I realized the crisis in my life, what to do

People should be confident and can see their own shining points, but they must not be complacent, but also recognize their own shortcomings, everyone has advantages and disadvantages, as long as they recognize it, and then change, it is good after all, come on, don't think too badly.

I myself am an introvert. Moreover, he is thin, short-sighted, scoliosis, poor eloquence, slow thinking, and poor reading, so he has low self-esteem and does not even dare to talk about his girlfriend. The search for a job has been frustrated again and again.

There was a time when I was disappointed in my life, worried, and didn't know what to do in the future. It was Buddhism that made me optimistic, cheerful, mild-mannered, and popular. I don't care about physical defects anymore.

Also, I've been sick for a year and still haven't gotten better, and I don't care. Because I know that these are karmic retributions, I believe that following the Buddha's teachings can change one's destiny. He can deal with the ugly phenomena of society with a normal heart.

I used to be a low-self-esteem, stubborn, arrogant, calculating, and short-tempered person. Moreover, sometimes they contradict their parents. If I didn't have faith, my life would really be ruined, either suicide or depression.

Start with these aspects: honor your parents, be kind to others, be considerate of others everywhere, be helpful, and don't hold grudges with others. It is recommended that you take a look at the Four Teachings of Lifan, which can change the fate of your life.

There are on the web.

Since you can ask this question, it means that you want to correct it! What you need is your self-reminder and self-control! Take your time! Not in a hurry.

There are too many difficulties in life, how do we get through them? And how to turn danger into a disaster?

Redoubling the diligence and giving should be the most basic method, but this most basic "stupid" method is often abandoned by smart people, and smart people are often defeated by difficulties.

I had a very special experience, that is, in 3 months, I went from a new reporter who didn't know anything to a reporter who was very knowledgeable about all financial policies, shopping mall trends, and industry knowledge, and the method was very simple, that is, read the newspaper without missing a word.

In 1978, when Taiwan's "Business Times" was launched, I officially became a new reporter with no experience at all. At that time, our opponent - "Economy**" has been published for more than 10 years, in the interview process, the interviewee said a few words, and the reporter of "Economy**" has already understood it; And because of my lack of background knowledge, I was often blind and miserable.

Faced with this situation, I came up with the stupidest way to read "Economy" from the first word to the last word every day, not only the content, but also all the advertisements.

It's of course a boring, boring, and extremely painful process, with newspapers full of names, company names, industry names, product names, numbers, expertise, proper nouns, ......In the first week, I only understood less than half of it, what should I do if I can't understand it? Read it three times, memorize it first, and then talk about it.

It's a pretty stupid method, but it works great. After a month, I was able to figure out the main people, companies, and industries in the mall at that time, and I also had a rough grasp of the important issues that were happening. By the time the "Business Times" was launched on December 1, my understanding of the basic knowledge, dynamics, and ins and outs of the economy was on a par with that of the veteran reporters of the rival "Economic **".

I used the stupidest method to make up for the biggest shortcomings of new reporters in the shortest possible time.

Life is a long marathon, and we must move forward at a steady pace. But life often encounters critical and difficult moments, at which time we must use extraordinary means to sprint with all our strength to have a chance to break through. Everyone's method of sprinting is different, and my method of catching up with the 10 years of experience of veteran reporters in 3 months is the ultimate in my hard work, and it is also a masterpiece of my rapid growth.

First of all, I set a goal of 3 months, which is almost impossible in common sense; Secondly, I chose the dumbest method - rote memorization; In the end, I spent 16 hours a day at work, and I studied interviews except for 8 hours of sleep and eating. This experience set me up as a model of "top speed" work, where I could work at a steady pace under normal conditions, but I knew how to sprint at full strength when necessary.

Without this kind of "fast travel" experience, don't say that you have already experienced life.

Then get up from the predicament. Better do it than wish it done. No matter how embarrassed you are, you have to break the ground and be reborn.

One, think about what is good about what I have done in the past, and then apply it, for example, I am engaged in scientific research, and other people think that I have nothing to do and criticize me, then I will use my achievements to make them feel that I am not idle, that I am doing something worthwhile.

Second, judge whether the impact of the crisis and the handling are valuable, and when there is value to deal with (including the ability to deal with it), then I will deal with it, divide it into several small goals, and deal with it step by step. (including using what I've done in the past to show persuasion).

Third, I can't eliminate the impact of this crisis, and it will bring me long-term harm, so let's be decisive, leave the place where this crisis arose, and go to another place.

Fourth, there is this crisis, why do I still want to exist, for example, everyone ignores me, why do I still want to exist, because there is delicious food, then I will enjoy the food. In this way, I will still feel that society is beautiful, I will not go to extremes, I will still strive to live in society, enjoy being in society, and face problems.