As a post 90s generation, was there any moment when you began to decide to accept mediocrity?

In fact, I am a post-90s generation, I feel that entrepreneurship is really tiring, and I still want to be a mediocre person.

After I tried hard to become extraordinary, I didn't change a little after working hard for a long time, not to mention, I was still very tired, and at that time I felt that my life was also very good, and I didn't have to deliberately change my original self.

When I knew that there were more than 1,000 people with the same score as myself in the college entrance examination, I accepted my mediocrity, and I realized that I was really just one of the vast number of beings, nothing special.

When I passed the door of a specialty store, I saw a coat priced at 120,000 yuan in the window. That's what I could buy with 4 years of salary.

In a child is old year by year. I feel like I'm getting bigger, too. Particularly sad.

When you see the high-spirited father, the white-headed old mother, who is uncomfortable and doesn't dare to tell you who is struggling in the distance, endure the pain silently, and tell you with a smile that we are very good, you have to take good care of you, but you will not feel ashamed to learn about their situation in the mouths of other family members After all, they are really old, will you let go of your obsession and be mediocre to accompany them.

Came out of the factory to the city to work hard. It is a strange city without any familiar people. Looking for a job all over the street, but because of academic qualifications and lack of technology, I can only find the kind of sales industry with a low threshold to do.

But I found that I was so thin-skinned, and I used to face fellow villagers from the same place, and they were all people who felt very natural and kind. But now I am facing what I am wearing, whether I am wearing or using, or what I say in my mouth, which I have never heard before. It feels natural to have a generation gap with them.

After a few months, I was still very thin-skinned, and at that time I realized that it was not that the job was not suitable for me, but that I could not adapt to life in a certain environment. began to deeply realize that he was actually an ordinary person. Maybe kindness, maybe honesty, love.

But these are the advantages of the place, and they do not bring any improvement to one's life.

I guess it's been two years since I got married. I don't have a mortgage, a car loan, and I don't have to spend money on my own to have a baby. The average class is 10 months a year, and then sells some of their own cherry apples. It feels muddy, it's so comfortable.

Basically, I knew that I was mediocre after I became sensible, and the real acceptance and recognition was when I met a good teacher when I was in junior high school. It was he who taught me that the reason why geniuses become geniuses is that they enjoy the unique gifts of God but also bear the pressure that ordinary people do not have, and people are often demanding of geniuses; On the contrary, there is a lot less pressure to be an ordinary person, as long as you pass your own level, because people tend to be more tolerant of mediocre people.

Not afraid of mediocrity, but afraid of knowing mediocrity, but being slow to act. No one wants to accept their own mediocrity. And I accept that I am an ordinary person.

Many times, I was like an individual in a crowd of thousands, eating, working, sleeping. But I will try to make myself less mediocre in ordinary days.

When I saw that I was born in the 90s, why could others travel around the world, but I was watching a travel show at home; When others have started a business to make money, and they are still holding the fourth or sixth level to gnaw; Even more when other people's speech and behavior show the superiority of this age, they will be even more annoyed why they don't care about the details.

When the present world makes oneself hit a wall everywhere, the people around you will force oneself to mature, mature enough to examine oneself in another way, begin to learn to put away one's own edges and corners to integrate into this society, and begin to feel that there are many masters around, and there are many places where oneself is not better than others, and when they begin to slowly become a little inferior from conceit, they find that their pretentious self is actually very mediocre. But when mediocrity becomes the norm, you will slowly find that you also have some advantages, and this is the real maturity!

I'm 98 years old, I just did an internship this year, and my performance in school is quite good in all aspects, and my self-confidence is quite enough. However, now that I have been interning for a week, my self-confidence is honestly quite frustrated, and I even want to give up. But I thought of my mother still waiting for me at home and eating with her.

I chose mediocrity, mediocrity is not terrible, terrible has always been mediocre, life is like this, at least I feel like this now, everything will have an excess, the future is not mediocre, what will happen to mediocrity now.