How to look at the blind date problem and how to treat the blind date correctly?

Personally, I think that blind dates are just a formality, sometimes in order to get rid of the urging or nagging of parents to deal with it, and sometimes it may be out of curiosity to go to each other. Some blind dates are successful, and there are those who are not right, and they are destined to meet thousands of miles away, I believe that any opportunity is in their own hands, and sometimes they don't fight for it, even if it belongs to them, they will lose.

The biggest change before and after marriage is something you didn't expect I am not against blind dates, nor do I advocate blind dates!

Blind date is a relatively quick way to understand each other, now the society due to work and other aspects of the cause of men and women can not find a suitable object, blind date is generally with the help of parents and friends, for you to find some work, family conditions, economic conditions and other suitable objects, although the word blind date looks relatively old, but it is indeed very practical, at least both parties can have a deep understanding. And once both parties speculate on each other's feelings, then it will soon be able to come together! Although the blind date is more realistic in terms of conditions, it is really necessary in modern society!

Although it is said that today's society is free love, there are still certain advantages to being introduced by others, and the introducer is introduced by weighing whether the conditions of both men and women are suitable in all aspects, and they will only be introduced if they have a certain understanding of each other.

It's just the form, it's not very important.

Have your own standards and bottom line. In the blind date process, we need to be clear about our standards and bottom line, and don't give up our principles because of loneliness or other reasons. Only by finding the right people can we live happily ever after.

Mutual respect is important. Blind date is not a simple process, and we need to respect each other's choices and decisions. If we don't feel good about the other person or don't fit in, we should be honest and honest, rather than making false promises or delaying time.

Don't rush things. Blind date is a slow and steady process, and we need to be patient to find and wait. Don't rush it, or we may miss out on someone who is really right for us.

It's important to really get to know each other. In the process of blind date, we should learn about each other as much as possible, including their Xingzhou disadvantages, family background, living habits, etc. It is only through in-depth communication and understanding that we can better assess whether the other party is suitable for us.

Don't forget your sense of well-being. Above all, we must not forget our sense of well-being. Don't go against your heart because of other people's expectations or societal pressures. We should look for someone who is really right for us and live happily ever after.

The essence of blind date is to help you expand your network of contacts, not to let you cross the class circle, let alone help you realize your dream of getting rich. There are not so many realistic and material requirements, but after the introduction of intermediaries, the rules and regulations have come and the requirements are particularly high.

In fact, it is basically impossible to change one's fate through marriage. Those who are highly educated and good at digging simple pieces must be more shrewd than you are more aware than you. Marriage requires the group to complement each other's advantages, it has never been class poverty alleviation, and only by providing enough value to each other can your marriage be guaranteed.

1.The blind date is suitable, if it is not suitable, you can't work hard, this has to go both ways, stop the loss in time, and if the right words are in the bag immediately, you will suffer from it if you delay for a long time; No one else saw it, so it's appropriate to live and see the ghost, and if you don't see it, it's not suitable for Zen, and your own feet know whether it's suitable or not; Blind date is like buying clothes, you have to try it to know if it's suitable.

2.Try to find family background, cultural background, growth background and Limb Mountain three views are similar, the run-in cost is more experienced in the low, yes, that is to say, find your classmates, kill familiarity; The combination of two people, on a larger level, is the mutual integration of the experience of two people in the first half of their lives, and then they have to face the relationship between the two sides of various extensional relationships, to eat together, play together and sleep together, relatively speaking, killing and ripening can effectively reduce the cost of running-in, otherwise sweet tofu brain and salty tofu brain can quarrel for a long time;

3.Effort: It is better to kill a thousand by mistake than to put one wrong; There are thousands of sons and daughters of the motherland, if it doesn't work, we will change it; Don't hang yourself on a crooked neck tree, you can try to change a few more trees, in short, blind date is two problems, one is probability, the other is your own growth, deepen your understanding of yourself, learn to change, these two questions should be improved as much as possible; Blind date is to find, to find who I am and what I want; Blind date is just a way to get to know the opposite sex, but it's more efficient; Blind dates are just one way to pursue happiness.

4.The most important thing is to improve yourself, enrich yourself, and make yourself better. Don't take yourself too seriously, don't take yourself too seriously in the process of blind date, you must constantly improve yourself, and you have to do the interview questions after going home from the interview, change your resume, the core competitiveness in the blind date can of course be the ability to make money, but most ordinary people, the output of positive emotions, shielding negative energy is the core competitiveness.

One is inner rejection. Many people are disgusted, rejected, and disgusted with the form of blind date from the heart, and feel that they have become a commodity to be sold at a price, and they are picked and picked at will, and they can't get over that hurdle psychologically. In addition, you may meet the opposite of what you like, and even the boys who combine the points they hate, naturally, disgust and rejection go to the top.

Second, the matching degree is too low. Many people have encountered this situation, the introducer always likes to introduce excellent boys and excellent girls, but often to no avail. It must be affirmed that the boys and girls are really good individually.

However, being good doesn't mean being a match. may like and value each other differently, there is no problem with normal communication, and being friends is like-minded, but becoming a lover can probably only be a lover who is not satisfied. Thus, the drawbacks of the introduction are revealed.

However, I would like to point out that even if you are in free love, there are cases where you find that each other is not suitable and break up peacefully, so why should you be so demanding that the blind date must be fate?

The third is that it is too transparent. Almost all married people admit that when they got married, they were more or less confused, and they didn't think about it deeply, so they went with the flow. And now unmarried people, basically have received higher education, have a certain amount of knowledge and insight, plus in the society for many years, know people and things have formed a set of their own unique opinions, can quickly judge whether this person meets their own preferences, can also be said to be not so easy to deceive and easy to handle.

Fourth, they are unwilling to wronged themselves. This is typical of older unmarried young people. Everyone has been living independently for nearly 30 years, many are still only children, and no one wants to be wronged or even compromise for someone they don't like very much.

If your parents and elders are concerned, your thoughts are still stuck in their time. Thinking about the material life is consistent, and does not take into account what the real thinking of young people is today.

And what my elders introduced, everyone doesn't know much. It may be at a different level in thought. Parents yearn for a stable life.

For young people, what their parents introduce is not necessarily the best, because they used to think about haircuts. I was watching my parents' introductions before, and I was already forcing myself to accept it. If you accept it, you are compromising with your parents, so many young people are facing blind dates with a rebellious attitude, what they need is a comfortable love, not a kind of bound love, which is equivalent to marriage, they want freedom, the blind date introduced by parents may be in the village, the better young people in the village For young people from the outside world, they may have a bad attitude towards the blind date we introduced.