Which path is more beneficial for girls? Which path should I choose?

From the point of view of the problem, the real problem is that you yourself are more inclined to the first path, the reason is that you feel that you are older, the conditions are ordinary, and you are likely to find a suitable person to find a bamboo basket for nothing.

So before you ask this question, you should basically preset the way out of answer one.

The advice to you is to be psychologically prepared, and tolerate it after marriage, and it is best to stay away from the man's family, otherwise it is to endure it. The biggest suggestion is not to rely on the family conditions brought by the man, as much as possible to use the time to learn something that interests you, it is best to increase your ability, only if you have the ability to be independent, you will have the confidence to not rely on anyone, and the strong spirit will make you more confident and independent, marriage does not mean that you should not have an independent personality. The most advantageous thing is to rely on yourself.

I'd rather not find a condition as good as the previous family, than find a parent who doesn't like you, the parents don't like you, and slowly your husband doesn't like you, you have a hard time, and you can't get anything if you leave! Find someone with similar conditions to yourself, work hard and live a good life together, and it won't be bad. If I change it, I will definitely take the second way.

The most direct thing is to learn more things, enrich yourself, gain a firm foothold in your career, and if you have a career, what are you afraid of, even if you get married, you have confidence. If you find something that is good for you, that's good, and if you find something that is not good for you, you at least have the economic strength, so you're not afraid of anything.

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and this is not a multiple-choice question, but a derivative question and answer question.

Three steps to solve the dilemma, 1Is the love between the man and the woman strong? Back to the original vow? Love each other is deep and can't be broken up? Less than 100 percent, the two sides should talk about the plan to grow old together.

2.The family is very important but there are already prejudices, is it a matter for the younger couple? Parent-led? Youshan Menghai vowed to change the status quo as soon as possible, ensure happiness and form a family again.

3.The future can not be foreseen, but at least it makes sense to live a lifetime with the person who is "right", and the hero and heroine must determine the "right taste" and not just tolerate and complement each other, and being able to integrate into one is a sign of maturity!

Choose one, because life is with your own man, not your in-laws, as long as you coax your own man, everything can be solved, the best way to solve it is to let your good man come forward, Bi Jing's second choice is unknown, choose one better.

I think when choosing future planning, girls should still pay more attention to their families, after all, there are still very few career-oriented women, so. Finding a good job or having a good development is really better than having a good love, and a happy life is a woman. A harbor to rely on.

For girls, I think it should be safer and better. For example, to be a teacher, to be a doctor. The work is relatively stable.

I must choose the path that is beneficial to me, so it will be smoother. Find your own happiness.

Follow your heart, you must have a career and dreams.

If the other party doesn't compromise, it's better to break up.

I think I should study abroad, so why don't I cherish this great opportunity? You can see that you really like her, and she should cherish it. I think you should see the world when you are young, she really feels your love and will wait for you!

Have confidence in yourself, you will have a lot of new ideas after returning to China, I think, introversion is not necessarily incompatible, people will change, for the ideal, everyone has potential, believe in yourself. If your family has money, go abroad, and on the contrary, don't increase the burden on your family. Although the other half is important, the parents are even more important.

Isn't it good that the two work together and support each other?

You think too much, you said above that he is not your girlfriend, if you love her, then quickly confess to her, and then tell her all your thoughts and your future plans, and the most important thing is to emphasize how important she is to you!! If you have a relationship foundation, she can understand your intentions and may agree to let you go abroad, after all, you choose to go abroad for your future. And your point of view is too absolute, not to have a diploma to find a good job, a company is looking at ability, take my unit as an example, some positions require academic qualifications, but there are still so many people, education is not high but experienced, we like this ability type of people.

As for your relationship problems, it still depends on the relationship between you and her, I have a classmate, his girlfriend is his junior high school classmate, working in Guangzhou, and my classmate is in Qingdao this year in graduate school, and he also plans to go straight to the doctorate, that is to say, this girl will have to wait for him for several years, and he will be 28 years old after graduating with a doctorate, but my classmate's girlfriend still agrees with him to study for a doctorate, you discuss it with her, good luck.

One thing you need to recognize is that if you don't achieve anything yourself, no achievement, any relationship will be empty talk, if you have nothing but your "love", can that girl accept you? Or, which girl can accept you. So, choose a path that is most conducive to your own development, and don't let yourself end up when you're still young.

The first one is good, you can't give her happiness if you're with her now, only work hard and be motivated now.

It's still the first one, you can't give up reading. Tell your girlfriend to come to you.

In fact, sometimes people need not only material pursuits to live in this world, but spiritual satisfaction, if you think that it doesn't matter if people are easy or poor, then go to be a teacher, the latter will give you more material satisfaction, but there will be a lot of mental pressure, if you don't do well, the pressure will be greater, you will find that in fact, material satisfaction does not make you really happy, so it is recommended that you become a teacher, because the teachers of general key middle schools have a lot of income for others to make up classes, My former teacher made a lot of money by making up lessons for others.

Which job do you really want? If you want to experience software engineering, you can give it a try, and if you decide that a math teacher is a better fit for you, then become a teacher. Work can be changed, and changing jobs is hard at the same time as an experience.

Whether you're a teacher or a software engineer, you can try to enrich your life, develop other hobbies, and don't relax and be prepared.

Teachers are also good, teaching and educating people for a lifetime.

If you're a girl, I'd recommend the former, and if you're a boy, it's better to choose the latter.

It depends on your hobbies, so you can choose which one is closer to your home.

Engineer! Be the second Jobs!

Choose the latter, be born in sorrow and die in peace.

In my opinion, I still choose the latter, and in terms of academics, you have one more study, and the struggle is short-lived.

I think it's good for you to be an engineer, it's challenging.

I think the biggest problem is not wealth or anything.

It's that you're not strong enough, and you don't have a bottom in your heart. Not confident enough, not strong enough inside. I don't know what I'm supposed to do.

To be honest, you're still a bit naïve and immature enough. But that's not wrong, it's just that the experience is not enough. But it's not a matter of a day or two. So I don't think you should be in such a hurry and want to get everything done at once.

I can only give you what I think of the opinion, do not run away.

You said that one of the reasons you went to study in the UK was to avoid the stress of employment. Running away may be a natural behavior for you. But if a person is going to grow up, it is obviously not possible to run away all the time.

Be sure to face the pressure head-on when you need it. The more times you are, the better you will be able to cope with stress, the more you will understand what stress is all about, the more calm you will be, and such people will look mature.

And if you are an immature person, no matter how high your education is, you still have no clue about how to deal with things in life.

Moreover, to study in the UK, "one year"! Getting a degree is your plan, I don't really understand your major or whatever. I don't think it's easy.

A formal foreign degree is not so easy to get, but I don't know about you. My classmate has been studying for two years, and it's still going on. It's not like China can be mixed.

In short, a young boy with a high degree of education and a man in charge who knows what he is doing and how to do it, I admire the latter. Your girlfriend's question, I can't and don't want to answer. This is what you should do yourself.

It's just that you don't know what you're supposed to do right now. I don't know how to handle things.

So, you really have to be a mature man for you to deal with things.

Because I just said half of it, and then I went to do things, and now I will continue to talk about it halfway, so the language connection may be a little bad, and I will just look at it.

If you have been entangled, then when the girl gets married, you still have nothing, men, no matter what kind of perspective you look at, you must be career-based, don't hesitate, don't be uncertain, believe in yourself enough, there is nothing you can't accomplish, if I am you, then I will work hard to prepare for going abroad, enrich yourself in all aspects, and at that time your psychological maturity will be at least completely different from now, come on, believe in yourself, gogo

As long as you submit the divorce petition to the court, you will automatically divorce after being separated for more than two years, and it is best for you not to be there and pay attention to your personal safety.

Generally speaking, after graduating from this art bachelor's degree, you should be engaged in related art work when looking for a job, rather than going to work in a business building with this undergraduate diploma.

Do you think you need a bachelor's degree to go to this school? If so, you don't have to, I'm also taking my own exams, I'm reading books at home, my fees are only the registration fee and the cost of my self-exam books, and I'm about to graduate from my bachelor's degree.

I asked a professor about this self-examination undergraduate certificate, and he said that it is not as good as a college graduation certificate, but it is for the general self-examination university, and I want to study the self-examination of the China Academy of Art, and the graduation certificate is also stamped with the two chapters of the China Academy of Art and the high school self-examination! ”

I can only say that I really feel sorry for this professor, and I can't help but wonder if he is a professor, he is an enrollment student in the self-examination class of the China Academy of Art, if he is a professor, how can he answer such an irresponsible and mentally retarded question. The self-examination diplomas of the whole country are equal, whether it is the self-examination diploma of Peking University or the self-examination diploma of Xinjiang University, both are equal, and all self-examination diplomas in China are stamped with two chapters--- the chapter of the main examination institution and the chapter of the local high school self-examination office.

Do you have a plan for your future?

Do you think you will do whatever it is suitable for you to find a job in the future, or do you feel that you have a beautiful yearning and pursuit for art itself? If it's the former, I think it's better for you not to study this art self-examination major, because the tuition fee is so expensive, and it will be a problem to find employment in the future. If it's the latter, then you start now, act immediately, prepare for tuition, go to the China Academy of Art to study in a full-time self-examination class, don't always feel that you are old, don't compare your age with your younger people, age is not a problem, learning is the fundamental.

There are also many people in their fifties and sixties who are still working hard for their dreams, and they are not successful after working hard. It's not too late to learn knowledge, 60 years old, and a person who doesn't seek to improve, even if he has a 16-year-old flower season, what can he do? He'll only end up being a martyr of time, I'm 82 years old, four years older than you, I'm still working on it, and I don't care about my age, I just care that I've been working hard in the direction of my dreams.

I wish you all the best in your work and studies and make the best choice soon!

As long as you work hard, you can see the dawn of happiness.

What's the use of all for a certificate???

Sooner or later, you will be involved in society, and it is not as difficult as it is now in a society with a network of relationships

I am also a college graduate. Class of 2007. No experience.

There is nothing to work for. I also don't have a good family background. No matter how much you learn, it's useless, and if you spend so much money to learn, when will you earn it back.

If you're not mistaken, your parents aren't very young, are they? I am currently working at Foxconn in Shenzhen. It is a general worker.

Most of the people here are secondary school and technical school graduates. A lot of them came in with false certificates. If you have no experience, you must be able to endure hardships.

I studied communication, but I had to do it, I had to be angry every day, and I had to be at school and my supervisor had been beaten to death seven times.

I recommend doing it first and changing jobs at any time.

If you have to take a self-exam, it is not a self-exam. A self-exam is a self-study exam. All majors can be self-taught.

It depends on your major, if you are studying knowledge and research, of course, the higher the better.

But if you're studying journalism or marketing, you'll need work experience.

What you can learn in college, you can learn by working hard.

Many people want to get a good job, or go to graduate school, or just for a graduation certificate.

If you decide, work hard.

every road leads to rome.