Friends, let s talk about what moment you want to go home when you are wandering away?

My experience should be that most "good babies" want to do but don't do it, I am from Hubei, I went to university in Qingdao, and then I worked in Chongqing, that is, since I was 18 years old, I have very few days at home. After going to school in Qingdao, the first time I was most homesick, was the first year of military training after the Mid-Autumn Festival and the National Day together, the classmates in the dormitory went home, and then I cleaned up in the dormitory myself, and at night my mother sent me **, they were eating at my grandparents' house, and then took a circle, grandparents, aunts, uncles, and then grandpa said that he killed chickens and rabbits, so I think I will go back to eat. Tears ran in an instant. ‍‍

I am now a senior in college, and my school is in the province, but it is more than 700 kilometers away from home. It's a brand new place, and it's fair to say that I'm here without relatives. Although it is still in Guangdong, the eating habits are completely different from mine.

The eating habits here are more oil and more salt, but I like to eat lighter. Suffice it to say that in my first year here, I always went to the cafeteria with a bottle of water. Whenever I eat, I always miss my family very much, I miss the food that has been bland, and I miss the family members who will take care of me while nagging me. ‍‍

In the cold night, I called my father** in my hometown, and my father said that there was a power outage at home, and it was freezing cold, and I was most homesick at that moment! That night, I couldn't sleep because I missed home, my father was ninety years old, living alone in the old house, it was cold, hiding in the quilt to pick me up**, my father said, he was waiting for the call, get up and cook! ‍‍

I've been working outside home for 8 years, it doesn't matter if I've been working for a few years at first, I'm especially homesick now, plus I'm busy at work, I'm not married, I go back to the rental house every night and it's deserted, I wake up in the middle of the night every night, I just saw this topic, it just poked my tears, and no one can talk about the grievances at work, it's always pressed to the bottom of my heart, and I want to cry when I'm alone, but I will be strong to hold on! ‍‍

It was in 2001 when I just graduated from university, I went to Zhejiang University, a computer training department that was privately contracted under the banner of Hangzhou University, learning computer maintenance technology, one night walking alone on campus, thinking about the work that has nowhere to go, the confused future, thinking that the paper was not pierced through some windows, and then married a **** The first love that is not the first love, unconsciously sang Wu Qilong's "Fireworks", at that time I was really homesick, so homesick! ‍‍

I was wronged in the company and hit my family, and they asked when you would go back? When things don't go well at work.

Last spring, my mother-in-law (grandma) was sick in the hospital, my mother went to see her, and my mother-in-law said that I wanted to open ** with me, and the first thing my mother-in-law said was: Are you okay outside, I fell and couldn't move, I'm so useless. Then the mother-in-law's tears fell, and the mother-in-law also said, when will you come back, when will you have the summer vacation?

At that time, my mother-in-law couldn't remember clearly, I had already graduated, and there was no summer vacation. ‍‍

It should be after work, the first Chinese New Year's Eve, when I had to be on duty, after returning from work, there was nothing to eat on the road, so I cooked the leftover quick-frozen dumplings at home, dipped them in chili sauce, and cried while eating. ‍‍

Many times I walk on the road alone, watching the lights and people on the streets, thinking that I can only be alone now, I will inevitably feel sad and cannot be cut off. Even because of this, we will have such a doubt: why did I have to be so willful, regardless of the opposition of my parents, to run to this unfamiliar place?

I am very homesick and lonely during the holidays.

You left your hometown, persevered in your dreams, and later settled in the city where you worked, and your hometown became a foreign country.

Year after year, saying goodbye again and again, only to find out after leaving that I can let go of the noise of the city, but I can't let go of the homesickness.

Neighbors who are familiar with the streets and alleys, blurt out hometown dialects, a bowl of hot gouache, and playmates who once didn't know the height of the sky. It is a place where the body and mind are warmed.

It does not have the great city in all directions, the lights are bright, and there is no high salary and future in the big city, but it is the most beautiful place in our hearts. Our concerns, our memories are all left here, all left in this beautiful city!

No matter how bright the neon outside is, it can't match the lamp at home.

May your wandering city be gentle with you!

May you go away for half your life and come back as a teenager!

The small mountain village that has dreamed of going out since I was a child has now become a hometown where it is difficult to go back.

That's where the drift of the big city comes in:

Of course, that's not bad.

After all, the dreams of youth, many innocent but ignorant. "Earn enough money and go back to your hometown", many times it is delirium that has never seen the world. The desires of adults are a little more thoughtful.

After seeing the world, it is not surprising that my hometown is not so perfect.

So the longer you stay, the harder it is to go. Finally assimilated with the big city and became a part of it.

This is probably the common fate of many people who spent their youth in big cities, right?

Back to your hometown Back to your childhood, less worried, more familiar, less needed, but less fun.

From the perspective of part-time work, I am in favor of returning to my hometown to a certain extent. I even think that a lot of people don't have to come to big cities in the first place. If your goal is just to work part-time, just to pursue a garage, why do you need to be in a big city, you can easily achieve these in your hometown.

Therefore, the only reason for you to stay in the big city is not just to solve the problem of food and clothing, not just to be satisfied with buying a car and a house, but to have big dreams. Otherwise, it's not worth it at all.

After years of studying abroad, I found that I never belonged to any one place.

School is a place where you have to leave after graduation; Hometown is called hometown because you can't go back; No matter how familiar and favorite you are in the dormitory, you want to live in a different group of people after graduation, and the city without a house will always be a foreign country;

Classmates and friends who get along very well at each stage go their separate ways after graduation; The person who used to be close to each other has become the person on the other side of the screen, drifting away; All the feelings and joys that have been paid are only in the memories in the end.

However, if you give affection, whether it is friendship or love, it will consume people's energy and will, and if you end up empty-handed, you will have a feeling of nothingness.

I remember when I was last year, when I had just graduated and came to Guangzhou, I chose to enter a spot investment company as a salesman in desperation. In fact, I don't like to do sales work, although my eloquence and courage are actually not small, but I always feel that sales work is just deceiving people, and as an honest child, I can't deceive others, and I can't pass my own level.

Once, I worked overtime at the company until half past ten. On the way to catch the subway, I received a ** from home from afar, and my parents called me. In **, my parents didn't say much about me, but just asked me about my situation, whether I ate well, and whether I lived well.

But on this side, I can feel the unspoken love and greetings of my parents, and I can feel my parents' thoughts about me. At that moment, I felt the warmth of home for the first time. Looking at the unfamiliar surroundings and the wallet with few dollars in my pocket, I couldn't help but burst into tears.

In fact, if you are wandering outside, when it comes to the New Year's holiday, or you want to go home very much, because you will find people close to home, they all go home to celebrate the holiday with their relatives, and only you are struggling to drift in a foreign land, no, no one accompanies you, that moment is really the most homesick time.

The most impressive time for myself may be the Chinese New Year, I was ordered by my boss, and then I had to choose to work overtime, when I heard the news, it was really a bolt from the blue, because the New Year is when the whole family is together, I have to work overtime, and I especially want to go home to accompany my parents.

I remember my first National Day in college, when all the other roommates went home, and I was the only one in the dormitory. After nine days off, I stayed in the dormitory by myself for nine days. I was very homesick at that moment.

It's really not good to be alone in a foreign land. There is no intimacy of home, only a cold room.

Even when I work outside, I am far away from home, and then you can't go home for the Chinese New Year, and you are alone, which will make me very homesick, and I feel very sad, because I want to go home for a long time, and I will especially want to be with my family.

After graduating from college, I chose Beipiao without hesitation, but the days of Beipiao were not very good, I remember a fever and high fever, but I couldn't come down, and I still had to go to work in the company on leave, I was particularly aggrieved at that moment, I wanted to go home very much, I especially wanted to eat my mother's cooking, and I wanted to listen to my father's nagging.

At the beginning, when I encountered difficulties in life or work, because I felt particularly hard at that time, I missed home very much, and I didn't want to stay in this stressful environment anymore, and no one cared about my life.

On New Year's Day last year, I couldn't go home because of school activities, and that night, I saw many people posting on Moments. It's all a family gathering for dinner, and there is a New Year's Day party on TV, and suddenly I feel very homesick and feel very lonely at school.

I'm wandering outside. There was a time when history had to break through the world, at least to reduce the burden on my parents, but once, when I was eating out, I sat at a table next to me. Because of the mother and her child, the mother kept feeding the child at that time.

I think of my mother when I was a child. That's how I was fed. I was so uncomfortable that I almost burst into tears.

At that time, I just wanted to go home and eat a bite of my family's food.

There was a moment that made me want to go home very much, for example, when I was eating alone at home when I got off work, I felt very lonely, because when I was in my hometown, I used to sit together as a family to eat and chat, it would be very interesting, and it was also very harmonious, and I would be very happy, but I was very lonely, and in this case I would be very homesick.

When I was out playing, I was very homesick, maybe it was when I encountered a setback, because at this time we needed the shelter of our parents' harbor, and then we couldn't go home, I think it was a very scary thing, and then there was no one to help you with these things, and then no one to help you get through it, so you had to rely on yourself. <>

For example, when you are studying abroad, you will especially want to go home at this time, because you can't eat the delicious food made at home, and then you are very anxious, and your mood is in an unstable state, so you will especially want to go home. Thinking about it, it was actually quite difficult at that time. <>

At that moment, you were wandering outside, and you especially wanted to go home. Now that I'm a college student, I only go home during the winter and summer vacations, and I miss my parents every time I first come to school. After all, we can only accompany our parents during the winter and summer vacations.

When you are adrift in a foreign land, when you have no one to rely on, you will think of your hometown. <>

Whenever I get sick, I feel homesick. I had appendicitis before the National Day, and I wanted to go home very much at that moment. However, a person gets used to it on the outside and becomes strong.

I hit a **, hung two bottles of anti-inflammatory water, and then continued to work. So sometimes I want to find a job that has more money and less work and is close to home. But fortunately, it was only seven hours to get home.

There are many times when I feel that I want to go home when I am wandering, for example, when I am bullied, or when I can't finish my work, and when I am very lonely, it will make me want to go home, because I feel very pitiful at this moment, and at the same time, I feel homesick when I am not accompanied by anyone.

The moment I wander outside, especially when I want to go home, is when I am wronged outside, because I am wronged outside, I think of going home, home is a warm harbor, which can relieve my fatigue, but also make my mood more comfortable, and I will not be so tired outside.

Remember that the idea was born in high school. I want to go to a big city far from home, work hard, create everything with my own hands, and let myself have enough ability to create a better future.

But now I'm halfway there. When I got to the big city, I just hadn't achieved anything yet. Do you think you're halfway there? (눈

When you really leave your hometown and wander in a big city, you will feel homesick from the depths of your heart. Compared with the big cities in front of me, although the hometown is not so conspicuous. But the kindness and softness of hometown are always calling you back.

When do you especially want to go home? Maybe it's when you encounter difficulties, when you encounter danger, when you encounter indifference, you find that this city is so ruthless and unfamiliar to you. At this time, I will think of my hometown, which is very beautiful and relaxed.

When I first arrived in this big city, I wanted to go home most often. When I got out of the car and saw the high-rise buildings in my eyes, it was so strange. Later, looking for a house and a job, wandering around, and encountering walls everywhere, I found that this big city actually does not welcome outsiders like me, and I remembered the beauty of my hometown.

Later, I successfully found a place to live and found a job, but on the way back and forth to work, the people who came and went in life were so strange, they seemed even stranger than the strangers in my hometown. I don't know how to say this feeling, but this strangeness is **in the heart, and the strangeness of the stranger in my hometown is **in the appearance, just two people have not seen it.

The most difficult days have passed, and now I have put down roots in this big city and am gradually getting acquainted with the city.