The person I love is contradictory, and I feel like I m a contradictory person.

Keep a certain distance appropriately, everything can not be too urgent to force people to breathe, support her to do things, don't interfere with her, like her does not have to disrupt her life, everyone has their own life, it is best to make your appearance to give her positive help, my husband and I were classmates when I was in school, he will drive me to study, will make me happy after class, I am not happy and uncomfortable, he will appear in time to give me care, he will not interfere with me in any way but is my motivation, So the family is very supportive, until now we are still happy after getting married, we will work hard to pursue life, care for each other and support each other, love to give her the warmest and most intimate. I hope to give you a little help, but life is always on your own, I wish you happiness.

Everybody's experience is different, so what they perceive is different. Our words can only give you some comfort.

Feelings are what they are

Or insist. Or give up.

There is no reluctance.

It's OK to stick to that belief in your heart.

It doesn't matter if you stick with it or give up

It's all a gain.

It's not in vain that you've loved it.

If you really love someone, don't put pressure on the other person, and it's best not to say anything if you want to die or live. A man has to know how to love her silently.

Poor puberty, haha!

Then you should be students, and I personally don't advocate falling in love in high school. However, according to your situation, you should communicate well with him and turn love into motivation, and if you break up, it will be more uncomfortable and affect your studies more, because you still have feelings. There are a lot of couples in our school, and now they have to take the university entrance examination together, and after being together for a long time, it's good to run in slowly, don't think too much.

In this materialistic world, emotions are becoming more and more difficult to manage, and once not handled well, divorce is no longer a novelty.

But if you want to redeem it, it's not impossible.

1. Learn to compromise.

When you fall in love, you always don't care about gains and losses, you want to give the best things to each other, after getting married, there is no more freshness, everything tends to be flat, and you will never give in after a quarrel, but this kind of relationship is getting weaker and weaker, so you must learn to say sorry, learn to give each other steps, and learn to compromise. Is it worth it to think about it for the sake of small things? It's not worth it, what's so hard about concessions and compromises?

Try to put down your body and think more about each other, and everything will become happier.

2. Amplify the other party's advantages.

When you are in love, you can't always see each other's shortcomings, but because after getting married, the two are getting more and more familiar, and people are always like this, and it is easy to leave the worst side to the closest people. To outsiders, polite, to each other, tantrums, arrogant. Sometimes, when you need to lose your temper, calm down and think about it, the other party's goodness to yourself, the other party's advantages, many things are not so angry, be together, learn to praise each other, and the two of you will progress together.

3. Tell each other out loud that you care about each other very much.

We Chinese are always very introverted, not so expressive, and unwilling to speak out our love. Coupled with the big and small trivial things in life, he is aggressive when he quarrels, but he becomes afraid to say it when he expresses his love. Husband and wife are the most intimate people, and they should express their concern for each other as they did during the love period, so that the other party can feel your love and care, and the two of them will take a step back, and life will be better and better.

Have you learned these three tricks?

Regardless of boys and girls, learning to think about others and making each other comfortable is the highest emotional intelligence!

Life is about how to live a good ordinary year, as long as everyone understands and understands each other, tolerates and cherishes, in fact, you can be harmonious and happy!

Modern people always treat feelings in the form of fast food, but as everyone knows, feelings can be repaired when they are bad, and they can be adjusted when they are tired, and they can be considerate of each other. The key to a good relationship between husband and wife is to learn to open one eye and close one eye, remember the good side of each other, remember the happy things in life, forget the bad things in each other, and forget the unhappy fragments in life!! Be more understanding, trusting, and tolerant!!

Love is, when there was no contact for a few days, I was anxious to call him, and then held back my tears and smiled.

I like it, only when I'm together, I think about each other.

Love, even if they are together, they miss him every second.

If you like one person and have many friends, you will also feel happy.

Loving one person is a world where one more person will be uncomfortable for two people.

Like a person, it's sweet and greasy.

Loving someone is hard to come by.

Like a person, you will be happy when you are together.

Love an acre of individuals, when they are together, they will be inexplicably lost.

Like a person, you won't think about your Sun Zhousen's future.

Love someone, and you always look forward to tomorrow together.

Like someone, it's always fun when you're together.

Love someone, and you will often shed tears.

Like someone, when you haven't seen each other for a long time, you will suddenly think of him.

Love someone, when you haven't seen each other for a long time, you will think about him every day.

Like someone, when you think of him, you will smile slightly.

Love someone, when you think of him, you will be in a daze with the sky.

Like someone, you will think that he has a child, and you will definitely like it.

Love someone, and one day, you suddenly wonder: what will our children be like in the future.

To like someone is to want everyone to be happy.

Loving someone hopes that he will be happier.

Like someone, you have to just today.

To love someone, what you expect is forever.

To like a person is to see his merits.

To love someone is to tolerate his shortcomings.

When you stand in front of someone you love, your heart beats faster.

But when you stand in front of someone you like, you only feel happy.

When you make eye contact with the person you love, you will be shy.

But when you make eye contact with someone you like, you will only smile.

When you have a conversation with someone you love, you find it difficult to speak.

When someone you love cry, you will cry with her.

But when someone you like is crying, you will skillfully comfort her.

When you don't want to love someone anymore, you have to close your eyes and hold back tears.

When you don't want to like someone anymore, you just cover your ears!

Like, is a mood.

Love is a feeling.

Like, it's an intuition.

Love is a feeling.

Love has no end.

Likes to be alone, especially natural.

Love someone, especially calmly.

I like someone, and sometimes I look forward to being with him.

Love someone, sometimes afraid to be with him.

I like a person and keep arguing with him.

Love someone and keep paying for him.

Love someone and hope to be able to find him at any time.

Like a guy and always laugh for him.

Love someone and always cry for him.

Like, is persistent.

Love, is worth it.

Like is like, it's simple.

Love is love, it's complicated.

I like you, but I don't necessarily love you.

If I love you, I must like you very much.

In fact, liking and loving are only one step away.

But, want to take this step.

It's up to you. It's like to take this step.

Or love to take this step.

I have a bit of experience.

Caring about other people's opinions is actually caring about the relationship between yourself and the other person, which is the premise of caring for others, caring for others, and showing compassion. However, we don't need to care about everyone, we just need to care for and love those we love (parents, friends, rivals, children, lovers, etc.) and those who love us (teachers, etc.).

The first and final freedom lies in change. It has no end, or the end is the next beginning, which is constantly changing. Change is what change is, change is love. Love is about changing all the time.

You can try to change yourself (don't think that the changed me is no longer the real me, in fact, it has always been the real me, after all, you are the master of your destiny and the commander of your soul).

Let me give you some ideas from a technical point of view.

Fat is **, girls just need to eat less, so that they will have a good figure, and then dress up, dress up, the key is what clothes to wear on what occasion (for example, if you usually go to class, school uniforms or ordinary casual clothes can be, you can consider dressing up with some care in your hair or bracelet, and on weekends, you can be casual at home, and you will tend to date casual wear when you go out, small heels or something)).

It's perfectly fine to be timid and cowardly for life, but life will be much bleaker and you will miss a lot of things. But in fact, it is not a matter of timidity, but a lack of experience, and what to do if you have no experience, you can perform at a moderate level in the activity if you do your homework beforehand, at least you won't make a fool of yourself. Then you have experience, and the more experience you have, the better it is, and then negotiating with strangers is as easy as saying hello to your parents in the morning.

The idea of social interaction in love can be found from TV or movies.

Think and practice more, come up with a way of thinking, and then follow the way of thinking, the way of thinking will change, (this is a fishing plan).

People have to pay attention to other people's opinions, and in today's society, it is impossible to say that they don't care about other people's opinions at all. Everyone needs affirmation from others.

But you also can't care too much about what other people think, being completely swayed by others or becoming extremely unconfident, so that you can easily get depressed, which is not good for your mental health.

You have to know that self-confidence is very important, you have to appreciate yourself, but you can't be narcissistic, and you have to be humble, but you can't be inferior.

Self-confidence is cultivated slowly. Do more things that you are good at, and you can increase your self-confidence by achieving certain results or being better than others. If you can't find it in real life, you can find it in the virtual world now, but don't be obsessed, and you still have to return to reality after cultivating a certain amount of self-confidence.

Complete a task that you think you can't complete, such as signing up for a self-program at a theatrical evening, and training hard until you perform smoothly, with the purpose of regaining your self-confidence.

Man is inherently a contradictory being! Just do what you think is right, and believe in yourself

Read aloud! Then recite it! Read it afterward!

Perhaps, you are right, yes, it is really not easy to meet someone you love and your parents are satisfied with, but it is really fateful to meet you like this in the vast sea of people; It's like you don't believe in love at first sight, but it also happens. Therefore, you are unwilling to let go, for fear that you will never meet such a person again, and you are very unwilling to end up like this. I can understand how you feel.

After all, you have also had and been happy. Who will? I am also reluctant.

I can't muster up the courage to make an end to this relationship with my own hands, and ask him if he loves himself, and if he says love, even if he doesn't love him as deeply and intensely as he does, he is content. Even if you are afraid of losing, you have to force yourself to do that, and the long pain is better than the short pain.

However, I still suggest that you reconsider your relationship and rationally analyze whether you are suitable for being together. You love him too much and give him your heart, if he doesn't know how to cherish your sincerity, it will be you who will hurt in the end. He is a very ambitious person, friends are second to him, and love is third.

So, as for "home", I don't know if he put it first after getting married. You are together, it will be very sweet, separated, but will not care about you, this is actually not normal, I feel that he may not pay much attention to you, as you said, although he is a person who does not care much, but I think it is still appropriate to take the initiative to talk to you.

I hope you don't always allow yourself to give, compromise and wait. Be brave, make a decision, and give yourself an explanation. It's only you who is tired if you drag it out like this, and it's you who is entangled, so why bother?

It's understandable that you say you can't accept marrying someone you don't love. But it's too early to say that, how do you know you won't fall in love with someone else? First love is unforgettable, but time will still dilute everything, maybe, you can meet the person you love more, and that person can also respond to your love, give you the same love, you will be happier than now.

So, think about it yourself, and if you can't let go of his words, ask him out to talk to him, say your own feelings and thoughts, and see what his attitude is. If his answer doesn't satisfy you, I hope you don't get stuck any longer. Don't end up bruising yourself.

I believe that God will open another window for you when he closes this door.

Go and fight for it, get drunk and drag it into the hotel, and get married with your son, otherwise you will take the child and live by yourself.

Now that you have the answer, why bother! You must know that few men in the career field can care about the feelings of their women, and they are always hot and cold, because they don't understand;

In fact, you can take the initiative to communicate with him and tell him your thoughts and thoughts. Untie the knot.

The most important thing is to be happy