My fianc s family is in good condition, and I come from an ordinary family, can I last long?

In fact, I am not in favor of this issue, because the gap between the family conditions of the two parties is too large.

Because if the family conditions of the two parties are very different, there will be a big gap between the two people's worldview and outlook on life, as well as various lifestyle habits, and there will be a lot of contradictions after living together in the future, which is one of the problems I am worried about.

There is another one, it is said that it is more difficult to marry into a wealthy family, not to mention that you are a person from an ordinary family, after you marry into their family, what will their parents think of you? And will you have a place in their family? These are all related to your happiness in the rest of your life, so you have to think about it.

Maybe after marrying your fiancé, you are financially satisfied, and you can have a lot of things that others can't get, but what, in your spirit, in your feelings, in your state of life, are you satisfied with your situation? Well, it's not so easy to be a wealthy wife, can you bear to live a life of low voice and no status in their family? If you think you can, as long as you have money, you can do anything, then no problem, I'm sure you two can last a long time.

However, if you feel that you are not a person who can swallow your anger, and you can't swallow your anger for a lifetime, I suggest you still think about it, because after all, the two of you are in love with each other now, but after you get married, there will be a lot of post-marital problems, and you can't guarantee that he will love you so much for the rest of his life, because in the end, love will become family affection, so I think it would be better to think a little more before getting married.

Moreover, it is very important to advise you that after you get married, no matter how good your fiancé is at making money, you must not lose your job, your career, no matter what, you have to go to work, and you would rather ask your aunt to take care of the children at home than you do it yourself and quit your job to take care of the children. In this way, your family status will be lower, and your life circle will be smaller, and you will become a useless housewife in the future. This can make your situation very bad, so remember it.

In the real world, some families will pay special attention to the right person. And we have seen many examples of people who are not in the right household and get married, so we will be deeply inspired. In normal times, there is often a saying that a sparrow flies on a branch as a phoenix, which is the most typical description of the example of the door not being the right household.

When you and your boyfriend are about to get married, but the man's parents disagree with you because of your family situation, and even put pressure on the two of you through various methods, and some parents will even buy off the relationship between the two people by using money. The female protagonist and the second male protagonist of a TV series "Fox's Summer" that I watched in the past two days are such an example. The grandmother of the second male wanted to send the female protagonist away with money because she disliked the heroine's life experience, but the female protagonist did not accept it and left the second male decisively, but was misunderstood by the second male since then.

It was once possible to prove how important it is for some wealthy families to be in the right place. Of course, there are also some men whose families are relatively wealthy, but their parents will accept you as a child from an ordinary family, because his mothers value your personality, conduct, and true love for their son.

So, when your fiancé's family is relatively advantageous, and your family is relatively ordinary, the only thing you can defeat the other person is yourself. If the other party's mother is a sensible mother, and you are a hard-working, enterprising, and strong girl. Then, you are a rich person in thought, and his mother will really understand you as a person, and know that you are not a powerful girl.

Then if you marry later, your life will be very happy, and your parents-in-law will respect you and love you.

Yes, you have to believe in love, don't think about these inconsequential things all day long, as long as he loves you and you love him, it will be for a long time.

Your family background is different, and the ideas you accept will be very different, and you are usually a little uncomfortable getting along, so it makes sense to say this, but I personally think that you can have a happy life and tolerate each other, then you can still be together.

Although I think the right match is the longest, but I think love can surpass everything, if the two of you really love each other very deeply, then you can try to be together, the family factor is not absolute, everyone's situation is different, you can try to get along.

As long as the two are in love, no one will care about these things outside the body, and they should not feel inferior because they come from an ordinary family.

I think whether you are the right person or not is not a condition that restricts your love, as long as the two of you love each other and know how to tolerate each other, it will be good.

It is said that marriage is free, love is free. When you are not married, you are all an independent individual, and if you get a marriage certificate, we are a husband and wife who must stay together.

One. If you are in free love, from the time you choose him, he is the condition. Then if we don't accept it now, he will let it go sooner, and there will be no chance before getting married. It's as simple as returning someone's bride price.

Two. Material is the difference in living conditions that two people must have after they get married. Maybe he is not in a good condition now, but he himself has a positive and enthusiastic attitude towards work.

And he also has an entrepreneurial mind. Through his efforts, he now has a little savings of his own, or has a certain amount of connections. Then we will suffer a little with him now, and the two of us will celebrate the potato fight together, which can also change the current life.

Three. If it is an arranged marriage in the family. The bride price has passed, and what you don't like thinks he is not in good condition.

Naturally, you can choose to let go and return the color oak gift to others. He doesn't have a good family, and that's how you know him from the beginning. If you pick someone now, you will prove that you have met someone better than him.

But marriage is free. As long as you are not registered, you are an individual. You can separate at any time, and pay back what you owe to others, it's as simple as that.

Same as I thought, so be it!

Don't care too much about family conditions, the main thing is to see whether the person is good or not, whether you love you or not. As long as the two are destined and suitable to be together, they must be brave enough to get married!

Marriage is a matter between the two of you, if you have enough emotional foundation, you can rely on your own efforts to create good conditions, you can't be the rich second generation, you can make yourself a key circle to return to the rich generation of manuscripts.

I believe that your wishful thinking is your greatest potential stock, and I believe that the conditions are created by people, and Ma Yun's economic conditions were not good back then.

Although marriage is a matter of two people, a marriage that is very macro and laughing is not a matter of just two people, it involves many factors, so there are many factors that affect marriage, marriage involves the families of both parties, so family conditions have the greatest impact on marriage.

1.Everyone's family has a different way of life, will develop different living habits, marriage is the same, is two people in different regions and different lifestyles love each other, will also face different family living conditions, so different family conditions on marriage is still quite a big impact.

2.Although the lifestyle of different family conditions is different, the way of life can still be slowly adapted, but the ideological concepts of different family conditions are not the same, and the change of ideological concepts is more difficult.

3.As the saying goes, "the door is right", it means that the family conditions should be matched, and the marriage that is not the right door will be affected after all, not only the different lifestyles and family concepts, but even some families with a large gap between the rich and the poor also have a certain impact on the marriage, so the impact of family conditions on love is relatively large.

The mismatch of family conditions has some inextricable impact on marriage, and it may not be possible to communicate effectively and affect the feelings of two people, but not all marriages can be done well, and it is necessary to learn how to resolve the emotional crisis caused by family conditions.

Marriage is the result of the development of two people's relationship, and since they want to become husband and wife, both parties should treat each other's parents as their own parents. Do you hate your parents for being old and sick? Respect for the elderly is our traditional virtue, and we should not mind it either morally or in the future.

Morality does not need to be explained, and your attitude towards the man's parents will also be reflected in your parents from the man's point of view. At the same time, even if the man doesn't show it now, it will leave hidden dangers in the rest of his life. If a man is looking for a partner, he should not care about the woman's work income and family conditions, because it is the man who supports the family.

The woman's family conditions and income are negligible, as long as she is not so poor that it will not put me under great pressure and will not greatly affect her married life. On the other hand, if a woman is looking for a partner, the target's family conditions and the other party's job and salary will have to be considered. Because if the family conditions are not good and the other party's income is not high, going there to live will affect the quality of life and will not be used to it; If the income is not high, in addition to having an impact on their own lives, it will also have an impact on their children's education.

So I will still consider the potato rush game. Of course, it also varies from person to person, if there are men who are particularly good, they are very hard-working, self-motivated, and very good to women. belongs to the man who lives a life, and the woman likes him very much and loves him; The criteria for family conditions and income from work can be appropriately lowered.

If a man is looking for a wife, I think it is still not possible to consider family conditions and work income as a condition, but it is possible to consider her family situation and work attitude in the original unit as the content of understanding her; Is her family harmonious and what are her values? Her original work situation can also see her life.

Your family conditions are not good, it does not mean that you are not good, in fact, after you get married, it is completely up to your own efforts, if you have found someone you like, he is also willing to work with you to change your family, if you say that you work harder, hard-working, you will make the family very good, not in your home, the relationship between your parents lies in their own efforts to change, so that the family is getting better and better.

Family conditions are the most direct problems to be faced in marriage, although it is very materialistic, but it is really realistic, and life after marriage is so free of money? Best wishes!

The more people grow up, the more they know the value of family affection.

The more people grow up, the more attached they are to their families.

Lovers will leave, friendship will disappear, only family affection cannot be separated.

Home is always the warmest harbor and the ultimate destination for solo travelers. I clearly know that my parents are not big people in this world, they are ordinary ordinary people. So I don't have the right to waste the fruits of their labor, they don't owe us anything, and now they pay for us unconditionally.

It's just a kind of love supported by family affection. Their efforts, we can only understand this kind of hard work on the surface now, and we will not really understand it until one day, when we also become parents.

To be honest, I actually think I'm very happy now, not funded by money, fame and fortune, but a kind of selfless love given to me by my parents.

Mom is a beauty, don't hurt her over the years, Dad is a good person, don't hurt him in time.

I am not their pride, but they treat me like a treasure! I feel that time is too fast, I work too long, and I have very little time to spend with my family.

Think about it, since we got married, in addition to working hours every day, we have to go home after work, we also have to go out to eat, all kinds of entertainment. I didn't think about going back to my parents' house.

On weekends, I still want to go out and play, and I always want to go home to visit my parents.

That's why it dawned on me this year.

No matter how good your relationship with your friends and colleagues is, it can't match the kindness of your mother and siblings.

So, now every weekend, I go home to visit my parents.

It's just to go back and have a look, talk, and chat. It's a really good feeling. I feel so happy.

Before I got married, I valued love more, and I thought that as long as there was love, I would be very happy. But now that I've been married for seven years, if I were given another chance to choose, I probably wouldn't have chosen to marry a very poor man, because sometimes there is a shortage of money in marriage.

I was also a relatively high-minded person at the beginning, a love-only person, as long as there is love, it doesn't matter what money is or not, so I found a husband who I liked, but was very poor.

After getting married, I found out that it is difficult to drink water and be full when you are in love, you can't drink enough water, you still have to eat, you still have to eat meat, but it is too late to regret it. It costs money to eat, money to buy clothes, money to raise children, money to support the elderly, money to rent a house, and life after marriage basically needs money, but we only have love, no money, so our life has a situation where poor couples mourn everything.

I can't afford skin care products, because my children want to drink milk powder, I can't afford lipstick, because my children want to buy diapers, I can't afford clothes, because my children have to go to school, and after marrying a poor man, I often wear the clothes I wore before I got married, and I don't dare to go into the physical store to buy clothes now, because I am afraid of the disdainful eyes of the clerks.

We don't have a house, so the child was born in a rented house, we move a lot, so I don't have any friends, my child doesn't have friends, and now the child is going to school, but we don't have a place in a public kindergarten, and a lot of times no money can really drive you crazy.

So girls don't blindly believe that love will bring you happiness, sometimes you have to be realistic, if the boy you like has an uncertain future, then please choose to face reality.