Can you tell us about how you felt when you had your second child?

I took the exam and had a friend who was a top student at a prestigious university, and his parents were 50 years old and very rich. Gao Caisheng was hit by a car one day and died. Parents are 50 years old and ready to have another one, this level of hardship, hey.

Very tired, I feel that it is impossible to take a baby as fine as before, in recent days, I have a lot of things, my parents have something to do, my husband is still on a business trip, the new house is being renovated, the publishing house is also urging the draft, and finally I have to go to work normally, I feel that it is not enough for one person to split into two petals.

I am willing to have a second child, all because I like to raise children.

After the arrival of the second child, all kinds of scramble will ignore the education and companionship of the eldest child, and the second child should try to treat the conflicts between the two children fairly after being sensible.

Tired, I already have a second one in my belly! I am the one who gave birth to one and was determined to give birth to a second one! Unlike most people who are willing to have a second child, I don't live with the elderly, most of the Dabao is brought by myself, and I have been working.

It's just that I'm an only child, and I don't want him to be as lonely as me, I don't want him to face the plight of the four old and lower children, and I want him to experience the warmth of brother and sister love. I think I should have a second child, and the child will be very happy.

As a person with a younger brother, a second child is a matter of course, and my relationship with my brother is very good, so I also want a second child.

When I was young, I grew up with my sisters, and I was really happy and happy, and I really wanted my children to be like this.

I would like to have two children, both men and women.

Because. First, children have company, and the growth environment will not be too lonely;

Second, when encountering major events of birth, old age, sickness and death, someone can discuss and take care of it, rather than one person resisting;

3. Children will inevitably encounter setbacks and difficulties on the road of life in the future, and siblings can at least support each other at critical times;

Fourth, there is more to rely on for the elderly.

Of course, these are all based on the economic conditions are acceptable, if the economy does not allow it, it is still necessary to have one, after all, it is not low to raise a child now, and if it is to reduce the quality of life of all the people in the family and reluctantly give birth to a second child, it is irresponsible to everyone. Moreover, in the current era of increasingly solidified classes, if you can't guarantee that the boss can grow up healthy and happy, please restrain your impulses.

Since childhood, we have carefully cultivated it and cared for it. When we are old, it is the children who bring us tea and water. Our children take care of our daily lives.

With children there is hope, without children there is nothing to look forward to, we have raised children with hard work since childhood. During the Chinese New Year and holidays, I always hope that my children will come home early. As the old saying goes, a mother wants her children to grow and grow.

The children want to be long. Parents devote all their energy to their children. I don't ask for anything in return, I just hope that my son and daughter will grow up healthily, live his own life, and come back to see us during the New Year.

From the birth of my sister to the present, some people have been telling me, hurry up and have a second child, how good the second child is and so on, I can't say no, I can't refute, otherwise there will be countless words waiting for me later!

Regarding the second child, I would like to say that you never know about other people's situations, so no one should force other people's affairs. Having a baby is not raising a pig, it is a matter of responsibility and courage.

In today's society, everyone is under a lot of pressure, and everyone is busy like a spinning top, can't stop, don't stop, and can't turn back when you stop. It takes a lot of time and energy to have a child, because the best education for a child is companionship. And our children have been missing this kind of companionship.

Left-behind children abound, the problem of left-behind children has been reported repeatedly, or our children are not necessarily left-behind children, but in China, the absence of at least one of the parents is often a social norm, generally the role of the father. This is the case in many of my families, where my father travels all year round, leaving only my mother and children at home. Not to mention how hard it is for a mother to take care of her children, that is, children who are not accompanied by their fathers all year round, I think it is unfair to children.

Parents are nurturing and nurturing their children, and there is always some meaning that accompanies education, but how many people are really doing it.

I know that many parents want to have a second child because they want to give their children a companion, hoping to reduce the burden of their children when they are old, about this reason, no one has ever told me that he wants children just to enjoy the fun of raising children, or it is an instinct, instinctively want to embrace a new life, no one says so, thinks so, does this, no one.

I can't agree that my child was born to care for me decades from now, or just to be the companion of another child. I hope he is here because I am willing to spend time and energy with him, and because I enjoy my time with him. But now I don't really have that idea.

So what about not having a second child?

Smooth delivery, under normal circumstances, you can have it in the second year, at this time it depends on the recovery of the body, generally if it is a natural birth, there are no too strict requirements, and you can wait until the baby is weaned, if it is a caesarean section, it is more than three years.

First, we need to understand why people would want to have a second child. Some parents want more children, want their families to be more complete, and even to take care of their retirement; Some parents may want to have a child of opposite sex because the first child is not male or female, so as to achieve family balance. In these cases, we can't stop them from having a second child because it's their own choice.

However, if the parents' physical condition does not allow it or the family's financial situation does not allow it, then we can make our own proposal to prevent them from having a second child. This is because, if the parents are in poor physical condition or the family is financially unstable, having a second child may bring greater financial and life pressure to the family, and may also adversely affect the child's growth and development.

In addition, if parents already have very limited time and energy to care for their first child, having a second child may make it more difficult for them to balance work and childcare time, which is not good for the child's growth and development.

However, we cannot directly prevent parents from having a second child, because it is their choice and right. Through reasonable communication and suggestions, parents can consider their own physical and family conditions more comprehensively, and ultimately reach better decisions.

In short, in general, we do not have the right to prevent parents from having a second child, but if the physical condition and family financial situation of the parents do not allow it, we can put forward our own suggestions for parents to consider more comprehensively.

I wouldn't agree to have a second child. Children have the right to advise their parents. I think every family's situation is different, so this issue should be treated differently.

1. The reason why parents have a second child.

There may be parents who want to have a second child because they want the family to be more complete and happy, or they want to have more children to accompany them and provide for the elderly. However, whatever the reason, parents need to take into account the existing family conditions and the wishes of their children.

2. Parents have the right to have children, and children do not prevent parents from having children.

However, as a reasonable and responsible parent, they need to respect their children's feelings and ideas, and communicate and negotiate with their children.

4. Parents need to comprehensively consider their own family and economic conditions, age and physical condition.

At the same time, they also need to fully communicate and communicate with their existing children and listen to their opinions and suggestions. If the child is opposed to having a second child, the parents can respect the child's wishes, but there is also a need for proper explanation and communication.

5. Consider family conditions.

On the premise of looking at the parents, it is also necessary to help the parents consider the factors of family conditions. If the family conditions are good, after giving birth to a second child, it will not make you lose your original life, so you can not stop it; However, if the conditions of the family slide chain are not good, it is not recommended for parents to have a second child, because it is difficult to raise one of you, not to mention raising a younger brother and sister!

Sixth, it's also good for you.

If your parents add a younger sibling to you, you will be better equipped to accompany you from a long-term perspective. If you are an only child, when your parents are old, the task of supporting your parents will fall on you alone, but if you have a younger brother or sister, you can support your parents together when it is time for Lu Rangheng, which will reduce a lot of burden for you.

7. Parents are not there to take care of you.

After many years, your parents are gone, and you are old, but your younger siblings are still young, and you don't have no relatives, wouldn't it be nice that your younger siblings who are in the same vein as you can take care of you.

In short, having a second child is a complex issue that requires a comprehensive consideration of various factors, and whether children have the right to prevent their parents from having a second child needs to respect their parents' rights while respecting their children's feelings and ideas.

Yesterday, I followed the three-year-old Dabao to buy vegetables, and after buying it, I thought about taking Dabao to the playground to play, but Dabao said: "Mom, let's go home first to see the little baby, what if he is hungry."

It's very heartwarming, what a good sister.

It feels like when there are two children playing together, or when they grow up to have a companion for each other and will help each other, I feel that the second child is particularly valuable at this time, because the biggest meaning of the second child is to have a mood of companionship, and it is the closest person in blood besides parents.

When I saw two children playing with each other, chasing each other, and laughing innocently, I felt that the hard work of having a second child was particularly worthwhile.