How to deal with divorce and how to get it right

The older the child, the bigger the problem.

However, you should consider such things yourself, and other people's suggestions cannot be up to you, it is you who make the decision.

Giving someone a chance is the same as giving yourself a chance!!

There is also the mood to go online, which means that it can be saved! Women don't want to divorce easily.

While the child is still young and he is still young, end this marriage as soon as possible, if you swallow your anger, it will only be more painful.

Xinmai is divorced, although it will bring people a very bad feeling. However, we still have to learn to put this matter in perspective.

Accept reality. Now that we have come to the step of divorce, no matter who the reason is, no matter who proposed it, after the decision is made, then accept this fact, it should be a turning point, a new starting point, and start anew.

Don't hold a grudge. Learn to let go and don't have any resentment and resentment towards the other party who is alive. Learn to take a good look at it. You have to know that you can have your own life, you can have your own joy and happiness. On your own, you can also live the life you want.

Learn to love yourself.

It is indeed not easy to get out of the shadow of divorce, first of all, you need to spend more time to heal, slowly adjust your mentality, and look away. Relax and take care of yourself; Once you've calmed yourself down, it's time to look forward and start your new life.

Try to face the divorce, give yourself some time to heal, learn to enjoy the single life again, try to let go of the failed relationship and rekindle the love of life.

While dealing with the divorce, you can take some time to miss this once beautiful relationship, divorce only represents the failure of this marriage and life, and there is no need to deny your former feelings, you can take the time to recall the sweetness of the relationship at the beginning, do not blindly deny the past, leave a little time to heal yourself, there is no need to blindly avoid the hurt.

Adjust your mentality, don't blindly follow the advice of others, other people's advice is put forward from your own position, you need to decide whether to follow it or not. Don't rush to start a new relationship, starting a new relationship in a hurry won't make you forget about your ex quickly. If you already have a failed marriage, then you must be cautious when you want to start a new marriage again, you must think about what you want and whether the other party can give it, instead of holding the purpose of using a new marriage to save yourself, relying on anyone is better than relying on yourself.

Take care of yourself. Even if you are sad and feel that the only thing you can do is cry, then you should still eat on time, and you should still get out of the house to exercise to ensure your health; You should still close your eyes and lie down for a while when you need to rest. People must know how to love themselves well, and they will live well by themselves before they get married.

Enjoy this time, although divorce is a less blessed thing, but divorce is also the beginning of a new life. You can also look at the problem from another angle, instead of struggling in a painful marriage, it is better to live alone easily, and there is no misfortune in divorce. Spend more time with family and friends, and when you're ready, you can start a new relationship.

I will. In life, there are many people who always feel that their imaginary marriage is happy, so when they encounter a little family conflict, they feel that their marriage is unhappy, and they feel that their lover is useless, and they will have the idea of divorce. If at this time, there is an extramarital affair outside, coupled with the sweet words of the other party, and the alliance is made, so I feel that I have found true love and happiness, but some people weigh the pros and cons again and again due to the fetters of their children, and finally choose to continue their marriage for the sake of their children.

But there are still some people who are carried away by the fantasy of a happy marriage, and finally ruthlessly abandon their children and choose to divorce! However, these people he did not actually understand the essence of marriage, what is marriage? Marriage is a couple of men and women living together, facing oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, pots and pans, facing a common livelihood, facing the trivialities and contradictions of life, and ignoring anyone's marriage.

Most divorced people in life eventually have remorse! They found that after remarriage, the new marriage is nothing more than that, and sometimes, it is not as good as the original marriage! The successor is not as good as the predecessor, because it is a halfway combination family, if both parties have children in the past, it must be a family where you quarrel and quarrel, and the contradictions are constant, it is simply hell on earth, life is better than death, and what happiness can be said.

But who do you blame? You brought it on yourself! Suffer as much as you want!

Therefore, love is sweet, marriage is bland, you don't think about marriage too ideally, if it is too ideal, you can only go to Ma Yun, Liu Qiangdong, and what other rich tycoons, they will give you food and clothing without worry! But it's also impossible for these people to give you sweet love, why? You should know.

In the world, in general, marriage is still good! Because the original marriage is a seamless whole that is fused by the feelings of the husband, wife, and children; What's yours is mine, and what's mine is yours; The child is biological, your child is also my child, my child is also your child, the family is emotionally integrated, regardless of each other.

But the remarried family is different, between them, yours is yours, mine is mine, your child is your child, my child is my child, there is a gap in the heart, there is a rift in the feelings, and the feelings are difficult to melt, so that a family can never form a seamless and perfect whole with each other! But it can only be a family, people together, half-hearted, divided, each with a ghost! In the end, quarrel for the children, quarrel for their own interests, quarrel for trivial matters, quarrel for each other!

In such a family, you can only be miserable, depressed, depressed! What about happiness!

Once you give up your children for divorce, the children's hatred for you will not be eliminated for life, and even if you make up for this family affection in the future, it will be useless. Because there has been a rift in the blood relationship, it will never be restored! Don't forget!

Ending a dead marriage with divorce is a sign of social progress. Resolving the divorce issue with a rational attitude and through legal means is also a sign of civilization. However, just as marriage is not child's play, divorce is a matter that should be treated with special caution.

There will always be some setbacks and crises in long-term married life, and there will be periodic "disgust periods" between any couple. There is no need to rush to make a decision when the conflict is intense, you can let it go first, be cold and cold, reflect on it, and maybe after a while it will be reconciled again. Even if you still have to divorce in the end, dealing with it calmly will make both parties suffer less harm.

In particular, divorce should not be used as a means of getting rid of conflicts and troubles. If you don't learn from the lessons of failed marriages, and still have naïve ideas about marriage and family, you may fall into failed marriages again and again in the future or from now on. Instead of that, it is better to put more effort into maintaining the first marriage.

If you don't feel happy with each other, divorce is the best option.

I feel that two people are only burdening and hurting each other when they are together, I think divorce is the right way to live, leave a shackle, and find a life partner who truly belongs to you!

Depending on what kind of life you want to live, how you feel about your relationship, the main reason for divorce is also because the two of you have no way to continue living.

This society is very tolerant of divorce and does not need to insist on an irretrievable marriage because of the eyes of outsiders.