Why is it so hard to be friends? Why is it so hard to be friends How can friends explain

1. First of all, you confessed your heart to her before, and this girl expressed her refusal in the form of silence, which is clear to you. So, she did that to protect herself, and you should understand. Think about it, do you adopt the same format?

2. If you want to have a normal relationship with her, then you call her sister very respectfully, think about each other from the heart, and don't impose your thoughts on each other, then she can listen to whatever you say. Because you're doing it for her, she feels safe.

So, making friends should do:

1) Treat each other with sincerity. Be sincere and make them feel that you are a very honest person.

2) Speak and act from the perspective of others, and truly care and love each other. And don't have some selfish motives, otherwise you will alienate others more and more from yourself.

3) Be tolerant and understanding of each other. Don't just think about your own feelings without reflecting on the harm you've caused to others, and blaming others will only backfire.

This friend hopes that my advice will be helpful to you!

Big brother, you have been fooled When you are older, your thinking is different, so you have to understand. It's good to ask the master what kind of trick is this! Introverts often don't understand what she's thinking because they don't have much experience. Chasing after you will only feel your own stupidity! Forget the best.

Of course, you have to ask clearly, do you think your feelings are very cheap, others ignore you, you don't even understand what's going on, you throw away your feelings, don't you feel very unwilling?

Be sure to ask.

She probably found a boyfriend

Maybe she's just treating you like a brother

If you have the chance, you should ask

When something happens, the first thing that comes to my mind is the word "righteousness", which does not prevent the deepest part of "righteousness" from being the word "benefit"; The first thing that came to my friend's mind was the word "reason", which did not prevent the deepest part of "reason" from being the word "profit".

When something went wrong, the buddy asked "how to settle it", and the friend asked "how to correct it".

was angry, the buddy asked "who messed with you", and the friend asked "what did you mess with him".

broke the law, buddy said, "Hide my insurance here", and my friend said, "I'll accompany you to surrender".

planted a heel, buddy while filling in the ditch and digging a hurdle for you, while scolding God for not having long eyes; Your friend helps you to stand up straight, and at the same time reminds you to be careful when walking.

begging someone, saying "buddy", that good burning meaning is 100% sure, although many times it is not even touched; When you say "friend", it means that you can negotiate it, although in many cases the odds are basically in hand.

In front of the word Li, the buddy said, "The existing blessing is now enjoyed." The friend said, "A gentleman loves money, and there is a way to take it." ”

The danger word is approaching, and the buddy said, "Singles don't suffer immediate losses." My friend said, "A big husband has to take on a big responsibility." ”

A friend is someone who is easy to forget when he is happy, and a friend is the first person he wants to find in the midst of pain.

A friend is someone who bothers you and doesn't need to say sorry.

A friend is someone who helped you and you don't have to say thank you.

A friend is someone you can move up without changing your name.

A friend is someone who is rooted in your mind, and you can't get rid of it even if you want to.

Now there are fewer good friends. Those who have money can buy friends, but they can't buy the sincerity of friends. Friends who don't leak money treat each other sincerely.

The real friend is Yun Chanqin, who is not a ...... who cares about money

Explanations are not needed, because the enemy does not believe your explanation, and the friend does not need your explanation.

I also think it's really hard for my friends to do it! A true friend is like a beautiful love ......

An ordinary friend has never seen you cry. A true friend has the shoulders to get your tears wet.

An ordinary friend doesn't know your parents' last names. A real friend has their** on the address book.

An ordinary friend will bring a bottle of wine to your party. A true friend will come early to help you get ready and leave later to help you with cleaning.

An ordinary friend hates you calling after he sleeps. A true friend will ask why it's only called now.

An ordinary friend comes to you to talk about your troubles. A real friend comes to you to solve your troubles.

An ordinary friend is curious about your romance. A true friend can threaten you to speak out.

An ordinary friend, when visiting, is like a guest. A true friend will open the fridge and take things himself.

An ordinary friend thinks the friendship is over after a quarrel. A true friend understands that true friendship is not called when you haven't fought before.

An ordinary friend expects you to always be there for him. A true friend expects him to be by your side forever.

Of course, according to my personality, I will choose not to make friends, and the purpose of making friends is not to make myself tired, but to make myself happy and relaxed because of these friends. I haven't been tired of making friends so far, so I can't really understand how you feel. Of course, I don't understand why you are tired because of your friends.

If it's for a friend, something is tiring.

Friends are the most important emotional exchanges in a person's life, we have two or three good friends in the process of learning and working, we will feel that the world is very beautiful, because you can find them when you are in difficulty, you can find them when you are unhappy, and you can find them when you are in danger, friends are the most important social relationship in your heart in addition to family members, and some people may have better feelings with friends than family members, because friends understand him better. But all these friends are good friends, who can think about what you think, and what you can reach, and you are willing to share all their unhappiness for them, and you are more willing to share their great happiness.

As for the general friends, I think as long as you are polite and humble, you don't have to bother too much to operate and maintain, why bother to work hard if you don't make friends, and friends are sometimes very similar to finding a partner, not the person you recognize, he can definitely become good friends with you, and also need those mysterious and specific fate. If you are really destined, you can't break up, if there is no fate, no matter how hard you maintain it, it may be just wishful thinking. The other party will still easily choose to become a better friend with others, and you only have the possibility of marginal existence.

So let your heart be more open, don't be burdened by paying, and don't have to be distracted by people who don't have a chance. It's good to protect the friends who have the same heart.

I don't think you understand it right, if you feel tired, it's not your true friend, then sometimes you will feel annoyed with your parents, aren't your parents your real parents, everyone will encounter some friction and problems in getting along with others, is it because of these problems don't continue to associate with them, of course not, you have to actively solve it, your friends and you feel that you are very tired, because you have been some contradictions that have not been resolved, talk to him, may you reconcile as soon as possible.