My husband knows that his parents are very good, why don t he break it and follow them?

Each family has its own unique interaction model, and each family member is contributing and being deeply affected by it, which is a family operating system. A point break breaks the original equilibrium, and everyone in the system will have conscious or unconscious resistance. You can start by asking yourself:

What is the effect of this on you, what is your motivation for having this idea, what are your dreams of doing for yourself.

Because my husband knows that although their parents are like this, they are also forced to do so, maybe it is their nature, anyway, he also raised them.

I don't know that I have a lot of mothers, why don't you break them and follow them, because your husband is very filial and a very qualified son.

My husband already knows that his parents are like this, in fact, many times they are still more filial to them, and you have to learn to open and close your eyes.

This is the legendary foolishness, knowing that what their parents are doing is wrong, and they will be angry when they say it, so they pretend not to understand.

Your husband knows that his parents are very good but he doesn't break it, that's because it was the parents who gave birth to him and raised him, and they used to pay a lot for him, and now even if he knows that his parents are very good, he can't bear to go to the store, and he is grateful to his parents.

Since your husband knows that his parents are very left, there is no way, after all, it is their parents who have no way to solve it.

He didn't know that his parents were very good! Who would say that their parents are not, let alone that no matter what they do, they will not harm their children. Just follow them, you hope that after your son grows up and marries a daughter-in-law, he will have nothing to do with you every day.

Your husband's situation is a typical foolishness. That is, regardless of cause and effect, right and wrong, just follow his parents. You should have a good conversation with him to see if you can solve such a problem.

Knowing that my parents are very good at what they don't bump in, they still follow them. Maybe your husband is the kind of person who is stupid and filial. That's why I blindly protect my parents.

My husband knows that his parents are very clumsy, why don't he break it and follow them? Because after all, they are their own parents, so they can't be too harsh, and the daughter-in-law thinks they are very good, maybe the son thinks they are not very good.

This kind of family conflict is common to almost every family. Your husband knows that his parents are very good but he doesn't break it, and he follows them. I think it may be that your husband is used to it and doesn't dare to talk about them, or he doesn't think to talk about them.

Because it's your husband's parents, you don't need to break it, sometimes. If it's something bad, it's not good to break it.

The old man's thinking is old-fashioned and old-fashioned, even if your husband talks about them every day, it won't change anything.

In fact, your husband is a child, and he doesn't judge his parents too much about what they do badly, so of course he just turns a blind eye.

Because they are elders, your husband is a filial talent.

My husband knows that his parents are very good, and he doesn't want to get involved in their affairs.

Because your husband should belong to the more filial type, he doesn't want to add too many conflicts to himself or his parents.

I feel that your husband actually understands his parents very well, why do you want to break it, isn't this not not giving face to your parents, this is sensible.

This is a typical foolishness, that is, the husband obeys his parents.

I can't help it.

You always have to think about your parents, it's not good to tear your face.

There is no husband and wife who do not quarrel, and there are many fights! The most important thing is mutual respect, understanding, trust! Let's communicate more, after all, there are children! It's good to figure it out! Don't get tangled.

The family is harmonious and wealthy, you are good to your husband and in-laws, after a long time, your in-laws and husbands will also be good to you, if you are not satisfied with your in-laws, it is best not to complain in front of your husband, so that no one is happy, anyway, the main thing is to deal with the relationship between husband and wife, don't have a long cold war, what do husband and wife have to say, just talk about it, since you are married and have children, you have feelings. The in-laws look down on them, so they can improve themselves, improve themselves, and they will never get out of the way with a part-time job, and they will find a way to do a breakfast snack bar or fast food restaurant or something, although they are tired, but it is very good to persevere. If you are strong, you will naturally not be afraid of divorce, because even if you get divorced, you can still live a better life.

It is when others see your humility that you become less and less egoistic.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a university question, and I am also very compatible with my mother-in-law, and the only way is not to live together.

The most thing a family is together is tolerance and understanding.

It seems that life is always like this, I'm just a little kid who is not deeply involved in the world, and I can't give you any advice, I'm sorry, but I think you're quite wronged, it's hard, right? Sometimes, don't you feel that love is very heavy? I really don't know how to solve these things, but you're not like me, you can escape, you can run away desperately when you're upset, maybe it's to bask in the sun for an afternoon, maybe it's to read a book, but you live too hard, cry, the more you cry, the more wronged, sorry, really embarrassed, I can't help you, I can't think of the trivialities of every family like this, I don't like to go home, I've been running away, I refuse to fantasize about the warmth and happiness of the family, I know, those loves and trivialities are the same, the more you grow up, the heavier it becomes, But I hope you can be good, okay, I don't want the girl I like to be sad all day long, smile, just for myself, if you can escape, being a deserter is better than having no way out, sorry, I really hope you can be happy, I'm really afraid that the girl I like will encounter this situation, even if she is not married to me, even if she forgets who I am, but I really hope that she can be happy, I think there must be another person who thinks the same as me, talk about it, since it is all like this, the worst situation is that the talk collapses, The current situation will not be too bad, if the negotiation is good, can you live a better life?

Personality problems, traditional men are more subtle in their feelings, and they are not used to expressing their emotions too publicly.

The environment in which the family was raised.

Generally, people with serious family style will be like this, such as military families or traditional families, and those with strict family education, generally pay more attention to these.

Of course, some people are estranged from their parents and are reluctant to show it, and they shouldn't show too much flesh in front of outsiders.

In fact, you can see if his parents are like this, and everything is solved.

As for a person, he is stereotyped at the age of six or seven, he is his own parents, and if his parents have good conduct and good behavior, he will naturally be the same. So you can see if your husband's parents have intimate behavior in front of you?

I would like to say here that according to the formal etiquette and secular conditions, private love words and personal intimate behaviors should not be revealed in public, and it is also very impolite to flirt in front of one's own relatives, especially in front of the elders, the old and the young are orderly, and there is a difference between inside and outside, and this aspect also exists in a country like the United States (so-called) open and equal. I've seen a few times in American movies where you don't respect your father, but very few of them don't respect your grandfather, because your parents will stop your rude behavior. Some elders never quarrel in front of their juniors, and it is because of these that they want to set an example in front of their juniors.

They also have a number of rites to observe.

So, I'm afraid that your thoughts need to be corrected, maybe your desire to show is too strong, and you want people to know that you are in love, but whether you are polite or not needs to be studied, blindly pursuing the so-called freedom, getting rid of the shackles of etiquette, whether to make others uncomfortable is also a problem you have to consider.

I've never been like this in front of my elders, I think your boyfriend did the right thing and I support him.

We won't be very close in front of our parents, so we have to pay attention to our image.

It's okay in front of friends.

So you don't think too much about it, it's normal.

Personally, I think that personality accounts for a large factor. I don't know the specific situation.,Maybe I want to establish a man's image in front of everyone.。。

Hello! I bai saw that you are du

A very good wife and daughter-in-law, only you know the things at home, your husband is a good husband who is particularly filial and right, and he is a very good-hearted husband, which can be seen from the above, which proves that your in-laws are also a real person. Like this person, his expression ability is not very good, and caring about a person he is going to be two-way, today I greet him more, and tomorrow he will come to think about caring about you and greeting you, I have a deep understanding of this, think about how many times you have beaten your in-laws**, remember how many times you have greeted you? There is an old saying that a big belly can tolerate the intolerable things in the world.

A good daughter-in-law, a good son, and a good in-laws will live better.

Wishing you happiness and happiness!

You find such bai a husband du

It's still good.

Judging from this point, he is very responsible.

Then he will rely on you to share the financial burden of the family.

It will gradually get worse.

None of them have the nature of "inch by inch".

Anyone has it, but it is just said that he has "inch by inch" in which aspects you have paid for him, and he has a number in his heart.

It's just that he needs to repay his parents first, and you can't leave the world before his parents, so this is the time to be a wife and support a husband.

You help him to support the family together, and he will know it.

But again, don't give financial support, just appropriate (adults and children will be spoiled).

It's best to communicate with your husband a little. There's really no way, if you still want this family, you have to continue After all, they have lived for decades, and there is no substitute for that kind of feeling.

I think what your husband said is very wrong, what do you mean by who are you, so you ask him, who are you? You must know that a good in-law will treat his daughter-in-law as a daughter, and I personally think that your husband does not really love you, if he really loves you, you will consider your feelings, such a man is not worthy of dependence.

You don't feel like a husband and wife, but like lovers. Your husband is not stupid, but he doesn't have you at all in his heart. Such a husband, what is the difference between having and not having it? Let's see for yourself.

Sorrowful! Communicate more with your husband.

Discuss more things.

Your husband doesn't care about you at all, and you don't care about it, and your in-laws definitely don't have you in their hearts, otherwise they wouldn't be like this

It's really a bit speechless to watch, and separating from the two places is not a solution.

Alas, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and life is like this.

Your husband has a little bit of that

It's what you are used to, when you were together and didn't get married, you didn't make it clear, you have a problem to communicate, it's pointless to just complain, you have to ask him the reason for doing this to solve it.

The two of them, it's good to make it clear, calmly say what they think, and let him try to deal with this problem

Talk to him coquettishly, talk about it, but I just feel it, you can try it and see if it works, okay?

It is estimated that your family has offended him, and maybe you will get married without understanding.

If this is the case, it means that your husband's status in the family is indeed very low, and now you walk into such a family as his wife, you must be unhappy for your husband, you can try to communicate with your mother-in-law, ask why they treat their son like this, if my husband has something to be sorry for you, I will communicate with him and correct it, I hope you treat him as a family.

For this problem, I think you should look at this problem from multiple angles, since your husband must have his own reasons for doing this, you must not know as much about their family affairs as your husband, you should know that your husband is a very good person, he is very enthusiastic, you should understand him, support him to do so, you are very lucky and happy to have such a husband.

Su Qin, the famous minister of the Six Kingdoms, once had a feeling: If you are poor, your parents will not have children, and if you are rich, your relatives will be afraid of the ...... who had this dilemma thousands of years ago

This phenomenon of your lover is only trying to become a developed person, and then your parents and relatives are stammering or afraid!

Of course, if it is realized, the relationship between parents and children at that time will also be ...... to changeBecause there is something in it that is stammering or afraid!

This is the complex society of modern man!

Your husband is called foolishness and filial piety, but think about it from another perspective, in fact, many people's personalities, he himself knows, but when he thinks, why were you with your husband in the first place, don't you just like him at the beginning, don't you just like him, are you with him? You can't just because you're with him and find out that you don't like him anymore, right?

After all, it's also a family.,It's impossible to leave it alone.。。。 It should be helped, but it should be done within one's means.

Everyone is each other, and if you are good to others, others will be good.