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Don't be in a hurry to give money, beware of being deceived!
First, I feel that her parents are selling her, and they have to ask for 100,000 yuan, and the purpose is not pure, and this is the first time I've heard of such a thing.
Second, even she can't make up her mind, not to mention that you only met on the Internet, in case you can't tell anything about it.
Third, I think it's all the troubles caused by your bent desire to start a family, and there are all kinds of people in society now, so you must understand it clearly if you get married.
You tell her: 'I like you very much, I cherish my fate with you very much, and I want to be with you, but I really can't take out 100,000, if your family has to ask for 100,000, I have to say goodbye to our feelings.''.If you say such things to her and she is still like that, it proves that she doesn't care about you at all and is lying to you!
Because you are all people who have been married".
It's not a matter of money or not, you must be cautious about such a family!
Finally, bless you!
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It's not about whether it's worth it or not, but whether your girlfriend really loves you, and if she really loves you, she'll convince her parents, and that's what I am. The love of two people is not measured by money.
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Oh, how can they sell their daughter to you like their family...
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Lakh??? 100,000 rural families??
Don't give 10 yuan If you really love her Her family loves her daughter, 100,000 yuan can't stop your marriage. If you think about it, 100,000? Which of our daughters married out and didn't send the money?
Let's just say that my sister is the first to marry out and send 3w8 (at that time, the family is not good) The second sister is married to send out, and my dad has any good business to do, he called my two sisters... My friend got married, and the woman sent 20w a piece of land and a car. And my friend still doesn't want to marry (because he is handsome) The woman's family sells pork...
But the girl doesn't want to sell meat...
So, do you think it's worth it???
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Rural divorce is not a new topic now, either. However, a failed marriage must have its reasons for failure. Because the countryside is not as good as the city life.
From what you wrote, there are two reasons for her parents, the first is that they are people who have a lot of things, so that her daughter will inevitably be affected by the family as well. Second, I'm really afraid that my daughter will marry someone who doesn't treat her as a treasure, but the way is a little too much. As for your girlfriend, does he think you won't marry her?
Or someone who is too fantastic? No matter how good the relationship is, there is reality, living in reality, people can't think about their own lives, what you say is reasonable.
My opinion is twofold. First, contact more time to see if you are suitable for the character, and you can also slow down the current situation, and second, analyze the above words I said, I really like them, just expose them to see if they will change.
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What's done is done.
See who's great.
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As long as the other party loves you, I believe she will also find a way to convince her family to win.
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Personally, I don't think it's right for you.
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<><Look at these questions before you get married
See these questions clearly before getting married
1.Whether the other person is willing to change.
2.There is a fully engaged relationship in both parties.
3.Whether or not you are willing to share your feelings.
If there are two or more of the above three questions, you should be cautious about this relationship. The probability of a relationship breakdown is enormous.
1.Won't change:
I'm right", what do you say that the other party is unwilling to listen, which means that the "warlord" type of love, the overbearing president's bridge is not a romantic ending. And endless oppression and an unquestionable sense of suffocation.
2.Put your heart and soul into it.
Wholehearted delivery hopes to receive a wholehearted response 100% purity in a relationship is almost non-existent, and people are a product of reality. [It is instinct to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages] and will not change one's own [gains and losses] because of the other party's smile Even if it exists, then separation is inevitable in the long run.
3.Sharing is a prerequisite for emotion.
Marriage is a partnership, which means that the other person is the person you can give back. If there is no communication and heart-to-heart interaction, or the flow of feelings will eventually dry up. How can there be any trickle of water? This sense of detachment can ruin a relationship as quickly as possible.
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If you have just gotten married, you really have to go to ** contact and care about it in person.
If you convey it through your husband, your husband may not necessarily say "xx also said to let you take care of your body".
It feels like your husband said it casually, and xx never said such a thing at all.
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According to your description, this does not need to be sent to your grandfather, and it should be sent to the person concerned for condolences. In this way, it seems that you have a heart, anyway, a **, if you can fight, try to fight.
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It's better to make a **, so that the father-in-law realizes that his daughter-in-law is filial, a ** thing, why not do it!
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After all, it's a grandmother, you need to express your concern, give a ** to your father-in-law, or ask your husband to give you some money or nutrition on your behalf! Make a ** to express your love to your father-in-law! After all, it's a granddaughter-in-law!
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It's better to make a **, and it doesn't take much effort.
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1. One of the problems after marriage is that the family bears the financial burden, the love is transferred to the parents of the child, and the shortcomings of both parties are exposed to each other......, there are many contradictions;
2. After marriage, under various contradictions, the main thing is to live happily, take care of your body, and then take care of your parents, children, and lovers;
3. Treat the relationship between husband and wife, be tolerant and generous, be gracious, and never dislike your family; Treat parents more often and do things along the way; Treat children to cultivate more hands-on ability, and do not compare food, clothing and learning; Treat the financial burden according to your ability, and the money will never be enough to spend;
4. For various family problems, have the courage to provoke, warm the family with love, ignore your mistakes to him, and live in harmony and harmony.
5. Sacrifice and dedication to give the family a sense of stability, and the backbone is to have a pet and romantic love for his wife. Do it little by little, so that the home is always warm like spring.
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There will be more and more contradictions, husbands and wives have to endure each other, and now the divorce rate is high, the main thing is that everyone is looking at their mobile phones, and then the feelings will slowly fade, the best way is to cook often while wishing you happiness.
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There are many problems that you will face after marriage:1Husbands and wives will quarrel over some trivial matters in life, and husbands and wives must understand each other, tolerate, support, care and love each other to be happy.
2.The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the direct collision of the three views of two generations. Every family has a difficult scripture, and the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most common problem, and the son plays a vital role in the middle.
3.Every parent wants their children to live better and receive the best education, which is not wrong, but we must do what we can, not overly doting and comparing, and the husband and wife discuss it. Forget that every family is harmonious and happy.
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There will be many problems after marriage, so long as the husband and wife communicate well and trust and tolerate each other, any problems are not a problem. I wish all couples all over the world can work together to make a white head!
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After marriage, there will be many problems to face, children, and some broken things in life. Whatever you want. Usual expenses, all aspects of spending money, etc. In short, when you get married, there are many things.
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After two people get married, there is no sweet words when they are in love, more is firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, so there will be contradictions, then it depends on the understanding ability of the two people, if they care about each other and do not consider the problem from a different angle, the marriage will be on the verge of crisis, so, friends, love him and tolerate him, I wish each of our families happiness.
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What's the problem? After marriage, there are many kinds of which you ask.
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You can come to me, specific questions and answers, three years of marriage.
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The question is vague and I don't know how to answer your question.
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Are you male or female? What kind of questions are you trying to answer?
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If it's not someone who has come over, you can't answer it?
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Since you love her so much.
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