Engagement is an important ceremony before marriage, what does the man have to buy?

When getting engaged, the man needs to prepare a bride price and a dowry price.

Jewelry is given to the woman. The bride price is not too much for the engagement, but it must be even. The dowry is divided into six kinds of gifts, eight kinds of gifts or twelve kinds of gifts, most of which refer to items such as chicken, duck and fish, tobacco, wine, tea, desserts, snacks, dragon and phoenix candles, salutes and other items.

Jewelry can be three gold or hardware, depending on the individual's situation.

Engagement is an important ceremony before marriage, today we will talk about what the engaged man wants to buy?

1. The engagement fee is determined according to the economic conditions and regional customs of both parties, and can be divided into large employment.

and Xiaohi, it should be an even number, and it should be properly packaged in red paper. Most parents will still choose more auspicious numbers, such as 10001 or 1001, symbolizing one in a hundred miles or one in a thousand miles, and some mainly present the two numbers 8 and 6.

2. Dowry, usually the dowry is divided into six or twelve gifts. Generally, it contains fish, meat, sugar, wine, tobacco, tea, etc., and the quantity is in pairs.

3. Matchmaker ceremony, matchmaker is greater than the sky, so the engagement must prepare a thank you gift for the matchmaker, generally more men than women.

4. Three gold or hardware: Usually before engagement, the man must prepare three gold or hardware, which generally includes gold necklaces and gold earrings.

Gold rings, hardware on the basis of three gold bracelets and anklets. And no matter how you buy the three gold and hardware, the weight should not be too light, otherwise the woman will think that you don't value her daughter.

5. Banquet ceremony, the engagement banquet is usually hosted by the woman's family, and the man should estimate the cost of the woman's family banquet, and then discount the red envelope to the woman's family.

The betrothed woman prepares her belongings.

1. Gifts for the man, the woman is the same as the man, and she should also prepare shoes, clothes and other items for the man when she is engaged.

2. For the engagement banquet, the woman needs to prepare an engagement banquet for the man and the man's family to attend.

It should be noted that when preparing the engagement gifts, the number of gifts must be even, which has the beautiful meaning of pairs.

Engagement gifts, bride price, three gold hardware, banquet gifts, matchmaker gifts. The engagement fee is determined according to the economic conditions and regional customs of both parties, and can be divided into large and small, and should be wrapped evenly and appropriately in red paper. Most parents still choose lucky numbers, such as 10001 or 1001, which symbolize one in a thousand or one in a thousand, and some mainly display the numbers 8 and 6.

Buy top hats, clothes, shirts, ties, and custom diamond rings for a more formal look.

The husband generally needs to prepare as follows:

1. Four-color ceremony: cigarettes, wine, tea, and sugar, all four of which must be double-served.

2. The bride price for the woman to buy clothes, which depends on each family, and the customs of different regions are also different. Some families have diamond rings, and jewelry is all included in this money.

3. First teasing sock wheel ornaments: diamond rings, three gold, jade bracelets, ruby rings, pair rings, watches.

4. Cakes, some are particularly particular about two cakes, one dragon and one phoenix.

5. Flowers, order a bouquet of 99 red roses, preferably packaged in black paper, with a low-key sense of luxury.

Items prepared by the woman at the time of engagement

1. First of all, the woman's family in most areas will prepare some decent items for their daughter at the engagement banquet. However, for the bride, only by knowing what her parents will prepare for Zishan Shinji, can she know in her heart and shine more brilliantly at the engagement banquet.

2. Then, generally speaking, the engagement gifts prepared by the woman's parents for their daughter include: one or two sets of clothes, a pair of shoes, watches, or rings, etc. If the woman's family is financially average, the engagement gift for the daughter will generally be less.

If the woman's family is financially strong, then the engagement gifts for the daughter are far more than that.

3. Finally, there are some differences in the return gifts given to their daughters by the woman's parents in each place. Therefore, for the most accurate engagement return items, you can decide according to your local engagement customs. In addition, you can consult the elders of the family or the older people in the village, and the engagement items that come out of their mouths will definitely be the most authentic.

The things that the man needs to prepare for the engagement are as follows:

1. Dowry. The dowry in most places in our country is a bride price and three gold or hardware. The amount of bride price varies according to local customs. The three gold generally include gold necklaces, gold earrings, gold rings, and hardware bracelets and anklets on the basis of the three golds.

2. Banquet ceremony. Because the engagement banquet is generally held by the woman, and the banquet is all the man's guests, the man will calculate the woman's money for the banquet, and then discount it to the woman in the form of red envelopes.

3. Retainer. The rewry is mainly divided into large and small hires. The big hire is usually a cheque used to purchase a dowry, and the small hire is usually cash to buy the bride's wedding dress. The bride price is generally given in the form of a red envelope, and the amount is generally an even number.

4. If the matchmaker judges Duan Li if there is a matchmaker to help introduce the two parties, then you need to give the matchmaker a red envelope at the engagement banquet.

5. Engagement rings are required for engagement ceremonies, so the man needs to take the woman to buy an engagement ring before engagement.

Usually before the engagement, the man prepares three gold or hardware, which generally includes gold necklaces, gold earrings, gold rings, and hardware bracelets and anklets on the basis of the three golds. And no matter how you buy the three gold and hardware, the weight should not be too light.

The matchmaker's marriage ceremony generally needs to be presided over by the matchmaker, so the man should prepare a gift money to the matchmaker. The matchmaker introduced the man and the woman to know each other and do this shooting, which is a very important existence.

Engagement, also known as marriage contract, according to Chinese folk customs, usually precedes marriage with engagement ceremonies: making a marriage book, exchanging gifts, or setting up a matchmaker, etc. However, according to the current "Marriage Law" of our country, engagement is not a necessary procedure before marriage, and a marriage without engagement and pure envy does not lose the validity of its marriage.

1. The engaged man should prepare 6 gifts.

1. Preparation of dowry.

The bride price for engagement and marriage should be wrapped in red envelopes, and the engagement is the same as when getting married, and red envelopes are indispensable, so it is necessary to prepare enough for the bride price, and the bride price is divided into large and small appointments, no matter how much each package is, it must be a double number.

2. Preparation of the dowry.

The dowry is generally divided into six pieces and twelve pieces, and the man chooses according to his own conditions, and sends it to the woman's home on the day of engagement.

3. Preparation of banquet ceremony.

The engagement banquet is usually hosted by the woman's family and the man is entertained. The man wants to calculate the approximate ** of the banquet held by the woman's family, and then discount the red envelope to the woman's family.

4. Preparation of matchmaking ceremony.

The gift to the matchmaker is indispensable, and the specific amount is agreed with the woman, as long as it is more than the woman's.

5. Preparation of the man's relatives and friends.

On the day of the engagement, the man should have 6, 10 or 12 relatives and friends to the woman's house.

6. Preparation of jewelry.

On the day of the engagement, the man should give the engagement ring to the woman, and the mother-in-law should also give a meeting gift to the future daughter-in-law, so the preparation of the engagement ring and various jewelry given by the mother-in-law to the daughter-in-law is indispensable.

Second, the process of engagement.

1. Discuss with both parents.

Engagement is a major matter of opinion before marriage, and it is also an important moment for both parents to meet officially, so the various matters of engagement are related to the establishment of the relationship between the parents of both parties, and it is also an important foundation for two people before marriage.

2. The next Kaisong dowry.

Now the dowry basically includes four gold and gift money, but these are all decided according to the man's family economic situation of Dazheng. However, when it comes to the dowry, you must not forget to prepare gifts for the parents of both parties. It should also be noted that the two parties need to exchange engagement rings when the dowry is placed, so you must not forget to buy an engagement ring for her who you love the most as a token of your love.

3. Engagement place.

The place of engagement can be at home or in a hotel, but the environment must be suitable for both parents to negotiate. The engagement banquet is generally based on the woman's family.