Is there any salvation for the love between us?

You are kind. I also had a bf. that everyone enviedIt's just that things have changed.

He's not for you. It's my gut feeling. Try to forget about him.

I know it's hard to forget, and I know that if you love, you will be reluctant, just let it go. Keep dwelling on it, and you'll only hurt more. Even if you get back together, you won't be happy.

Maybe I don't like what I'm saying, but I think you'll understand later. Some words are useless. In a simple word, please be happy!

Hehe, today's children, it's better to think about how to express it in English if they think so much Maybe they haven't been so distressed The feelings in school are not love Love is responsible He can't give you anything now Love yourself a little more.

Dump the bad fate!

He doesn't deserve to do this for him. You're still a student, right? It's too early.

It's like this now, but what about going to college in the future? I don't know how many girls there are. Besides, what about getting married later?

Do you want different women in your house to come in and out of your home or even your bed every day?

Better a finger off than always aching! Let him go, and you'll be free.

I really want to take the liberty of asking, how old are you, such behavior, do you really like it or not, this sister, I think you should still study hard, don't affect your normal life because of this boy, after all, you are still too young, maybe after you work, or more mature, you will understand how simple and ignorant you are now According to some of your own experience, please don't mind if you don't say it well

Well, then you can promise him and get back together with him

Why make yourself sad....It also makes him sad....

Oh, you're a very stupid girl, you don't know what you want, and you're always messy about emotional things, if you still love him, you have to find a way to tell him, and you want to make him believe that you still love him, find a suitable time, a suitable place, give each other a suitable step, I hope you can reconcile!!

I guess I love myself more than I love you.

It's okay, just don't regret it.

It's best to choose a path:

Oblivion. Don't think about it anymore, the more you think about it, the more uncomfortable it becomes.

It's better to forget about it, it might feel better.

It's messy, it's hard to get along, it's better to leave early.

You'd better talk to him well, don't want love if you want face, and don't be too dead to save face if you want love.

I think he should still love you, otherwise he wouldn't have looked at you often.

Find a chance to talk to him, and if you still love, reconcile, and if not, kick the relationship (although it will be very uncomfortable).

Friend, maybe the following words will make you feel unhappy, but they will be true, and they can also be said to be my thoughts after the experience.

Giving up on him is the best option. If he really loves you, he will never do this to you, why would a man give up the woman he loves because of a small thing? Is it still love to give up easily?

I had a relationship like this, and he gave up on me because he loved me (I was a high school student at the time, and I was about to go to university, but he had just been demobilized, and he said he didn't want to miss my future), is this human talk? What did you think you came from? Unlike you, I didn't have any contact with him anymore.

I can't say how good it is now, but I don't regret not contacting him again, because giving up an irresponsible man is the most correct choice, and if you are not responsible for the person you love, how can you talk about love? He doesn't deserve it!

After reading it, it seems that the main problem is the parents, the other party's parents want to get married early, and they don't get a reply from your side, you have a good talk with your parents, or wait for him to have an achievement, if you wait for the other party, it's better to let the other party know, don't wait and wait, and you don't know.

Whether the relationship between the division and the union is worth continuing depends on what the reason for each division is and what the reason for the union is, and it cannot be generalized.

If the reason for the division is such as the disagreement of the three views, the problem involving the bottom line of principles, or some practical problems that cannot be solved, then there is no need to continue this kind of division, because it will be worse if the two of you enter into marriage. In the love period with a high emotional concentration, you can't have a good time, and when you enter marriage, it will be more difficult to solve a more complex situation.

If the reason for the union is just that they can't find each other better, but they will agree, then there is no need to merge, such a relationship is very fragile, maybe one day who meets a satisfactory object, will choose to leave, what about the remaining person? Isn't it a waste of time and effort?

Even if you both don't meet a more satisfactory person in the future, so that you are okay when you are in love, it will be more difficult to cope after marriage, and most of the couples who love each other after marriage have experienced stumbling days, if you don't really love each other, it will be difficult to tolerate each other, and the ending of such a relationship is mostly not good, and it is difficult to be happy.

Personally, I don't like or support this kind of relationship! Because it will bring emotional damage to both parties.

Every breakup leaves both parties experiencing negative emotions such as loss, pain, and anxiety. And each reunion will make the emotions of both parties warm up again, generating hope and happiness. This emotional fluctuation can be physically and mentally exhausting, preventing a truly stable and healthy relationship.

In addition, toxic relationships can also have a negative impact on an individual's growth and well-being. When a person is in an unstable and unhealthy relationship all the time, it is difficult for them to focus on self-growth and achieving personal goals. It can also have a negative impact on those around you.

Splitting and merging relationships are often an unhealthy pattern that can cause worry and anxiety for those around you.

Personally, I think that we must be rational in dealing with feelings, don't treat them as child's play, if you like them, you really care about each other, if you don't like them, you should decisively separate, don't break the thread, intermittently, grind and chirp, that is not good for both parties.

Category: Annoyances >> in love.

Problem description: Hello, I'm so confused about love now, I'm a freshman in college, we are 2 points high to the same class, we have always been good friends, and we have been in love for a long time. She has a very cheerful personality and is very beautiful, but she has not been very open, and every time she kisses and hugs, it is I who propose it. Now that I paid for a good university in the country, and she is tutoring, I still love her very much, and sometimes contact her, but I always feel that she is too inactive, right?

It's been so long since I even said I love you or anything like that, I don't know what she's thinking. Very angry. Maybe she's very busy with tutoring, and she doesn't think much about it, but now Chang Jianshu heard from her classmates that you can't do it in the future, you and her college students have a different environment, and their thoughts in the future are not the same, and the current society pays attention to the right people, my family conditions are okay, she is average.

I still like him very much now and don't want to hurt her, but considering that it is impossible to be together for 4 years in college, and the situation in various aspects, what should I do? Please give me ideas, thank you!

Analysis: Give up, this kind of love between two places will not last long.

Cut through the mess quickly, so that you can quickly walk out of a better life in the future, maybe now you can't let go of that once very beautiful love. However, with your current state of mind with so many concerns, your love will not come to fruition. It's better to quickly recognize the reality.

I also add: since she loves you too, but judging by how she behaves towards you. A girl who is not very active, a girl who is overly reserved, and two places apart.

It's up to you to do it unilaterally"One head is hot", this"Heat"It didn't last long. Keep dragging and procrastinating. The result will only be more unpleasant.

Love is two-sided, not one-sided. Even if she likes you, but if you don't show it, you are not a god, and it is impossible to penetrate her thoughts. Keep guessing.

Your love ended in vain. If she doesn't take the initiative. How do you deal with the pressure in the future?

Without the support of the other side. Encouragement of the other person's love. The problems you will face in the future will be solved by you alone, and you ask yourself, can you carry it alone?