If people say that you are not good anywhere, do you want to change it?

Updated on healthy 2024-05-16
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  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    What I hate the most is the person who clearly has a lot of problems on his body, but he points fingers at others, this kind of person is too annoying, isn't it? Don't have a 13 number in your heart?

    I used to be a person who was particularly easy to be swayed by others, others said that I was particularly easy to go to the heart, to put it bluntly, I was very inferior, because people with low self-esteem will be swayed by others, which once made me particularly painful, for example, today someone said that I don't look good in this dress, and I will think when I go home, is it because my clothes are too bad? I would spend hours matching clothes, buying clothes, and I would never wear them again.

    I didn't even realize that I was so tired of living before, and then I met a friend who told me that people live for themselves, and sometimes I don't have to care too much about other people's opinions, because he is a gay, even in the face of many people's gossip, he still does what he wants, and is with the person he likes, I listened to his words and suddenly became enlightened, what say that I am not good or that is not good, go away, I don't have time to deal with them, it doesn't matter what they say.

    Maybe you will say that I don't know how to accept other people's opinions, and I can't look at my own shortcomings, then I won't admit it, and a person who says that you are not good will be helping you correct your shortcomings? It is impossible for a person to have no shortcomings, after all, everyone is not a saint, but a person has no merits at all, and I don't believe it, so the people who are not good at you must be accusing you instead of spurring you, and there is no need to save face for this kind of person at all, just fight back.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I want to ask you, where are you going to change? Do you know what people say you are bad about? Are you going to change it aimlessly? It's not like someone else's words are going to turn your life upside down. It's ridiculous to think about.

    How can there be people living in this world who are not talked about, no one behind their backs, and no one behind their backs. It's very simple, if a sincere friend knows where you are not doing well, he will tell you carefully, in which area you are not enough, you still need to improve, for such a problem, you can consider whether you need to correct, today a person unintentionally said that you are not good anywhere, you want to change, tomorrow there may be another person who also said such a sentence, will you be anxious. Therefore, you must not take such words to heart, and you will not be afraid that others will cause you to do evil.

    No one is perfect, everyone has this or that problem, only through continuous improvement, in order to constantly improve themselves, improve their own value

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