Is there really anyone in the world who can be completely unaffected by the environment?

No way. It's just that some people are susceptible to environmental influences, and some people are less susceptible to environmental influences. Absolute freedom from the environment is contrary to objective laws.

If there really is someone who is absolutely unaffected by the environment, then he or she will not even learn to speak. Because at the same time he or she is not affected by the linguistic environment.

influence, and can not be born to speak.

I don't think it's possible, it's almost impossible for anyone to be completely free from being affected by the environment. Growing up and family have the greatest impact on us. Life experiences will help me understand the meaning of life better. You can cherish the people around you more and be kind to life.

Actually, I think it's okay. Take me as an example, since I was a child, my original family was unhappy, all kinds of bad things continued, and all kinds of pain have been continuing.

I have worked hard to get to where I am today, and I am very pleased that I have not been affected by negative experiences, I have maintained my true heart, I have not become bad habits or anything, I have always maintained the correct three views, and I am a sincere, kind and upright person. But the heart is still inevitably affected. Pessimistic about life, about the future.

I was very tired, negative, and lacked enthusiasm for life.

Meng's mother's three migrations directly illustrate the importance of the environment. What kind of person you are now, what kind of friends you have around you. Your financial income is about the same as that of the people around you.

For example, when I was in college, my roommate didn't write homework every day, and directly copied mine, and I didn't want to write the second or third time. It can be seen that it is true that character determines fate, and the environment creates people!

Yes, the kind of person who is completely detached from nature and has no ordinary mind, generally will not be affected by the world, and all things will not be dusty in his eyes.

Some people say that people are not affected by the environment, but I don't think it's possible. For example, if a child who does not have a concept of right and wrong goes to a bad environment, it is easy for him to learn badly. If people can not be affected by the environment, just call a group of virtuous gentlemen to be officials, can they use supervision?

If people are not affected, then why are so many left-behind children and single-parent families having problems? Are they born that way? Funny.

It can't be, for example, around me. We all play games in the dormitory, and when we have class, we go back to the dormitory to play games after class, and when we don't have classes, we get up at 12 o'clock and call a takeout to start playing games. Except for a student who gets up early every day and runs every day and self-studies every day.

It's a freshman and sophomore. We all play games in the dormitory, and when we have class, we go back to the dormitory to play games after class, and when we don't have classes, we get up at 12 o'clock and call a takeout to start playing games. It's the big three or four.

No, anyway, I won't be affected by the environment, because my family is unhappy, and my parents always quarrel over a little thing every day, so I don't feel safe, but my temper follows my mother, and I always have a big temper, and I quarrel with my boyfriend every time, but fortunately, my boyfriend tolerates me more.

Yes, I just, no matter how wonderful the teacher said on the podium, I still slept on my stomach underneath.

When I was a child, my neighbor's sister was that her parents had a bad relationship, and her father sometimes abused them, but this did not affect her studies at all, maybe she knew since she was a child that her only way out was to study. Hopefully she's getting better and better.

There are a lot of such people in Western society! Because they have faith, hahaha.

Man should not be influenced by the environment, he should choose to do what he thinks is right.

After going to a new department, I found that everyone in this department was working overtime.

Even at 11 o'clock in the evening, it's still lit up. What I can't understand the most is that even when working overtime, everyone is still calm and relaxed, and there is no tension. It's hard to say if they're really busy or just busy for the show.

I guess one possibility is that some people are really busy, and some people are pretending to be busy in order to look normal.

At around 9 p.m. last night, I finished what I was doing and even moved on to tomorrow's work, after which I closed my computer, said hello to my colleagues, and became the first person in the office to leave work.

I don't like overtime, but I don't reject overtime when it's necessary – my sense of responsibility doesn't allow it.

But I don't like meaningless overtime, I don't like overtime that goes with the flow, and I don't like to work overtime in order to let others know that I'm working overtime, especially those who have to post a circle of friends to advertise after working overtime.

I can't change the way people around me do, but I can decide what I do.

For me, being more efficient and leaving work early allows me to do more and more meaningful things, whether it's exercising, improving myself through reading and studying, spending time with family and friends, or even just having fun.

People should not be affected by the environment, just be yourself.

Two twins growing up together, from appearance to personality is certainly not exactly the same, and the difference is in the environment. At the beginning of the three-character scripture, nature is good, we are born with kindness, and what affects us is the experience of acquired life, that is, the environment.

When I was in junior high school, I had children who didn't study very well, and they had more or less character defects. There may be people who prefer to say some dirty words, fights and so on. Junior high school is a mixed bag.

After the junior high school exam, I came to high school according to the classification of grades, and if my academic performance is good, must I have a good character? It's not absolute, but there must be a part of it. Their time is all spent studying, and they won't have that much time to play.

Mostly, that's it.

When I went to high school, I could clearly feel that the abuse around me was much quieter, and the affection between classmates was relatively light. Because everyone has only one goal, which is the college entrance examination, they are all studying hard. It can be said that almost no one around me swears, everyone is very civilized, and I didn't swear much before, let alone swear in front of my family.

In junior high school, I was more controlled, and in high school, because of this civilized environment, I didn't swear.

When I went to college, it was very uncomfortable. I have a roommate who plays League of Legends a lot and loves to curse. He took me to subconsciously swear, and he couldn't control himself a little.

Once I swore in front of my parents, my parents were shocked because I never sweared. But she didn't say much about me, after all, my mom also used to scold people. And I'm so old, it's not convenient to say.

People are in different environments, it is easy to be contaminated with bad habits, after all, this is a kind of day and night relationship, he is imperceptibly and inadvertently affected you. The difference in the environment has a really big impact on people.

The environment can affect people.

Xunzi Persuasion wrote: "Pengsheng hemp, do not help but straighten; The white sand is in Nirvana, and it is black with it. ”

It means, "The grass grows in the hemp, and it can stand without support." When the white sand is mixed with the black soil, it will become as black as the black soil. ”

It can be seen that the influence of the environment on people is very important, and may even determine the direction of a person's life.

Everyone must have heard the story of "Meng's mother's three migrations".

Mencius was very naughty when he was young, and his mother moved to his house three times in order to allow him to receive a good education.

Mencius's family originally lived by the cemetery, and Mencius learned from adults to bow down and cry.

His mother moved the family to the market, and Mencius learned from others how they did business.

Later, his mother moved his home near the school, and Mencius began to become orderly, polite, and fond of reading.

Later, Mencius became a famous philosopher, thinker, and educator.

This story illustrates the profound impact that the environment can have on people.

The environment can also make people.

The mother of Trevor, the author of "Born by Me", is a black woman who lives at the bottom of society.

But she never gave up on herself, but through her own efforts, she made the best preparations and seized every opportunity to change her fate.

In Trevor's childhood, his family was not wealthy, and most of his mother's labor income was used to buy him books, except for the purchase of food.

In life, mothers not only make English their mother tongue by reading in English with their children on a regular basis.

She also often brought back books donated by white people from church, bought Trevor an old set of encyclopedias, and signed him up for subscription meetings.

Under his mother's influence, books became Trevor's treasures, and he would put them on the shelves as a source of pride.

His mother also sent Trevor to an expensive private Catholic school where he received a good education.

Even though it may never be possible to leave the slums, this does not prevent the mother from making the liberation of her children's minds the first priority of education, and injecting the dream of "you can be whoever you want to be" into Little Trevor's heart.

Trevor's mother was unfettered by the difficulties of her life, and like thousands of other black families, she either went with the flow or went astray, and ended up in a whirlpool of pain and even a darker abyss.

On the contrary, the environment did not become an obstacle to her progress, but prompted her to face the truth of life, strengthen her beliefs, and burst out with tremendous energy and motivation in countless days of fighting against fate, and move forward!

The environment is never perfect. The weak are subject to the environment, while the wise change the environment and control the environment.

Do you choose to be influenced by the environment, or do you choose to change the environment to create your own life? I believe that everyone has their own answer.

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People are often affected by the natural environment and social environment. I think that people's thinking and consciousness make them have a subjective awareness of the influence on the outside world, that is, people are facing the kind of environment they face at a certain time and a certain situation, and they should think, reflect or consider whether to accept the influence of this environment.

Some environments are uncontrolled, and in addition to the natural environment, there is one thing, and that is fate. However, I believe that fate is both subjective and objective.

The social and natural environment in which people live is changeable, which also trains people's ability to adapt and adapt to changes, both of which can be trained. It mainly depends on the type, size, and amount of the environment in which the person lives, that is, whether the person's life is colorful enough. It also depends on the amount of life experience of the person, which is an important sign of experiencing life, discovering life, and integrating into life.

In short, to be a person in society, you must always be well-informed, and the world will always be good for you.

People are ignorant at the beginning, and it is the world that teaches everyone bit by bit, and only by constantly learning or imitating can they learn to "live". Chief among them is the social environment, which is complex and influential because of the large number of people in society, and is the "crossroads" of knowledge dissemination. There are good and bad social environments, and good and bad are intertwined, which is one of the reasons why human nature is complex.

The basic conditions for the composition of a good social environment are noble character and noble humanitarianism.

A person's life is influenced by three important environments: family, school, and society. Among them, family education often plays a more important role.

Years of education and teaching work have made me feel that if the class teacher wants to do a good job in class management, he must do a good job of communicating with parents.

1. The homeroom teacher must understand the basic situation of parents and students through a variety of channels at the beginning of the school year, attach importance to the first meeting with parents, and must leave a good first impression on parents, and give parents a feeling of special peace of mind when handing over their children to you. Only then can parents follow our guidance and arrangements in the next step. The head teacher must pay attention to his own dressing, giving people a feeling of working hard and being able to take care of their children, so that parents can trust you at a glance.

2. When giving advice to parents, you must speak in a tactful tone. First of all, we must draw parents to our teachers, so that parents are willing to help us, and we must not push parents to the opposite side of us, let alone treat parents like students. Let parents be willing to accept the class teacher, and are very willing to cooperate with the class teacher to do a good job in family education.

3. Guide rough parents to change their ways and change control to guidance.

4. Instruct doting parents to set certain learning goals for their children, praise or punish their children correctly, timely and appropriately, and treat their children's achievements and mistakes correctly.

5. Guide parents to think carefully from the child's perspective before educating their children, so that the children can accept it from the heart.

As long as the homeroom teacher sincerely helps parents to carry out successful tutoring, so that parents are very willing to cooperate, in fact, it is also to lay a good foundation for their own class management, and the class management work will be more worry-free, labor-saving, high-quality, efficient, successful and quickly achieve the desired effect.