My girlfriend and I are both 26 years old and are happy to be together and she doesn t want to marry

Updated on psychology 2024-06-02
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    She has her own reasons, as long as it's not because of the other one he doesn't get married, it doesn't matter, you love her and wait for her.

    Of course, if she doesn't deserve your love, or if she doesn't love you, give up on her.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Because getting married is a lifelong event.

    Don't be rash, it doesn't have much to do with age.

    I guess she's testing you.

    You have to work hard.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It may be that you haven't fully let him give himself to you enough reason, even if you want to get married, work hard, believe you!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You first have to see if she really loves you, and if you can't see it, you can take him to a counselor for a consultation.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Maybe people don't think very much of you.

    It is recommended that you take her to travel, the more pure and romantic the place, the better, just like the feeling of a honeymoon, where you can propose, 100% successful.

    Note: Money is not the most important thing.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Others are still testing whether you are worthy of her lifelong trust, so add more fuel!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You're still young, and you want to get married so early??

    Save a little more and maybe your girlfriend will marry you soon

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's a lot like me. Women are eager to have love and bread at the same time. This is the root of the problem. Explain that your conditions do not meet the bread needs she craves.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I pour! Brother, you are so happy! Find such a good wife!

    If you don't urge you to get married, you are in the midst of blessings and don't know how to be blessed.

    My girlfriend is urging me to get married.

    I feel like an old man.

    It's so stressful to get married, and I'm not as free as I used to be.

    Do you want to be in a cage so early?

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    This can't be rushed.

    Just take your time.

    Girls. I'm afraid that after getting married, it won't be beautiful.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's nothing, there are a lot of people like this, 26 is not too late! ~

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's just that it will be done later, and maybe she doesn't want to be that early now.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I used to want to get married, too! Now I feel that it was rash and irresponsible to myself.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You definitely have money.

    She doesn't like your money.

    I was one such victim.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Girlfriend 26 and I 25 She wants to get married in two years, but I don't want to, what should I do?

    When couples first get together, every day is sweet, and after being together for a long time, there will be more and more conflicts. What if my girlfriend is 26 and I am 25 and she wants to get married in two years, but I don't want to?

    The first point is not to turn over old accounts. In times of contradiction in the hall, it is always easy for people to lose their minds and remember a lot of bad things. You will only talk about the past and complain about each other's badness.

    The current thoughts are not articulated, which adds to the previous gratitude and resentment, and the scene often becomes chaotic in an instant. Between men and women, they always turn over old scores. For others, it will not solve the problem, but will only further exacerbate the conflict.

    The second point is to stay calm. Know how to express each other well. Focus only on current problems and solve current contradictions.

    You don't have to think about it that much. Tell the other person what you think directly and let the other person know what you think. Between two people, guessing always adds a lot of trouble.

    Straight up, it's always the most effective. No matter how good the relationship is and how consistent the personality is, there is always something that needs to be said so that the other person understands and understands.

    Third, the two sides should strengthen communication. Be too competitive. In order to harmonize each step back, communication is the basic method of solving various problems.

    When we believe that the three sources of view do not agree, we must communicate in a timely manner, clearly tell each other what we feel and need, and show each other that we can work together and not have to be on the same page all the time. When two people are together, they should learn to communicate more and find a better way to get along with each other.

    Fourth, empathy. No matter whose fault it is, don't blame the other person at will, this is tantamount to adding fuel to the fire. You should think differently and think about your mistakes, which will help you return to reason.

    Communication and communication can eliminate misunderstandings and estrangements between each other. It is normal for couples to have friction between them. Friction strengthens feelings even more.

    There must be good communication and protection of each other's feelings. Communicate with your girlfriend about getting married.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Faced with such a situation, you should give the other person and the other person's family an explanation. If you don't want to marry someone, don't waste their time.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think you can break up with the other person, because it is not conducive to the development of the relationship at all, and it is not conducive to the harmony of the relationship at all.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think you should explain the situation to her, and if it doesn't work, choose to break up, and you shouldn't delay her anymore.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    1.I'm 26 years old, what if I don't want to get married, am I abnormal?

    Normal, modern people are too stressed.

    If you get married, you have to have children, and you have to grind through the holes: women have to follow three virtues and four virtues, and men have to earn money to support their families, so it's really difficult for people to live, everyone is desperate to live, do they give you children when you get married now, only people who know that people are the same. Really, but hey, you're 26, enough of the waves, enough of the madness.

    Find your own happy life. You are now twenty-six and thirty years and a few more Chinese New Year's Eve will be difficult to find a partner, women, you should take advantage of your own capital to sell yourself.

    Now I have a plan, you and your boyfriend are frozen now. If his family urges him to get married, you will tell your thoughts and conditions, and let your in-laws take care of the children and take care of you after giving birth, otherwise, you will lose more.

    After you give birth, your mother completely treats you as a slave, for us women, it's a loss, as if I feel like I've entered a pit, his son is 25 years old, and it's hard to find a girlfriend again, unless it's a blind date. So negotiate terms with them.

    2.26. What should I do if I am not married?

    Treat yourself as a guest, I think marriage is a matter of course, maybe the person you met before didn't really want to get married, or maybe you weren't suitable, or maybe it was delayed for objective reasons.

    But I believe that fate will always arrange it for me, and I will always meet the right person.

    Although you are not married, but if you are in full bloom, butterflies tremble stupidly, yes, whether you are a man or a woman talking, this is the same, starting a family, this is not wrong, whether you are a man or a woman, the rich second generation does not say, others will pick you to work, such as you don't earn much, or family factors, but no matter what, as long as you work hard, there will always be a successful day, I also have a lot of friends, all of them have certain achievements, only to get married, very normal.

    Since she doesn't want to get married, there must be her reasons, you can ask her if she has any concerns, and then you solve the problem together, if he doesn't tell you, it means that she is still testing you, after all, marriage is a lifelong event, so you can't make too hasty decisions about your life, then you have to find a way to stabilize her heart, a Levis real-name custom diamond ring is the best choice, because the inside of the ring has your name, in your name, crown between her, a lifetime together, a lifetime with you! Use such a ring as a deep bond between the two of you, maybe after wearing the ring, her heart will be comforted, and the promise to you will slowly begin to rest assured, and it won't be long before you propose to her again, maybe she will readily agree! I wish you success.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I have the following views on the problem you describe:1Maybe he thinks you're not there yet.

    2.Or maybe you don't feel mature enough. 3.

    It is also possible that he is afraid of getting married. The above is my advice, I wonder if it helps you? If not, please tell me and add a description, I will analyze all aspects for you!

    1.Maybe he thinks you're not there yet. 2.

    Or maybe you don't feel mature enough. 3.It is also possible that he is afraid of getting married.

    The above is my advice, I wonder if it helps you? If not, please tell me and add a description, I will analyze all aspects for you! Because specific problems need to be analyzed in detail, I hope it can be understood.

    There are two possibilities for not wanting to get married, one is that he likes you, but he doesn't want to be bound by marriage, he wants to live single for two more years, and he feels that he is not yet able to bear the marriage. The second is that I don't have confidence in you, and I think that you are not mature enough, so I will talk about it when you are equal and mature.

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