What is the Chinese New Year Fear of Returning Tribes and why do they appear Fear of Returning?

Spring Festival: Why do people fear returning?

In the TVS city affairs special search, I saw: "Fear of returning".

The Spring Festival is approaching, and the mood of "fear of return" spreads in the hearts of outsiders. They are known as the "Fear of Return".

According to the analysis and induction of some sociologists, people with the following worries can be regarded as "fear of returning", these worries include: thinking of buying tickets for the Spring Festival; I am afraid that when I return home, my parents and relatives will ask about the treatment and current situation; unmarried people are worried about being "forced to marry"; Married people are worried about being spawned; I am afraid of seeing my relatives grow old, I am afraid of remembering the past, and I am afraid of hearing the news of the death of an acquaintance. There are several reasons for this:

1.I didn't have the money to buy a ticket, and I couldn't satisfy my desire to return home.

2.No object.,This year is Valentine's Day and New Year's Day.,It's time to nag your parents when you go back.。。

3.The distance is far away, there are many people, and the ticket is not easy to buy, alas, now there is a real-name system, do you usually go to work, and you can't buy a ticket.

Because there is no money.

1. If you don't have money, you can't bring expensive gifts to your parents when you go home.

2. If you don't have money, you won't have a boyfriend or girlfriend, and you can't pay your parents when you go home.

3. If you don't have money, you have no face, and you can't hold your head up in front of your classmates and friends.

4. If you don't have money, you are reluctant to spend it, and you will go home and spend all your savings for a year, and you will have no money to find a girlfriend in the next year.

5. If you don't have money, you have no confidence, so don't do anything, and honestly hide outside for a lonely year.

6. No money, why no money, it's not that you don't work hard, and this world is like this.

Fear of returning people is a general term for those who work in other places and are unwilling to return to China for the Spring Festival. In the eyes of ordinary people, and even in the eyes of their parents and relatives, the "fear of return" is a little cold-blooded, and it is even easy to be implicated with unfilial piety, but for the "fear of return", there are too many reasons to fear going home——— there are too many things to do when you go home, but the vacation is always too short; At the end of the year, all kinds of expenses have increased, and going home for the New Year is undoubtedly another "hemorrhage and so on."

It is the Spring Festival, a festival of great reunion, and the wanderers who make a living outside are difficult to find and fear to go home because of the difficulty of finding a ticket for the Spring Festival or income.

People who are afraid to go home and would rather wander outside.

Fear of Returning Ethnic Minorities refers to those who work in other places and are unable to return home for various reasons. The fear of "fear of returning" is not a resistance to going home itself, but an instinctive reaction under the torture of Wu Shizhi under the various troubles of returning home during the festival.

I am afraid of returning to the tribe during the Spring Festival.

After working for many years, I haven't earned any money, and it's time for the Chinese New Year, except for the rent and living expenses, there is not much left, what do you want to do when you go home to honor your parents? Children are better than parents, and older people are more sensitive to children. Whose children are prosperous and more filial, of course, is a matter of light on the faces of the elderly.

And the only way that the sons and daughters in a foreign land can show filial piety is, of course, to be generous ......

Reason: First, out of face problems, I have no money to go home and have no face to see Jiangdong's father.

second, if the relationship problem is not dealt with well, you will be forced to marry when you go home; I don't want to get married for the time being, for fear of being forced to buy a house.

Third, if you don't succeed in your career, how to go home and "hand in the papers"?

Fourth, the transportation fee is too expensive, and I don't want to go back for fear of being guilty on the road, and it is also a big expense to go home for entertainment.

Fifth, I don't like to entertain those "three aunts and six women" who don't come to the door for nothing, and when they meet, they will only keep asking about salary, objects, and work, and they are upset.

Sixth, the Spring Festival is a big competition of financial resources, and when the money is spent, our family will think that we are stingy, and it seems that we have been mixed outside for a few years, so why is it still the same.

Summary: There are "fear of returning" on the Internet, and they also summarized the "five major fears" of not daring to go home during the Spring Festival: first, I am afraid of the "wheel war" of the dinner, too tired; Second, I am afraid of the pressure of the Spring Festival, and I am too afraid; Third, I am afraid that my parents will force me to get married, and I will be too embarrassed; Fourth, I am afraid of the debt of the correspondents, and it is too annoying; Five are afraid of post-holiday syndrome, too worried.

1.Reflecting the poverty of the general public (how many people can't afford the New Year?) Think for yourself to know) 2It reflects that the transportation system is not perfect (I think some people are reluctant to go home, because it is difficult to buy tickets, the traffic conditions are poor, and many people have experienced that going home during the Spring Festival is crowded and annoying).

3.The traditional concept of festivals has gradually been lost under social pressure, and people are blindly comparing (in the past, unlike now, the Spring Festival only seeks family reunions, but now it is a variety of comparisons).

4.Spring Festival social prices**, the market is chaotic! (The most common thing I hear when I walk on the street during the Chinese New Year is "jumping price".)"Selling blood for a price".Activity. But are things really cheap? Everyone knows it in their hearts).

1: The company does not take holidays, and I am afraid of losing my job when I go home.

2: The income is small, and the New Year's money cannot be paid.

3: Lack of family care and reluctance to go home.

Netizen Mud Ball: Who doesn't want to go home, who doesn't want to have a warm home and a harbor to dock at, but there are always some unavoidable difficulties in life. What can I say, I sympathize with these people who are not going home, and I wish you all the same!

Netizen Huang Hua Zhiqing: I can't go back to my home, it's my own sorrow and the sorrow of society, I can't go home to reunite with my parents and relatives during the Spring Festival, I will be burdened with some "love debts", they are sensitive, their pressure is also great, and parents should also understand the children's hardships.

Netizen 7979: Not returning is not equal to not being filial, when many people are forced to choose between family affection and reality, we should respect the choices of others, too much red tape, too short holidays, too difficult to buy tickets, and ...... not suitable for the rhythm of life at home, Many reasons are intertwined, not to mention that communication is so developed, and you can also express your thoughts about your family.

Netizen Riding a bull through the village: In this era of cultural diversity, it is not a big deal not to go home during the Spring Festival, in fact, if you don't go home, you may be able to live a more wonderful and warm life, and the elderly should also learn to create happiness by themselves, learn to be independent and happy, and not rely on their children the older they get.

The Spring Festival is approaching, and many people who have left their hometowns to work in other places have begun to book tickets to go home again, and it seems that there is a joyful return to their hearts everywhere. However, there are also such a part of the people who are full of worries and fears about going home for the Spring Festival. For them, instead of blending into the Spring Festival army and rushing back to reunite, it is better to stay in the city alone and enjoy a lonely and comfortable life.

Their fear is not a resistance to going home per se, but an instinctive reaction to the annoyance of going home for the holidays.

There are so many things to do at home, but the holidays are always too short; There is a large group of relatives and friends, so lively, but it seems that the three heads and six arms can't be explored; Even though the nostalgia is amiable, he can live outside all the year round, and he can no longer adapt to the rhythm of life in this land; At the end of the year, various expenses have increased, and going home for the New Year is undoubtedly another "hemorrhage", making the fiscal deficit more and more precarious; finally enjoyed the privileges of a single nobleman quietly, but was caught by his parents and forced to "marry" for seven days.

People in the workplace should open their minds, and enterprises should care more about employees.

Going home for the Spring Festival is not an easy topic for most professionals. Supporting parents, buying a house and repaying loans, getting married and having children, etc., all require people to work hard in the workplace. Originally, some "painful" topics that could be avoided could not be hidden after returning home for the Spring Festival, which made too many people entangled and even unbearable.

Fear of returning can be said to be a self-psychological protection mechanism for professionals to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages in the face of consumption beyond their own income level. "Human resources experts believe that when people go home for the Spring Festival, professionals tend to feel stronger economic pressure. It is recommended that enterprises pay attention to this phenomenon and take measures in some details to improve employee satisfaction and loyalty.

For example, increase the "year-end bonus" distribution, or the assessment of outstanding employees to pay double salary, can also reimburse a certain percentage of family visit transportation expenses, in the pre-holiday corporate annual meeting, but also try to reward employees through gifts, cash and other forms.

Psychological counselors also said that the psychological pressure of "fear of returning" is experienced by many people who work in other places. For the "fear of returning", the first thing you have to tell yourself is, "You are not fighting alone, you are not alone". In the face of the high expectations of your loved ones, you may wish to tell your current situation truthfully, and at the same time, you should also describe to your relatives that it is not easy to develop in a foreign land.

If your parents, relatives and friends are more concerned about your "personal problems" or other privacy, on the premise that you are willing to communicate, on the basis of mastering the level of communication, you can say more about those who are close to you and really care about you, and you can laugh at those who simply want to inquire about privacy and compare in private, or say a joke to express your dissatisfaction.