround you and say something to praise you on the surface, but in fact, they are sarcastic about you and don't look down on you.

Ironic getting along, when relatives get along with you, they always sarcastically mock you, in fact, he cares that you are doing better than them.

If your relatives ignore you when you are poor, or scold you when you are prosperous, then they will not be able to look down on you.

1. When despising your relatives and talking to you, tease you with a weird tone of yin and yang.

Relatives who don't take you seriously will sneer at you for no reason, and generally make you unable to get off the stage, even if you show something unpleasant, your relatives will not attach great importance to your emotions and will still be alone. It can't be done until the desired effect is achieved, and it is very likely that the old trick will be repeated until the next time we meet. Looking down on your relatives will make meaningless jokes with you, and sometimes the more you don't want to talk about anything, the more you look down on your relatives, the more afraid you are of not moving the pot and mentioning which pot.

In general, they have to look down on how your relatives judge you in their hearts, and how they will treat you in terms of words and deeds.

Second, looking down on your relatives will deliberately keep their distance from you, and will also make their family members deliberately alienated from you.

If your relatives used to look down on you and now look down on you, there will be a gap in your relatives' behavior. To this day, whether it is a relative or a relative's family, they will have a relationship with you, even if they don't have the opportunity to get together, they will create opportunities to get together. Until now, you will avoid yourself, rarely contact you in your daily life**, and if you take the initiative to contact your relatives who look down on you, looking down on your relatives will highlight boredom.

Especially when there is still a chance to get together during the New Year or holidays, relatives will find one excuse after another, which is nothing more than to get together less with you, and if it is difficult to get together, it will not get together. In the final analysis, you are afraid that you can climb, although you do not have the intention of climbing, but looking down on your relatives will mistakenly think that you have the intention of climbing.

3. The theme style of despising your relatives and interacting with you seems to be basically not related except for showing off or showing off.

Looking down on your relatives is not to show off to you, but to show off to your family, usually the less you or your family, the more afraid you are to show off your relatives, not only to treat you and your family as green leaves to set off roses, but also to find a sense of existence by generalizing in public. Looking down on your relatives is not looking down on your family, and therefore looking down on you, because they look down on you, and therefore look down on your family. In fact, looking down on your relatives is really arrogant and unstoppable, and the most typical self-confidence of the mystery has long been shallow to the level of unreasonableness.

There is a kind of relative like this, no matter how good you are to her, but she just can't look down on your efforts. Communicating with them can make you feel bad. Between some relatives, it seems that they are asking for warmth.

But when they find out that you are better off than they are, they will become jealous.

When relatives are in contact with you, they are especially afraid that you will borrow money or they are especially afraid that you will go to their homes, so do not interact with them.

Some of your relatives are prejudiced against you, speak ill of you behind your back, and turn a blind eye to you, which shows that they look down on you and don't associate with you anymore.

First, their existing three views tell them that your current situation is not really good. Friendly relatives will persuade you, unscrupulous relatives will strike you.

Second, they think you're doing well. Believe me, there are few people in this world who are not jealous when they see others doing well, especially those close to you (except for your parents).

Now I can't see you, because you are not much better than them, you can compare, they feel that no matter how bad it is, it is not worse than you, for example, if you buy a BMW, my family will add some money, and you can buy a BMW with a loan, you are nothing great!

This kind of only strength can be crushed, you mention Maserati, your relatives will never be able to mention it, and they can't compare with you, so naturally they will admit defeat in their hearts! After admitting defeat, you will only admit that you are strong! You're just better than them!

Why do some relatives not see you well, you want to target you, that is they are narrow-minded, if you are poorer than them, they will look down on you, and if you live better than them, they will be jealous of you, in short, it is the heart of love, this kind of relatives do not have to care too much.

I can't see you, and I don't have any necessary connection with whether it is your relative or not. The main reason is that some people just can't see others as good or better than them. Jealousy is superb. The more familiar people are, the more they are stuck in their throats, so all you have to do is ignore their presence!

Because some relatives like to step on others to elevate themselves, they always can't see the good of others, and they can't wait for the lives of their relatives and friends to be better than them, so that she and others will have a sense of superiority. This kind of relative is not necessarily aimed at you, but for everyone around you, it is really very annoying, for example, during the New Year's holidays, I like to ask some questions such as whether there is a partner, how much income, etc., and then it will be related to himself or his children, trying to prove that he has been better than you.

It shows that your relative is cautious, and he can't see that you are better than him, this kind of relative is still better to have less contact, and the most comfortable relationship between people is that they don't have to deliberately please each other, and trust each other, not bother to cater to each other every day in order to say nice things.

Some people are like that.

You're not having a good time, and he sees you laughing.

You are doing well, and he is jealous of you, saying you this, saying you that.

For such a person, just ignore him.

It's good that we try to live our own lives.

Don't waste your time on people who don't deserve it.

Envy, jealousy, hatred, and poor quality of your relatives also indicate that you are not good enough. You only have to do better, leaving these relatives far behind, and you won't feel it at all.

Okay, try your best to shoot all the sycophants.

No one asks about the poor on the streets, but the rich have distant relatives in the mountains.

If your relatives look down on you and you contact him, he thinks he wants to slap him, and if you don't contact him, people still want to do it, and they don't care about you at all.

Since he looks down on you and doesn't care about you at all, it doesn't matter to him at all whether you want to keep in touch with him or not.

For yourself, are you tired of barely associating with someone who looks down on you? And why force yourself to embarrass yourself?

Relatives move more if they get along, and move less or no if they don't.

If you pay more attention to influence, then you usually live your own days and don't come and go, and you can get by on the big side during the New Year's holidays.

The best way to do this is to continue to treat him respectfully, which will help ease your relationship.

In ancient times, there was a method of smelting metal, which was to pile coals on top of and under the ore.

Being kind to others is like placing coals on the head of a person with malicious intentions, which softens him and makes him less tough, eliminating malice and inspiring kindness.