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The flower of love always needs to be cared for and irrigated by both parties.
It seems that you are a pair with incompatible personalities. But it doesn't matter, as long as there is love and the efforts of both parties, everything can be improved.
Now the question is, can you and him both work hard for each other and make small changes? Adapting to each other?
You can guide him more and talk to him more about topics that interest him. Your liveliness and cheerfulness, he will be subtly influenced.
As for him, he should also learn to observe more things around him, think more about what topics there are, even if it is to talk about a movie or a TV series, even if he sees a beautiful little flower on the side of the road or an exaggerated poster. Don't suppress your thoughts, be brave enough to express them.
If he loves you, he'll try. Of course, you have to work hard.
This is a first-hand experience, and I hope it will be helpful to you. All I can say is that our efforts have succeeded. I also hope that you can succeed and be together happily forever!
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Why don't you like to talk? Is it a stuffy gourd?
It's so tiring to be with a stuffy gourd.
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Communicate well. Find a place to go out and relax together.
Play Play Circle.
What's the point of being together without words.
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The love in your girlfriend's heart is so perfect, I think most boys are the same, careless, and girls are too careful. In the end, it's just like you said about a little thing, and you don't feel it.
Between the two of you is a matter of carelessness and care.
She said a word:"If you love me, you should change for me. "I don't support that.
Because no one can do it, between the two people, only each other slowly adapts, and no one can change for whom, even if they love each other. So of course you will break your word. I think if your girlfriend is holding on to this, you'd better separate.
She said she still loves you, maybe she just doesn't want to end up being a sinner.
Finally, I want to say to you, 1, don't promise what you think you can't do, in fact, you also have the right to refuse anyone! 2. In the future, when you are dissatisfied with each other, you must say it after calming down, and make corrections to each other, and the boy will be a little more careful, and he doesn't know what she wants, and sometimes he can ask indirectly.
Oh, I wish you a happy day!
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Don't force yourself and her.
Since he doesn't love you anymore.
Just try to try new ones.
Maybe you'll find that you'll be happier than you are now.
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If one of the two people is not in love, the relationship will be over, what does the relationship without love depend on to maintain it, since she is no longer in love, it is better not to be reluctant, no one can grasp it on the road of love, maybe the person who is more worthy of your love is waiting for you in front, come on, you can do it...
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Don't promise too much at first, you have no intention of saying a word, girls will sometimes remember firmly once you can't reach it.
When she arrived, she felt dissatisfied.
Therefore, the expectations given must be able to be met.
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In fact, when my girlfriend says that she is in a bad mood, it should be the time of the emotional cycle.
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Sister, don't always live in your own space.
Things have become very clear, this boy, your boyfriend, wants to break up with you now, and you say that he has feelings for you, so he can't grind for more than 2 months, because you have been struggling to stay, he has not really broken up with you.
But there are many signs that he doesn't want to be with you anymore.
He has lost patience with you, he is mentally tired, he has started to split his legs in life, etc.
It may be hard for you to accept it, but that's the way it is.
Actually, I think as a woman has felt all kinds of signs, otherwise you wouldn't list so many here, the more you list, doesn't it mean that you are more confused about this matter?
5 years is a long time, but if you spend the rest of your life on such a man is not worth it, when he is not married, he has begun to retreat, although his family gives him a certain amount of pressure, but he does not take the initiative to resolve the pressure, but shows no patience with you, just imagine, if you really spend a lot of time and energy with him, will he treat you in the future life as before? Or will it be as cold and unfaithful to you as it is now?
In fact, this is also a good thing, your family conditions are not bad, you have just graduated for a year, you are not old, you can find a better partner at work, he may be fate with you, not every person we talk to, people you know can accompany you through a lifetime, many people are just passers-by, help you grow in life, become tenacious.
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In this case, you can only say that you can't force it, except waiting, you have no other way, you can only wait for him to persuade his parents, during this time, don't force him too tightly, don't ask him where he is, don't always call him **, you do your own thing, have nothing to do Find a few colleagues, sisters, go out shopping or something, find a few more people to talk to, it is recommended that you make it clear to him, say that you let him be free during this time, let him persuade his parents, let him do what he likes, and then through some small channels, Understand it, but just ask, the key is to see if he betrays again, the most important thing is to give yourself a time, a month, three months, half a year, or longer, and wait for his reply, if his parents still disagree, then let it go, because either he did not persuade, or the persuasion was unsuccessful, what these two results mean to you I believe you also understand, if his parents agree, then everything will be fine...
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Please, sister, don't be naïve, does he have feelings for you? What do you say shows his affection for you? It's normal to make trouble for three to five days, but you've been making trouble for more than two months.
You say he can have time for other things, but he has very little time for you, what kind of emotion is this? And he betrayed, and he also decided to give up, and it was you who kept it. You think he didn't give up, he actually gave up in his heart, but he didn't want to do it so desperately.
If he really wants to love you, when he betrays and wants to give up, he will beg you not to give up, and he will not take the initiative to give up at all. Originally, the feelings were persuaded but not discouraged, but from what you said, it can be seen that he no longer loves you, and has begun to feel that loving you is a burden, so why do you hold on tightly. Let it go, and fulfill him and fulfill yourself.
If you want to marry him, you think about it, marry someone who doesn't love you, can you accept such a life? Married, he spends all day drinking outside, no matter whether you live or die, you are like a resentful woman crying and wiping tears all day long, do you want the rest of your life to be like this? Don't ruin the rest of your life because of your reluctance now.
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Humility can be exchanged for a man's stay, but humility cannot be exchanged for future happiness. At this point, I can only use shock **, take the initiative to break up with him, wait for him for a while, if you turn back, everything will start again, if you don't go back, disperse, I already have two friends who divorced because of this
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The upstairs is good, so good. . . But now the question is not whether to love or not, but whether there is an effective and fast way. I think the landlord will get married as soon as possible, and if the marriage is not successful, it will be pulled down.
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The problem is with his parents, you just need to focus on his mother.
1. The other party doesn't trust you 2. Both parties feel that the other party is very annoying and have no personal space of their own, at this time both parties need to understand each other and give each other time, otherwise they will break up (what our psychology teacher said).
There is a problem, it is big. You better divide it.
Give him some space, text every day, every day online chat is interesting to you, but it's really a little annoying enough for him to go on like this in the long run,
Let the time tell!
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