The child does not love kindergarten, and he cries every day when he sends it. What should I do?

Harden your heart and continue to send it over, it will be fine after a while, don't worry, now the child is not familiar with it, and if it is familiar, it will take the initiative to go every day!

As a parent, it is very sad, the child may be a little new to school, the kindergarten teacher may have to pay more, so that the child has a sense of security and fun in the kindergarten, and the child will be more willing to go. In addition, every time parents pick up their children home, they take their children to play in the kindergarten first, and praise how interesting the kindergarten he is in is, so that the child likes his kindergarten in his heart. Parents should not send their children away and sneak away without them, as this will make them even more insecure.

In short, the child has an adaptation process, and the teachers and parents have to work hard to guide them in the previous stage, and it will be much better in about half a month......

Children in a new environment is not as quick as adults to adapt, to give him a period of adaptation, let the child slowly experience the fun of going to kindergarten, Jews educate children to read is to smear the book with honey, let them know the fruits of reading, try to let him know the fun of going to kindergarten.

Find an opportunity for your child to get acquainted with the children in the same class.

After he got acquainted with his classmates, he was not happy not to let him go to school.

You have to enlighten her and tell her to have fun with the kindergarten children and be a good child!

Change is a painful process, find a way to make the child face the pain, in fact, not used to him, in less than a month, there will be new friends in kindergarten.

It is best to let him meet his partner in the kindergarten, you can go to the kindergarten to talk to other parents, and you can set up their interest, as long as you can divert the child's attention, naturally he will not cry and call his parents.

Because he first let him have good friends in kindergarten.

Sending the child to the kindergarten, the solution to his crying all the time: if you want the child to integrate into the kindergarten as soon as possible, then parents can take the child to see the natural environment of the kindergarten before entering the kindergarten, and take a look at these entertainment projects, so that he gradually understands the acceptance of new areas, implying that he is the kindergarten he is going to enter, and there will be a group of friends of the same age as him to play together, giving the child a mental buffer time.

Nowadays, many children enjoy a life of food and clothes at home, and they are spoiled since childhood, resulting in many things being unable to do alone after leaving their parents and entering kindergarten. Therefore, parents should shape their child's self-control ability from an early age, starting from some trivial things, such as teaching him to wear clothes and shoes, making him eat by himself, learning to go to the bathroom by himself, and falling asleep by himself.

Let children develop the habit of getting up early and going to bed early, which is beneficial for children to have a good mental outlook to usher in a new life, especially at the age of 3-5, which happens to be a key stage for children to develop a sense of order. Before sending the child to the kindergarten, parents also need a united front, it is recommended to be consistent, motivate the child to go to the kindergarten, no matter how the child cries and makes trouble, you need to persevere to send him to the kindergarten, not because of heartache, you can soften your heart, give up the initial perseverance or concessions.

If parents want to solve their children's situation, they need to take their children to adjust their children's schedule, so that children can cultivate a good schedule and rest time, and after the children sleep well, the children will not want to sobb all the time. Parents can be reasonable to accompany their children at the beginning, do not have to let the child feel that the lonely child has a good friend after the child wants to stay alone in the kindergarten, parents should look for the characteristics of the child's development trend, so that the child can gradually develop, and the parents will be very relieved. Parents can contact their children's teachers as much as possible, and if their children encounter anything on campus, parents can rush over as soon as possible.

You can give your child a piece of candy, or you can comfort your child in some correct ways, or give your child some **, and your child won't cry all the time. You can tell your child that he will come to pick him up in the evening.

You can pick up the child to give the child some sense of security, and you can also prepare a piece of White Rabbit toffee for the child. You can comfort the child, if the child can not cry, it means that the child has grown up, encourage the child to cheer the child more.

You can tell your child that you can meet a lot of good friends in kindergarten, and you can also make yourself like more people, and you can play games with more people, and then you can also make yourself very happy, especially happy, and don't have to stay at home with your parents all the time. When your child goes to kindergarten, you can tell him that you have a gift for him when he goes home, and as long as the child goes to kindergarten, there will be a reward, and the child will not reject it.

1. If you are a child who is afraid of separation, you should give your child a sense of security. Let his parents or grandparents who raised him be tolerant and trusting, and at the same time do what they say. For example, tell your child what time her mother will pick you up, what time you must pick you up, or even pick up your child early.

In this way, the child will have a trust in the parents, knowing that the parents will show up on time to pick them up;

2. If you are afraid to go to kindergarten and face the new environment and teachers, you can accompany the child first to let the child get familiar with it. Or find 1-2 familiar children to play at home, so that the children have a relationship with the children in advance, and after being familiar with the children or the teacher, they are slowly willing to go to kindergarten, and the crying will be reduced;

3. Some children always have to cry every time they go to the kindergarten door, and then their parents hold him and allow him to cry at the kindergarten door, and then go in after crying enough. After being allowed to do so many times, the child will feel safe and willing to face the kindergarten independently.

First, bring him some soothing toys, such as a bear, or his favorite to bring to the kindergarten to find a sense of belonging.

Secondly, do ideological work for him, tell him that only grown children can go to kindergarten, and don't always ask him: Is there anyone bullying you in kindergarten? Hungry?

In this way, the subconscious idea of the child is that he will be hungry and bullied when he goes to kindergarten, so he is even more reluctant to go. Communicate with him in a positive way, such as: How many good friends did you meet today?

Third, if there are classmates in the community, try to let them know the same community and classmates, so that they are familiar, and some familiar faces in the kindergarten will reduce the pressure.

Fourth, don't spoil him too much, because the child at home is like a little sun everyone loves, to the kindergarten everyone is equal, he will be very unaccustomed, then you don't spoil him like the original, try to let him know that he has grown up, unlike the original, the child who grows up to kindergarten is a non-negotiable thing, it is necessary, he will slowly get used to it.

Fifth, try to be as happy as possible when sending your child to kindergarten. What do you think your child would think if he saw you crying outside? In his heart, Mom and Dad are all-powerful, and if he is sad for kindergarten, he will be even more afraid of kindergarten.

Sixth, as a parent, you should establish a good image of the kindergarten and the teacher in front of the child, communicate with the teacher frequently, know the child's psychological changes, tell the child that the teacher likes him as much as the mother, and believes that the teacher will take care of the child with heart, and the child will slowly understand that when the mother is not there, there is a teacher by his side, and he will quickly adapt to the life of the kindergarten.

Going to kindergarten is a process, and it is impossible to change the status quo in a day or two. Accumulating a little harvest every day, you can also help your child record, let the child see his changes, and give small rewards appropriately, which is not bad.

Children always have to grow up gradually, growing up children have to leave their parents step by step, start to go outside to live and study independently, kindergarten is a major event encountered in the child's life, so as parents must find a way to let the child adapt to the life of the kindergarten as soon as possible, don't be soft-hearted.

There are two main reasons why children are reluctant to go to kindergarten:

1. I am usually too spoiled at home, my self-ability is poor, and I rely on you very much.

2. Because the child is not used to the unfamiliar environment of the kindergarten, he is not used to it, and he has a sense of fear.

When children go to kindergarten, they are instinctively uncomfortable and helpless when they come into contact with an unfamiliar environment, so they will cry.

Generally, after about three months in the kindergarten, the children can basically go to school happily.

In the process of chatting with children, we try to avoid some topics that are easy to cause children's discomfort, such as: "How are you doing in kindergarten", such questions, we can get answers from the teacher, so as not to cause children discomfort. There are also questions like "what did you eat today" and "what did you play today", which is too difficult for children around 3 years old.

Most of them can't tell whether it was yesterday or today before they take a nap, and they can't remember which meal they ate the steamed buns at all. As well as some questions with negative implications, such as "Did you cry today", "Did you behave badly today" and so on. These words are likely to make the otherwise happy child think of something not so good and cry.

So, what exactly can we talk about?

The simplest solution is to talk about the ** sent by the teacher to the parents, "what activities are you doing in **", "what is the name of this little girl next to you", "your good friend is in**" and so on. Babies are more likely to recall what happened when they are reminded by figurative images, and your exclamations and praises naturally help him feel a sense of belonging.

At the same time, we also need to consciously cultivate and guide children to form good hobbies and behavioral habits, which can make children adapt to kindergarten life faster and better.

Telling children stories when they are crying, playing games or building blocks with them, even doing some simple physical activities, and finding some beautiful wall charts of animals and plants will gradually let children discover the source of happiness, which is extremely important for them to smoothly integrate into kindergarten education.

This parent friend, I will give you a few ideas to solve the problem that the baby does not want to go to kindergarten: 1. Always tell the child: "Kindergarten is an interesting place", instead of "if you are disobedient, I will send you to kindergarten" to scare him.

This will leave a terrible impression in the child's young mind that kindergarten is a very scary and unfree place. When he actually wants to enter kindergarten, he will have a fear of it. 2. When sending the child to kindergarten every morning, the child is always crying, and the parents will carefully find out the reason, what is the problem, what psychology causes the child to refuse to go to kindergarten?

Generally speaking, when children start kindergarten, they will show unwillingness to behave in their words, and after two weeks or a month, they will slowly get used to it and show that it doesn't matter. If the child is still crying as if he or she has started to enter the kindergarten after more than half a year, parents should find a way to cooperate with the teacher to develop a "plan" to correct the child's behavior.

3. When the child cries and is reluctant to go to the kindergarten, do not simply scold, threaten, or deceive, but understand the situation and see where the problem is. If the child is too attached to his parents and is unwilling to go, every time he is sent to the kindergarten, he talks about "stomach pain" or is pestering and refuses to go, in response to this situation, parents should strengthen the training of the child's ability to live independently, and let the child realize that "parting is also love", for example, the child can go to a relative's house for a few days to change the environment, which is good for cultivating his ability to adapt to life. 4. When the child comes home from kindergarten, praise his performance in kindergarten in time.

Some children do very well in kindergarten, and can get along with teachers and children, but as soon as they go home, they change, and they make excuses, and they don't go to kindergarten the next day. For such a child, parents should cooperate with the kindergarten teacher to develop a "chart" for him, every time he can go to kindergarten on time, abide by the regulations of kindergarten life, eating, etc., he will post a "little red star" on his "chart", and give a reward when he accumulates 3 little red stars.

Children are reluctant to go to kindergarten to communicate with children, there is candy to eat at school, many children, and there is fun.

The solution to the child's crying reluctance to go to kindergarten is to familiarize the child with the kindergarten and adjust the daily routine.

1. Take your children to get familiar with the kindergarten.

In order to avoid children suddenly being exposed to an unfamiliar environment and distressed, it is recommended to take children to kindergarten to play in their leisure time a few months before the start of school, so that they can adapt to the new environment in advance, so that when the school actually starts, the probability of crying will be greatly reduced. When children are playing, they may be attracted to some novelties in the kindergarten and meet new friends.

In this way, after getting acquainted with the new environment and new partners, the anxiety will be reduced. Therefore, it is best for parents to guide their children to learn more about kindergarten and make him interested in kindergarten if they have time.

2. Adjust your daily routine.

Children who are unable to adapt to the kindergarten routine may not have the habit of napping or sleep at an irregular time. If your child is not sleepy at noon and asks to sleep, but is tired and unable to sleep during the school day, he will think that the kindergarten is too restrained and not at home, so he will be anxious and crying because of homesickness.

Therefore, parents can cultivate their children's work and rest at home in advance, so that they can adapt to kindergarten life as soon as possible, and there will be no longer crying problems.

Precautions for children going to kindergarten:

1. Pay attention to proper dressing and complete items.

It is recommended to organize the things that your child will bring to kindergarten the night before, avoid taking up the time in the morning, and add or remove clothes for your baby according to the weather conditions.

2. Establish a new concept of health.

Parents should not only value their children's physical health, but also their children's mental health. Parents should take the initiative to understand the characteristics and needs of their children's psychological development. When the child cries in the morning, parents should be patient to understand the reason for the child's crying, and if it is because of physical discomfort, it should be solved in time.

If the child is crying because of psychological burden, parents should communicate with the teacher in time. Next to Huai.

3. Guide children's positive emotions.

On the way to send the child to kindergarten, he was told to listen to the teacher, to be disciplined, to be polite, to sing loudly, and to draw louder. These excessively high requirements, prohibitions or advice will also make the child feel that he cannot meet the requirements and feel anxious.