I m confused, I don t know if I should continue with him. Everybody help me

The problem is that first of all, long-distance relationships, not being together affects the relationship very much. Second, your parents are also very likely to oppose him because of his work. First question:

You'd better be together and let him come to you, because you're studying, you can't change, and he's relatively free to learn haircuts. The second question: the problem of work, in fact, is the problem of money, if his family conditions are good, can help him set up a business with you, pay a down payment for the house or something, then you can consider together, learning to barber is nothing, the key is to be able to support the family, right.

If you really can't do it, break up, because if you go on, you will get married and start a family, how can you start a family if you are not in a city, and how can you go on if your family can't afford it?

If you don't agree, break up, and don't get into trouble with your family.

There are things you like that will not belong to you, and there are things that you are destined to give up no matter how nostalgic you are, love is a song in life that can never be sung. People may experience many kinds of love in their lives, but don't let love become a hurt. There is fate everywhere in life, and fate seems to be fateful; Some fates are destined to be lost at the beginning, and some fates will never end well; But I longed for a miracle.

To love someone you don't have to have, but to have someone you have to love him well. It's easy to say, but it's really hard when you do it, so don't believe you. If sincerity is a hurt, choose a lie; If a lie is a harm, choose silence; If silence is a disservice, choose to leave.

If love is a hurt, don't come close. But in many cases this is not the case, because you can't help but choose.

Why? Nothing is impossible. Everything is done by men.

You don't know what you're talking about. At least make it clear why we can't be together...

Why, tell me why, we'll help you.

The heartache can't be together, and it will fade after a long time.

If you're tired, there's no way to do it. Divide.

If she doesn't say anything about this kind of thing, "yes" you, then there's no way to do it. Divide.

If you don't continue with him, are you going to find a ready-made rich handsome? How sure are you?

Maybe my views are more outdated, I think that choosing a future partner depends on his character on the one hand, whether you love him, and on the other hand, whether he is a potential stock and how much room for future development there is. Your boyfriend graduated from Chongqing University, which is very good, although the job is not high, if he is willing to work hard, the salary will slowly rise. The house is very important, but will you spend your life with a person who has a house and no love?

Think about it and do your parent's job. It is unrealistic to expect to have a lot soon after graduation, everyone is working hard and facing the pressure of life, but as long as there is love, accumulation, confidence and willingness to pay, it will be a new situation in a few years. Think again.

Let go, a woman's youth can't wait.

It's not that your condition is not suitable for falling in love, because everyone has their own vision of love in their hearts, you hope that he can give you more care, more love, this is very normal, he is obliged to give you love and care as your boyfriend, not to mention that he is three years older than you, it is said that three years old is a generation gap, but in fact, such a man is very reliable, but do you really know him? If he really just can't express his love, then it's easy to do, if there are others, it's hard to say, it's a habit to be alone with a person for a long time, I think you better talk about it, I feel that you still love him, you hope he can be better to you.

Personally, I don't think it's suitable for you to go any further, you already have so many problems when you are in a relationship, and there will be more problems in your married life......For example, the influence of the two families, your marriage is not a matter of two people, but also the influence of family and factors, and you also said that you have no common language, and your life in the future is likely to quarrel over small things such as what color sheets to buy......So your obstacles are too great, and you ......

I feel that the end of a relationship is bound to hurt both parties, so it's almost impossible to break up without hurting each other, unless you haven't been seriously involved in ......And cut through the mess quickly, if you want to do the least damage, it depends on your determination.

Personal humble opinion, I hope it can help you ......

If you ask this question, it means that there is a crack in your heart. It is said that it is a bystander, but in fact, you still need to think about it. Confess to him and be brave enough to speak your mind. Gives you two options:

a. If it's just because of the idea of "but how rare a relationship is, and I am reluctant to give up, I want to cherish it", I advise you to break up with him. Find another person who loves you and you love him. As for how to tell him, you have to speak your heart, don't panic, go calm, for yourself, just talk about your thoughts.

b. You may lack understanding of each other, to find out that he is good, your love can be better.

Be careful not to make a decision on the spur of the moment that causes you to regret it. Of course, this is just my personal opinion, you need to think for yourself and grasp your love.

You are a student of the police academy, then you will definitely return to your place of origin after graduation and join the ranks of the police, and then you will be farther away, and he will avoid your questions, which means that he has a ghost in his heart, even if he is busy, he will also fight **. Since he forgot to call you for something, your relationship will fade slowly. There is no need to say it, each other understands.

Slowly, slowly...

I think it's better to break up, I'm a person who just came out of school, and it's because I'm so good in school that I have so much time to be sad and sad, or when you go out of society, you feel that the idea of college is very simple and unrealistic. And I don't think the emotional foundation of the two of you is very good, you can say whatever you want, the long pain is better than the short pain!

From your words, in fact, you already have the answer in your heart, but it is difficult to put it into practice, and you feel that leaving him will hurt him. You don't have the feeling of love at first sight anymore. It could be time, distance, or something else.

When it comes to breaking up, I think honesty is the most important thing, you can tell him, try to be separated for a while, maybe, all of a sudden, without him, you will miss it a lot, if you really don't feel it anymore, then tell him honestly.

Being young is a kind of capital, but it is not for you to get lost in the whirlpool of love, sometimes it is not a good thing to be honest with each other, on the road of love, as long as you do not go to the palace of marriage, breaking up is inevitable, if you really don't love, it may be the best to let go quietly, so that no one will be hurt!

There is a distance between you, not just in space and time, but also in heart. The fact that you don't talk to each other is problematic in itself and means that you don't have a common topic. From the beginning to the present, it shows that your feelings are fading, and you are also in conflict, indicating that you are not suitable.

A long-distance relationship is not a good thing in itself.

I think it's better for you to break up, and the way is to be silent and drift away.

You're still a student, you haven't gone out into society, you don't have social experience, it's a matter of time before you break it.

Long-distance relationships only make each other suffer, once I also liked such a person, we were not very far apart, but we didn't work in the same place, there was a day when four or five of us made an appointment to have dinner together one day, and it was that day. He said that there was something, I believed, because I also knew that his work was really not up to people, but when I went to the hotel with a few other people, I saw him with three or four girls, which made me embarrassed, we are still the kind of talk, every day, there is talk and laughter are like this, so I ask if you can't talk about it can be maintained?

Since you give the choice of breaking up or not breaking up, then you already have the intention of breaking up, but because you don't know how to have a showdown with the other party, the breakup should be clean and neat, clean water can't do it, neat is definitely necessary, don't be slimy ·

Do you love him? Ask your heart and don't rush.

I fell in love with a man who was 5 years older than me. Really love. Even if I knew he was lying to me, I would.

If he's willing to lie, I hope he'll lie to me for the rest of his life. But he didn't. Left.

He's been gone for a long time. I'm still alone, and I'm not going to be favored by everyone. I feel calm inside, and I feel like I've let go.

However, it is impossible to start a new relationship.

A man who loves you very much will always put you first. Won't forget the things that have to do with you. Don't say forget to hit **.

However, how many people are married because of love these days? Perhaps, he doesn't love you that much. However, if you feel that you are suitable for each other and can continue to date, you are the object of marriage.

Give it up! Love on campus is often green, just to make people have a good memory. You come out to work, and you will find a good partner.

What do you want? He can no longer give! This has been made clear;

Now the question is just that are you sure this is what you want?

The reason for breaking up, just to complete the task every day, the key is that there is nothing to say, do you still need a reason?

Sometimes going with the flow means being natural.

Then give up, in fact, you don't love each other, you just want to find a spiritual comfort! Now that you are in two places, you might as well disperse like this! Avoid the worries of the future.

Let it be, time will tell.

If you love, you love, if you don't love, you don't love, go by feeling, thinking so much will only make you more tired.

Over time, it's over, find a man who belongs to you.

It's better to divide it, if you always fall in love, you won't be worth much.

It's okay to break up because you don't love each other anymore.

There is no such thing as a breakup, it feels like you have little contact, and over time, it will naturally not be resolved.

If two people's values and worldviews are not the same, it is difficult to come together, and they will not be very happy, I suggest that you break up, your environment is very different, I am also a university like you, and I don't know much about people who have worked in society, you still have to wait for graduation to talk about it, so you can find one in a down-to-earth manner, and you will be very happy in the future.

Either break up, the reality can help each other but can also contradict each other. I hope you can correctly determine your own concept, if you have been devoted to him, but he can't trust you very much, it means that it is his own problem, two people.

In fact, it's normal to quarrel How can there be a time when the upper lip doesn't touch the lower lip But you can't quarrel often After all, quarreling hurts feelings Hehe Just look at the way you deal with it after a quarrel I feel that 2 people are irrational when they quarrel So sometimes say something stinging But after the quarrel When you calm down, you have to talk about it and tell everyone what is wrong Let everyone understand Try not to make the mistake of the two people in the future and remember not to sting other people's hearts in the future Because 1 time or 2 times will forgive you, but too much will make him feel that you don't respect him A man's self-esteem is very strong, and he always talks about things on the facts, don't always talk about the past and the present.

Dependence and habit are not love

Love is wholehearted tolerance.

He ignores you after a fight.

Maybe it's deliberately punishing you for what you've done before.

The human heart is hard to guess.

If two people are together, they always torture each other.

So what's the point of being together?

There is a lack of minimum trust and communication between you.

It's not a good choice to let go.

I wish you happiness.

You can think calmly, do you love him very much, if not, just let it go, and you will regret it now reluctantly!!

I would advise against continuing any further.

Judging by his attitude, if he thinks you are dispensable and doesn't care much, then it's better to divide it early.

If he cares about you very much, he will do everything he can to get his family to agree, and there will be no obstacle for you to be together.

Love is not easy to come by, please don't give up easily, the main landlord is happy!

If you feel that there is no result, let it go as soon as possible, otherwise it will be more painful in the future, I hope you think about it carefully, and if you still have any questions, you can ask me as needed.

Stupid! Flowers will eventually wither, should they choose not to bloom in the first place? Thinking that they would be separated, should they choose to give up in the first place?

Love allows us to harvest growth (that is, all kinds of bitter and sweet), harvest joy and happiness, since you are so good together, why do you want to break you apart? It's all first love, and this kind of psychology is normal. But you must cherish that precious first love, which is the most beautiful flower that blooms in life Don't destroy her easily, love him well, don't think so much, I hope he loves you well!

Bless you all!

Why is he quarrelling, what kind of person is he, is he really arguing every time, there is garbage in college students, and it doesn't matter if he has good family conditions, is he very extreme, he will not let go in this life, do you know the meaning of this sentence, can he really do it, can he never meet better than you.

Why is it like this to you, from the language of your question, I feel that you still ask for reasonable advice, let it go, you can also see that what he said will not let go of love in this life is selfish, its highest level is nothing more than giving up and dedication, what did he give you, quarrel, and that sentence??? I'm not married yet, but I have all these gains, think about it.

Even if you follow him, you won't be happy, because he is too substandard, saying such things, and every time he quarrels, tell him, what I said, he went to college in vain.

I don't really help people get notice, I just give some advice and let them think about it, you know, it's better for you to let it go.

Really not suitable, forget about him.

I wish you to find your own feelings as soon as possible.