A woman is divorced because she can t have children, what would you do if you were a man?

First of all, I personally feel that a marriage is not maintained because of childbirth, but contains various things, such as feelings, the same thoughts of both parties, and other concepts that can be combined to conclude a relationship. So, there's nothing wrong with being a Dink family.

Thinking from a male point of view, it is still necessary to comfort the family first, and the most important thing is to take care of the emotions of the wifeAfter all, when this kind of thing happens, the most uncomfortable thing is the wife, not to mention the mental pressure, and may be said by others.

If you feel sorry for your wife, then not being able to have children is really a blessing in disguise, after all, the wife can escape the pain of childbirth, and she doesn't have to feel the hard work of pregnancy in October, and she can not experience the rush of childbirth.

Of course, if you can't have children, you have to have a child is really easy to solve. It is possible to adopt one or twoFor them, even if they know that you are not their biological parents in the end, as long as they are given a warm home, provided them with certain material conditions, cultivated them, and let them receive a good education, as long as they do not grow crooked, they will be more grateful. After all, if you treat them as your own, they will repay them if they have a favor.

You must have your own child, or you can use medical meansArtificial insemination is completely OK. It can not only make the wife suffer less, but also have two biological children.

Personally, I think that for the problem of not being able to have children, the man should mainly consider the woman firstAs the pillar of the family, this is the attitude that should be had. As for children, there is really no need to be conservative, there are too many ways to solve this problem in modern times, it can only be said that the people around you are the most important, and everything else is a problem that can be solved.

If I were a man, I wouldn't have chosen to divorce, because what I like is her, and I love her with children, and it doesn't matter if I don't.

If you really love each other, then don't divorce, if you want a child, you can adopt, or artificial insemination, there are still many ways.

I'm not going to get divorced, it's not her fault that I can't have children, it's just that life is a joke with her, and if you give up on her, what about herself.

After all, it didn't happen to me, so I think I can accept it, but I think he must be under a lot of pressure.

Mainly because of the idea of inheritance, there are many men who want to have a child of their own after marriage, and when a woman can't have children, men will choose to divorce, which is actually normal.

That's because in men's minds, marrying a wife is for the sake of inheritance, and if a woman can't have children, it's equivalent to marrying a hen that doesn't lay eggs, so it's a very intolerable thing for men.

Because many men especially want to have their own children, but if their wives can't get pregnant, there is no way to pass on the lineage, and there are no children to support themselves.

Most people should choose marriage, marriage should choose their own task of continuing the next generation, they have formed such a traditional concept, if they are allowed to choose, no children, they may feel that they will regret it for life.

Legal analysis: If it is not illegal, but the woman cannot have children, and the man is divorced, the woman can file a claim for mental damages from the man; However, for the property acquired during the marriage, the husband and wife are generally divided equally, but the woman can also claim in the complaint that the husband should be required to divide more of the joint property of the husband and wife.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1076:Where both husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority. The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.

Article 1079:Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly initiate divorce proceedings in the people's court. People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted. In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person; (2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members; (3) Having gambling, drug abuse, or other vices that have been repeatedly taught; (4) Leakage due to emotional discord and separation for two years; (5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife. Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted. Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

Definitely shouldn't be divorced.

If you can't give birth, you should go to the hospital to have a good look, and take a good look at it, and your husband should also be by his wife's side at this time, and he shouldn't be divorced like this.

Recently, I watched a street interview on the Internet, and the host randomly interviewed people on the street: My wife can't have children, will you choose to divorce? Although many people are not.

Some say that because of love, they will not abandon the other half casually. Some say that they can adopt one and will not divorce easily. Some said that as long as the old man agreed, he could do it himself.

Some say that it's okay to do dink.

However, this is not the case with the living social reality that I see outside of the camera. It is no exaggeration to say that if the wife does not have children, 99% of men will choose to divorce. The reasons are very high-sounding, we have to pass on the ancestry!

There are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is great! No marriage is complete without children! I can't bear the pressure of the old man and the gossip of the people around me!

What I want to say is, what is the reason for the collapse? Many women are unable to have children because they are not caused by themselves at all (the kind of many times ** is not counted!). ）。

I didn't find out until I got married. And the doctor couldn't tell what the reason was. So what to do?

It's not my fault that I can't have children! If marriage is just easy to procreate, the purpose is to pass on the ancestry. You can just find a random girl to mate with on the street.

Why did you swear an oath and coax women to go home and marry you sweetly? It's already the new century, and the meaning of a woman's existence in this marriage is still just a tool for reproduction, is this one? If it is the other way around, if a man can't have children, I think many men will ask Liangyu women to accept this reality, face and solve it together, instead of unilaterally asking for divorce and changing it!!

Have men ever thought that if you can't face this problem with your love vertical key round person, but decisively abandon her, then how bumpy her life will be in the future, you know? Carrying the burden of not being able to have children, will she be able to have a happy life in the future?

Not being able to have children is a painful blow to women, and most men are also difficult to accept, even at the beginning, men will say that they don't care, but after a long time, they will inevitably be shaken and succumb to reality, who doesn't want to have a lovely child always by his side, listen to him call his parents for the first time, watch him stagger, send him to school and study, and wait for the continuation of life? However, children are an important part of marriage, but not all, in different choices, witness the light and darkness of human nature, grateful to those who do not abandon and rely on each other's lovers, but also understand those who can't help themselves, and resolutely give up the passers-by. Everything is an experience, a trip to the world, I hope everyone can be kind to the lover around you.

1. First of all, oppose the idea of divorce if you marry a woman who can't have children. A woman's inability to have children is a problem with other physiological tissues of the body, not her subjective cause.

2. Since marrying her has proved that there is an emotional foundation between you, you can't divorce just because she can't have children, this practice is called abandonment, and abandoning her also throws away your moral conscience.

3. It is understandable that you want your child to be in a good mood, and there are other ways for you to choose, such as IVF and adoption.

4. Let's talk about your second question, not being able to have children does not necessarily mean that you will take care of them for a lifetime, people only need to be taken care of when they are old and sick, how can they need to be taken care of when they are young, do men need to be taken care of for a lifetime if they don't have children? Obviously, the question of Wuqing is a false proposition.

5. Therefore, it is not in favor of divorce because a woman cannot have children, and even add the burden of taking care of her for a lifetime.

Ken Handan must not be, but in fact, he can't control it.

Don't complain about these things, don't be reluctant, if you really can't be together, it's a fate, don't be reluctant. Circle empty.

There are no clear rules for this kind of thing, but if the man wants to have children, then the grinder town can choose to divorce, and it can't be said who is right and who is wrong, of course, if the two people don't mind, then they can live together blindly, which requires both parties to be willing to be old!