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Consider the other person's feelings and avoid unnecessary family disputes. Marriage is a matter for two people, and it is also maintained by both husband and wife, and everything after marriage must take into account the feelings of the other party. Whether it is a woman or a man, if you continue to have close contact with your previous friends of the opposite sex after marriage, it is easy to cause worry and dissatisfaction among the other half.
Love is selfish, and no one wants a third party to divide their love, even if it is possible. Therefore, it is inevitable to reduce unnecessary interactions between friends of the opposite sex after marriage.
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When a couple walks into the marriage hall, it is determined that the center of this life will change, from the friends around them to the husband or wife. Whether it is a boy or a girl, after marriage, you should keep a certain distance from your friends of the opposite sex before marriage and reduce contact, even if it is a so-called confidante, because this is a responsibility to the marriage and family. In the vast sea of people, meeting is fate, cherish each other, and cherish it!
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People are terrible, and they think about the family. After marriage, I am no longer a person, I represent a family, and I should have a corresponding sense of responsibility. After a girl gets married, she must reduce her contacts with friends of the opposite sex, otherwise it is easy to cause misunderstanding among friends and relatives around her, which will affect her image in the eyes of her family and relatives and friends.
The so-called man lives a face, a tree lives a skin, and people's words are terrifying, this is the truth.
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Try to minimize your interactions with the opposite sex, as it will cause unnecessary trouble.
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Marriage is the establishment of the strongest and most reliable social relationship between two people. This relationship, in a sense, excludes other members of the opposite sex from marriage. Although, not necessarily that is:
After getting married, you can't even have friends of the opposite sex. Yes, but you have to learn which is more important. You can't even put your wife (husband) aside for the sake of friends of the opposite sex.
It is even more important not to hurt the feelings of the other half in order to protect the interests of friends of the opposite sex.
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After getting married, everyone has to focus on their family. Friends of the opposite sex still have good contacts when they need to communicate. And the friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and the blessing of each other from afar is the best ending.
It's an unwritten rule that you have to worry about what you say and do. To be honest, who wouldn't mind if their wife has a male girlfriend and their husband has a confidante? Don't slap a swollen face and become fat, people have the same heart and the same reason.
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Be responsible for your family and spend more time on running your family. After getting married, you should spend most of your time on the management of the family, and work hard to create a happy and beautiful life with the other half. Spending all your time on running your family is something that most people do when they get married.
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From the perspective of respecting people, both men and women can have friends of the opposite sex after marriage, but, to put it bluntly, no matter men and women, after marriage, they don't want their other half to have friends of the opposite sex, I am very realistic, because many, the factors that affect marriage start from friends of the opposite sex! And there is a saying that is not often said, there is no purest friendship between men and women, although it is a bit absolute, but, there is still a certain truth!
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It can be appropriately reduced, after all, people's energy is also limited, and after marriage, the focus is on the family.
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Yes, proper distancing is a sign of respect for family and loved ones.
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I don't think it's necessary, you're really afraid of your wife, if you misunderstand, you can explain the situation to her in advance.
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After getting married, you must keep a certain safe distance from friends of the opposite sex, don't go out alone with friends of the opposite sex, and give your other half enough security, only in this way will your relationship get better and better, which is conducive to your friendship and your feelings.
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First of all, it is necessary to keep the full distance of the security and rent keys, and do not have too many close Zhao's activities, and at the same time, do not talk about some more reclusive and selfish topics, and try not to go out alone with two people, and when necessary, you can also travel with three people.
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After getting married, you should keep a proper distance from friends of the opposite sex, you can continue to go out to play, but you can no longer hook your shoulders and lose your back, and you don't need to continue to pretend to be a person who chats every day, and you must remember that you are a person who already has a family.
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I think it's a basic respect for a husband to keep a distance from friends of the opposite sex after marriage, but I don't think it's necessary to cut off personal interactions for the sake of marriage.
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After marriage, I will definitely maintain a relationship with friends of the opposite sex, after all, two people are married, two people have to be responsible for this marriage, and everyone has to be self-disciplined.
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I don't change Huai will maintain a relationship with the opposite sex, because I regret that if I do this, I am especially sorry for my other half, and I may keep a certain distance from the other party.
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There will be a certain relationship, but there will be a certain distance, because in this way, you will not lose your best friend.
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After getting married, I didn't feel like I should cut back on my interactions with friends of the opposite sex. Because doing so will not make you have a particularly good circle of friends, and will not allow you to have a particularly good personal dating habits, as long as we maintain a certain distance when interacting with friends of the opposite sex, there will not be much of a problem.
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After getting married, you should reduce your contacts with friends of the opposite sex, so as to avoid misunderstandings with your other half, and always interacting with friends of the opposite sex will definitely affect family relationships, and it is easy to divorce if you don't get it right.
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After getting married, of course, you should reduce your interactions with friends of the opposite sex, which is good for both of you.
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It should be reduced, after all, if you are married, you should treat this relationship well, and you should not have too much contact with the opposite sex.
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I think you should really reduce your interactions with friends of the opposite sex after getting married, after all, if you are married, if you are still the same as before, it is actually easy to quarrel with your husband.
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I think that after marriage, of course, you should have your own circle of friends, of course, you can also participate in some parties, if marriage means saying goodbye to your former circle, saying goodbye to your former friends and colleagues, then I believe that not many people are willing to get married.
Clause. 1. After getting married, it is not that you are not required not to have your own circle of friends, but it is just that it is appropriate to change the circle of friends to the same sex rather than too many of the opposite sex, even if it is some friends of the opposite sex who must exist, you should also pay attention to the proportions when getting along, you are already a family person, and you can no longer hug and hug the opposite sex as before, hook shoulders and backs, or say some ambiguous words.
Clause. Second, you can have friends of the opposite sex, but these friends of the opposite sex should no longer get along as before, for example, before you got married, your opposite-sex buddy fell out of love, and asked you to drink with him in the middle of the night, you are single, so whether it is the middle of the night or not, you can go to accompany him until dawn. But after you get married, when your former buddy calls you in the middle of the night and asks you to accompany him, then you must no longer be able to dress and leave directly to comfort him as before, you have a family, at this time you have to learn to refuse, otherwise no matter who you are, you will think more, even if your other half will not think crookedly, but you can't stop people from saying terrible.
Clause. 3. It's not impossible to have a party, but you say that you are a married person, go to a bar with a group of people of the opposite sex to drink, go to KTV to sing, this will definitely affect the marriage, you can go out with the same sex to have an afternoon tea, and have a meal in an orange sedan chair, but try not to appear at a party with too much of the opposite sex, otherwise the other half will definitely think more.
You must always remember that you are married, have a family, and should not do some outrageous behaviors, then your party and your circle of friends will naturally be reduced to a safe position.
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It has to be like this, because there is no so-called friendship between men and women, and when they get married, they must keep their distance from the opposite sex.
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Before two people get married, they are first a separate person, and then they will fall in love and form a family, although they should also take into account the harmony of the family, but they should also have personal space.
After two people get married, both parties will have their own jobs and careers, and their own circle of friends, so when interacting with friends, there is no need to be too taboo about whether it is the opposite sex, as long as it is within the scope of normal communication, you don't have to care too much. Moreover, if others know that they deliberately talk about empty wheels and alienate friends after marriage, they may also have certain ideas about themselves, so they can't give up their lives because of marriage, such as occasionally eating alone with colleagues of the opposite sex for work reasons, which does not mean that they are unfaithful to their marriage. Husbands and wives should trust each other, if they can't even trust their partner and the opposite sex to eat a meal with letters, then how to face it in life?
After getting married, you will also encounter some bumps and bumps, which will cause some small contradictions, but you should also give the other party enough trust, for example, after getting married, you will go to a meal alone with the opposite sex, and you will hold on to this thing. However, some people think that there is no problem, but the relationship with the opposite sex has crossed the line in the eyes of others, so after getting married, you should also pay attention to some bottom lines.
Some people's personality reasons, may usually be very aggressive, for the opposite sex to get along like buddies, but to take into account the other party's feelings, after all, now is a married person, but also to think about whether others will wear some colored glasses to look at themselves, try to maintain a certain scale, don't do too much.
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We must treat friends of the opposite sex correctly and friends of the opposite sex who are aware of the opposite sex, keep a certain distance, do not have too much solitude, and do not have too many physical touches to avoid misunderstandings, and such a relationship should go with the flow.
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Keep a distance from the opposite sex, do not have physical contact, speak with a sense of proportion, do not dismiss to cause misunderstandings to the other party, dig up when you go out to eat or work with the clan, and report to the other half.
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After getting married, you should keep a certain distance from some friends around you, so that you can give your other half enough security, don't have too much physical contact, and treat the only branches of the opposite sex friends around you as ordinary friends.
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You should take the initiative to keep a certain distance from the other party, and you should also maintain a certain sense of proportion, and you should also take the initiative to communicate with the other party when you are working, but don't cross your own bottom line and the other party's bottom line.
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As an independent individual in society, everyone has their own friends of the same and opposite sex before they get married. But after getting married, everyone will find that friends of the opposite sex around them will choose to keep their distance from themselves, and the number and time of same-sex friends to find themselves will become less and less. This is mainly because marriage will have a certain constraint on everyone, so as to ensure that they can devote more energy to the family.
First, marriage binds two people. Although many people don't want to admit it, it has to be said that it is difficult to get together with friends once you get married. Especially after having a child, after being busy every day, I first have to go back to the house to take care of the child.
In this regard, couples have to pay for the same experience, especially now that most families are dual-income families. There is very little time to be able to give to the house, and it is impossible to give it to friends. Second, communication technology is now well developed.
Because now the communication technology is very grouped, if you want to see friends, you can chat through voice and ** network without leaving home, which naturally makes everyone ignore the ** meeting. In the past, the most people met was to eat and drink, but with the improvement of living conditions, now everyone's thoughts about eating and drinking are decreasing. Third, the pursuit of life has changed.
Before getting married, our pursuit of life is often to find a like-minded friend who can talk to each other. But after getting married, you will find that what you want is a stable life, and you can talk about slippery to be worthy of your family and your children. Especially when you are busy with work, you are willing to devote yourself to your family.
In this way, they will ignore some of their former friends, which can lead to estrangement in the relationship.
What you can't get is the best! Have you tried to understand your current husband and understand him? People live under pressure, whether it's divorce or staying, you have to deal with it yourself. Good luck!
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