How to turn a pair of rivals back into good friends

Guo Ziyi and Li Guangbi united against the enemy.

During the reign of Xuanzong of the Tang Dynasty, Guo Ziyi and Li Guangbi were both subordinate generals of Shuofang Jiedu envoy An Sishun. There are contradictions between the two, and they usually don't talk to each other. Later, An Lushan rebelled, and Guo Ziyi was promoted to the envoy of Shuofang Jiedu and commanded the army to resist.

Li Guangbi became Guo Ziyi's general. The emperor ordered Guo Ziyi to lead his troops on the expedition, and Li Guangbi was worried that Guo Ziyi would use his power to seek revenge. Li Guangbi said to Guo Ziyi

I offended you in the past, it was mine or not, no matter what I was done in the future, I have no complaints, I just hope to raise my noble hand and let my wife and children ......Without waiting for Li Guangbi to finish speaking, Guo Ziyi hugged Li Guangbi tightly, and said with tears in her eyes: "The country is in danger, the people are suffering, we need to work together, and we need talents like you right now, at this time, how can you care about personal grievances?" Since then, Guo Li has worked together with the generals and commanders to quell the Anshi rebellion, and has made outstanding achievements.

Wheeler was close to Liebig.

Both Wühler and Liebig were prominent German chemists of the 19th century. The personalities of the two of them are very different, Liebig is intense, hearty, and hot, like a fire; Ville is peaceful, calm, and quiet, like a basin of cold water. But the two have a good relationship and are intimate.

They work closely together and are committed to scientific research. They have made contributions to inorganic chemistry and organic chemistry and are the founders of organic chemistry. Liebig wrote in his autobiography:

My best luck is to have a like-minded friend. Over the years, I have worked with this friend in good faith and without any barriers......Hand in hand, hand in hand, the one is ready, the other is ready. "Thanks to the sincere cooperation between the two people, they have created brilliant scientific research.

Guo Ziyi and Li Guangbi can be said to be mortal enemies.

Didn't you listen to it yourself and ask others what they were doing?

It may be a combination of unity and friendliness, and a lot of strength!! Or is it a finger story!!

There are so many stories!! Three monks fetch water??? It's too cumbersome!!

It's strange what your purpose is in asking this question. Besides, there are so many stories on this topic that who would have guessed.

Summary. Hello, it's a pleasure to serve you Four steps: manipulate emotions, admit shortcomings, praise opponents, and reflect valuesCalm down first to avoid entering confrontational emotions.

Then induce the other party to calm down as well. Establish effective communication. Then admit your own shortcomings, face is not important or even right or wrong, since the other party chooses to be your enemy, it means that he doesn't care what you think of him.

He wants to do it against you, too. But if you admit your own shortcomings first, you will let the other party let go of their antipathy towards you, and then praise the other party Don't feel embarrassed, people are very narcissistic, and if you dare to praise him, you dare to believe it.

How to turn a "sworn enemy" into a good friend.

Hello, it's a pleasure to serve you Four steps: manipulate emotions, admit shortcomings, praise opponents, and reflect valuesCalm down first to avoid entering confrontational emotions. Then induce the other party to calm down as well.

Establish an effective way of communication. Then admit your own shortcomings, face is not important or even right or wrong, since the other party chooses to be your enemy, it means that he doesn't care what you think of him. He wants to do it against you, too.

But Chi Nian is that if you admit your shortcomings first, you will let the other party let go of your antipathy for your Zao Chong, and then praise the other party Don't feel embarrassed, people are very narcissistic, you dare to praise him, dare to believe it.

If the emotional intelligence of relatives is high enough, after doing this series of operations, the other party is already unwilling to be your enemy, at this time, if you can reflect your value, you can turn the enemy into a friend of Hengchun. Don't think that showing value is giving money, giving money is the worst way. The best way is to be sincere, sincerely reflect your value, so that the other party can see the shining points in you, as well as the possibility of win-win cooperation in the future.

For example, let's say you plan a marketing plan in the company and your colleague humiliates him in public, saying: Do you understand marketing? Your plan is really rubbish, how did you get into our company?

At this time, many people may be annoyed and angry, and attack the other party's dereliction of duty at work, or even attack the other party's appearance and figure. not only defeated the character, but also made a mortal enemy.