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First of all, love each other. If you don't love each other, it's useless to have gold and silver. When a person is basically satisfied materially, he will pay more attention to his spiritual feelings.

Secondly, there is a certain economic foundation, after all, if you want to live, a person's basic material needs still have to be considered.

So the conclusion is, since you love each other, that's fine, keep going. Next, you have to work hard and earn your own bread!

ps: The problem of rural areas is not very big, and if you have good living habits, there is no problem at all.

As for the children of cadres, I personally recommend not, because people with too superior family environment will have a lot of bad habits. A good family background proves that the boy's parents have the ability, but it does not mean that the boy himself has the ability.

In the case of bread, of course love is important. Without bread, it is impossible to talk about love, and in the end, the bread is not big, as long as it is enough to eat, love is sweet enough. So think about it, as long as the boy is self-motivated, the current economic problems don't matter at all.

Listen to your parents. After getting married, a lot of problems will be exposed. Family backgrounds are different, and they have different perspectives on things and problems. There are many differences in lifestyle and other aspects.

You are married to a man, not money, material things can be created, and it is best to have real materials.

Choose a person who loves each other to go to Baitou together, even if it is coarse tea and light rice, it is fragrant.

The shoes you wear on your feet only know if they fit or not.

If the family background is good, and he himself has no ability to live only on his parents' money. It's not a good boy like that! So your own feelings are the most important thing. If he is a self-motivated boy, I think you should cherish it!

Choose a man who is genuinely good to you, the one you feel you can trust and trust for life...

Think about it, you may regret it if you lose it, now he has no money, not necessarily no money in the future, now he has no status, it doesn't mean that he will always be like this in the future, looking for a man to find someone who can earn money in the future, not his own family has money, and his vision is far away.

A little advice.

Find a man you can rely on and like you.

Family conditions are too important My family's conditions are quite good, consider me supplied.

The point is to be nice to you, very rich, to abuse you, are you willing?

What is good is not necessarily suitable, what is suitable must be good.

Family is important.

But true love is more important.

See what you really need?

Meet the right person at the right time. What you say is secondary. Find someone who is genuinely good to you. Even if you are poor. Work together in the future. The two of them work together to create a better life.

Contemptible looks. Both are important for appearance and height. What's more, you don't like it. Your family introduced you to me, and I don't want to give it to me for free. However, the most important thing is love. You're going to ignore everything else.

I think it's better to be realistic, because we live in real life, and I choose to have a good family, not a particularly good one. It would be much easier to live that way, and you would be able to afford the next generation.

Appearance, height, is appearance, family conditions are also external, in fact, whether you are good or not is the most important, it seems that now the society is the most pursuing family conditions, you like the best, my point of view is how important he is to you.

Don't push yourself or it will be painful after marriage.

A man should have a minimum of 165 or more, and his appearance is average, the main thing is that he loves you, and he is convenient and considerate at work! Filial piety, kindness! Can a handsome one be eaten as a meal?

Why don't you find a little white face in Korea! As long as you look passable, the main thing is that he loves you and has strong ability to live and work!

The material is the foundation, and the spirit is the deep level. If there is no foundation, it is difficult to have spiritual love, and poor couples mourn everything.

But with the foundation, there is no way to dislike it. So it's better to find one you like, after all, as long as this society is not lazy, you can basically live...

Find someone who loves each other ... Good external conditions do not mean that you will be happy.

It's better not to be together if you don't like it, because for a person you don't like, we can't find the advantages of him at all, but the result is just more and more unpleasant, and in the end you will definitely break up.

The most important thing is that you like it. No matter how rich you are, as long as it's not what you like, you don't want it.

Character is the most important, and we will live together for many years in the future, so temperament and character are the most important.

...It's all important, and the most important thing is ability and sincerity.

The first thing to do is to say it yourself or what your parents say, and whether your husband is sovereign.

The second is to have the economy or to the people, if you want both, unless you're in good condition.

Thirdly, do you think you are mature now, are you suitable for marriage, and when you are older, you understand some things.

So the appearance is generally pleasing to the eye.

Character first, the economy should also be moderately considered!

It is best to have good character and money. There is too much pressure on society right now. It's really hard to have no money.

Of course, choose character, rich may not make you happy.

If you can have the best of both, if not, character is still important.

Why do people get married? It's for love. We live to make ourselves happy and to make those around us happy.

We got married to make this love complete and full. Legend has it that women are the lost ribs of men, men and women fight from birth, only half of life, we have been looking for our lover, looking for our own other half. In the vast sea of people, only when we find our other half can we have a complete life, and we can make life abundant and happy.

So we keep searching, bravely fall in love, wrong, hurt, and then despair, lost, because we have not found our true love, because true love is hard to find. In this life, you may meet several lovers, or you may have only one. You may be with your lover forever until the day you die of old age; It may also be that happiness is like a flash in the pan, happiness or sorrow, both love and marriage.

In fact, many people misunderstand the true meaning of marriage, especially some young ignorant teenagers Marriage should be the ultimate witness of true love, it is sacred and solemn, some people may mistakenly think that marriage is a shackle that can tie two people together, or some people think that there is a home Although marriage is essentially just a formality, it must have a very profound meaning No matter what, it should come naturally, regardless of the reason. Let everything that should happen happen, and follow the trend, without force or deliberateness. I like this sentence very much:

Let's get married, it's idle anyway, it's really boring to fight, so as not to be lonely.

Those who say that they choose what is good for themselves are stupid pigs.

It should be said that marriage requires love and money and both are indispensable.

If a man who can't even support himself is good to you.

Will you marry him? Unless you've got water in your head. As the saying goes: poor couples mourn everything!

Besides, it is not so easy to turn over and make money and completely improve your living conditions in these years, so you should consider both aspects, both economic conditions and his feelings for you.

All these conditions must be balanced.

Both conditions are lowered for the sake of ease of achievement.

The economic conditions should be good, but don't force too good.

It's good to you, but it doesn't have to revolve around you.

Of course, it's good for yourself, you don't want to share your husband with others after getting married.

I think you should choose what is good for you, and the conditions can be changed.

Of course, the first consideration is to be good for yourself, and the economic conditions can be slowly improved!

Choose a family with good conditions, and feelings can be cultivated slowly.

Choose the right one, and it is likely that there will be conflicts in the future because of material life, and no matter how good the relationship is, it will become weaker.

are all important, but if you have to divide a 123, family is more important than friends.

Family is important, and friends should be affectionate and righteous.

You have to find someone who can be good to you, if you are not good for you, the conditions are good and in vain, no matter how much money you have, you can't spend it on you, and there are good people who are more self-centered, you can only serve him, it is impossible for him to take care of you, men don't take care of people, and the good ones are more narcissistic and more difficult to take care of people. Women, it's better to find someone who really feels sorry for herself, otherwise this day will not be easy, it will be a day by day.

If you have to choose one of these two, then choose the one with good conditions, since you said that they are all good to you, then you still need to find a better hardware, and you can't eat it if you grow well, and you can't avoid anything if you live a penny less, and you can't hide from any firewood, rice, oil, and salt every day. In the future, it will be a bottomless pit if there are children.

As far as these two are concerned, it is better to choose the one with good conditions, which is affordable and safe.

Growing well is not safe for future life.

Of course, if you love each other, you can look average, you have to choose a husband who is average, the handsome one can only be a boyfriend, and the handsome and family conditions are definitely more than the conditions, because the conditions will make each other's feelings stronger.

Looks, personality, abilities, conditions.

The most important thing is to be wholeheartedly good to you.

The best ones are, of course, good-looking and wealthy families. But that's an extravagant hope, and everyone wants it. I think if you want to really live a life, it's better to find a better home with better conditions.

If you're okay, you can find someone who looks good, because then you'll have a glow on your face.

That's it?? Two choices?? Of course, it's a condition! No matter how good-looking people are, there are times when they are aesthetically fatigued

Hello kiss, this choice is a bit difficult, and a little irresponsible, one side is a lover, and the other is a biological father. Such a choice is equivalent to, whether the daughter-in-law is important or the mother is important to face such a choice, you can only choose the father, because he gave you life, you will come to this world If the lover is the beloved, he will not let you face such a problem and be in a dilemma.

It's all important, your father accompanies you for the first half of your life, and your husband accompanies you for the second half of your life.