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I feel that your boyfriend is an emotional person, and he does his best to help his ex-girlfriend, that is because his ex-girlfriend's pain is caused by him, and your own pain, how to say, your boyfriend may not know that you are having such a difficult time, or that you have certain problems in communicating with him, and he can't possibly watch his girlfriend suffer. Moreover, everyone always inadvertently hurts those closest to them, so we must learn to be tolerant. Hehe.
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Well, everyone has a different opinion when they see your problem, maybe you should stick to the following ideas, the more you struggle, the more annoying you are.
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Friend, this man doesn't love you enough Although she would rather tear down a temple than a marriage, but since her ex-girlfriend has broken up with her, she shouldn't ask for any more money Your boyfriend has been giving her money for treatment This kind of thing is unreasonable It's not that it's cold-blooded and ruthless, but it's not common sense You can always understand your boyfriend's behavior Because of your kindness And the word love can't help You wrote it? Do you know the meaning of this word Love can't help is a word that shouldn't appear between boyfriend and girlfriend It's not that you have to help you much But this heart Do you feel the heart of what he really gives to you, maybe it's like he has been expressing it in words but hasn't actually made a specific effort, you should think about it.
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Hey, maybe this was supposed to be done by him, things started because of him, of course, he had to decide, but he is also responsible for you, take a step back, you should do nothing happened, don't you just pass, since you know about him and his former girlfriend, you must also be an open-minded person, some things don't need to be so careful, isn't it?
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I don't care about his past because everybody has a past, and it's nice to be young, but we can't be overly concerned about the past.
It feels good to be young, for many middle-aged people like me, when they reach a certain age, they will sigh the passage of time and the passage of time, and they will be nostalgic for their beautiful student days, so in my student days, there are some moments that make me particularly sigh and make me feel young and good.
First of all, when I was a student, I was able to have a lot of like-minded classmates, and we were able to play football together in physical education class or during recess, although the pace of learning was relatively tense at that time, and the pressure of learning was relatively large, but whenever we were able to use physical education class or some recess time to play football for a while, we could let our inner pressure be well released, and in the process of football games, we could find real happiness.
Looking at my weight of 180 pounds, not to mention playing football, it is more difficult to walk five or six thousand steps every day, so at this moment I feel the beauty of my student days, especially in my student days, it is really good to be young, and I can enjoy the joy and happiness that football brings to me. In the past, I devoted myself to the sports I loved, and found my sense of accomplishment and satisfaction.
The wisest way is for the three of you to sit down and talk, don't talk to her alone, if you talk alone, there are two results, one, she will add fuel and vinegar to talk to him, and it may be serious, causing you...Second, she will feel that you care about him very much, so she will use this psychology to harass you and force you to quit, and it is best for the three of them to sit down and have a good talk and listen to his opinion....
To love a man is to fight for him with all your might!
If you love him and are afraid of losing him, he will face it calmly. That's the only way! Since he is a good boy, you should believe that he accepts him, don't be so inferior, if he really loves you, he will accept your past, he loves you as the person you should be, love all of you, not only love your present and reject your unbearable past! >>>More
No longer contact, don't say bad things about each other, don't go back and forth if there is a gap between each other, even if you reconcile, you won't be the same as before, don't force each other, friends are the icing on the cake in your life, people and things have to rely on themselves, only when you are young and ignorant will you think that friends are all you have, only yourself in your life Your parents and your children are your most important people, they are also the people who care about you the most, the friendship of gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship of villains is sweet. Keep a certain distance between friends, not too close, not too far away, many things to learn to resolve by yourself, don't tell others very important secrets.
From your description, it seems that your relationship with him is definitely more than just an ordinary or good friend! That is, at least one of you is not a simple motive, of course, if you can ensure that your motivation is simple, even if the other party has any ideas, it will not have a great impact on you, the most important thing is yourself, maybe you are young, and you can't grasp your emotions well, this requires some other things to distract your attention, the best way is actually to let yourself focus on learning, and this is what your teacher expects of you, So I think what you need to do now is to clear your mind and look forward to your future after being admitted to a prestigious university in the future, so that you have more motivation to study hard! The most important thing is to be on your own!