Why do self deprecating people gain favor from others?

Self-deprecation is a kind of thinking ability to look at things from a different angle, and a thing full of regrets from an ordinary point of view, said in a playful way, is full of high joy. To complete this transition, it is important to have a truly confident heart and a pair of eyes that are good at discovering beauty.

Why do we all like self-deprecating people now, because self-deprecation is a very good interpersonal interaction, self-deprecation in a more fun, ridiculous way, which can not only improve one's bad mood, but also bring a lot of joy to others. Killing two birds with one stone, coupled with the fact that network technology is so developed now, this way of life has emerged. Self-deprecation, based on self-confidence and self-knowledge, is definitely a technical job.

Self-deprecation can be used to deal with ridicule from others, and if you mock yourself first, you may be able to get some sympathy points, such as hearing comfort from others; can make you a good person, do not hesitate to say your shortcomings, appear frank, atmospheric, and make people feel so close; People are floating in the rivers and lakes, how can you not be stabbed, and self-deprecation can allow you to avoid interpersonal embarrassment in advance.

Self-deprecation is a very good way to socialize, but mocking others is not, and blindly mocking will turn into a poisonous tongue, and it will become someone in our lives who may or may not be annoying. At this time, we may choose to look at this mockery and the person who mocks it rationally, because we are all defending what we think is "right", and mockery can bring "right" closer to pure right, but only if we are willing to accept this mockery.

He likes to laugh at himself, because he is extremely strong inside, because he can create a scapegoat in his heart to take all the filth, and thus have an opponent to attack.

We must have received ridicule from others in life, no matter which aspect, which age, some people choose to laugh when ridiculed, but some people are small-minded, and will choose to fight back against others and even make some out-of-the-ordinary moves, but there is a very high level of self-mocking of their own shortcomings, this kind of people often have a lot of friends, why is this?

The singer woke up when he was on the "Tucao Conference" and complained that he was cheap, which caused warm applause from the audience, this is a kind of self-deprecation, compared with his peak, he has indeed dropped a lot now, but he completely accepts his current situation, and the psychological gap does not make him mind, but it has become a joke for himself to please others, which shows that he must be a broad-minded person, on the other hand, some people, because they are lower than the peak, they can't look directly at their own present, so they can only sink more and more, I think that's why Awakening's career is improving now.

If a person can laugh at himself and use his own jokes to make others happy, then he will not mind that others make fun of himself, even if others say the wrong thing, he just laughs at it, this kind of character is the most likable, you think, are you willing to be friends with a broad-minded, like to joke and joke people, or are you willing to be friends with a narrow-minded, usually a little little bit of trivial things and turn your face with people? I think a normal person would choose the former.

Summary: I think there is a problem with the title taken by the landlord, the landlord means that a self-deprecating person is easy to get the favor of others, but the reason for self-deprecation is because this person is broad-minded, so self-deprecation is not the reason, but the result, a person is broad-minded, knows how to laugh at himself, and he has won the love of others.