When did you stop believing in the original goodness of man ?

No one is absolutely kind, just like a little child I met before, and when I didn't treat her, she told her mother that I hit him.

When I was eight years old, I had an older sister who took me out to play, and he thought it was going to be fun, and he thought it was like asking me to try it out, and he pushed me to the ice and I threw me into the river and I was cold.

Probably a few years ago, when I was taking care of a primary school student and doing homework, he always complained to his mother, saying that I was rough with him from time to time, and then her mother was very angry and sued me, but I had never done this kind of thing at all.

After watching some reports of various college students on the news every day, they killed people in the dormitory because of the intensification of conflicts, and I felt that it was really not credible.

There are also some kind people, almost when I was a teenager, a classmate told the teacher that I often stole from her, but in fact, I didn't do it at all, but he insisted on saying that I did it.

Once when I was on the road, I met a little kid, very cute, I wanted to help him, but he immediately pushed me away, saying that I was a bad person.

Because it was very hot in the summer, I saw a person fainting on the side of the road, and I tried to go over and help her up, but then he said that I was the one who knocked her down.

The world has changed me so much, when I give up my seat to a child on the bus, he not only thanked me but also said that I smelled terrible.

My college roommate told him to close the door when I was out of the house, and the next day he threw my cosmetics in the trash.

When several children were in the community, they poured a bottle of sulfuric acid into the garbage can, but they didn't expect the environmental workers to burn their hands when they went to clean up the garbage cans.

I never believed in ......

Since childhood, our teachers taught us that "at the beginning of man, nature is inherently good", but as I grew up, I seemed to believe more in the saying "at the beginning of man, nature is inherently evil".

When a baby is born, it is as white as jade, you don't understand anything, but the first thing you understand is jealousy, when your father is close to your mother, you cry, because in your consciousness, your mother is yours, "the most secure embrace, it must be mine" you think.

You are smart enough to know that "crying can solve anything" through experiments and conclusions. Ultimately, you're right. You solved all the problems, all kinds of unpleasantness were solved by crying, even in the case of endless troubles for others, was this something that someone taught you?

No, this is what you know, who says children don't understand anything? I prefer to believe that newborn children carry the memories of their past lives, and we use them to vent the endless pain brought by society, family, parents and even children in our previous lives, and the aggrieved life before us.

Slowly, your age is no longer the age that people should know nothing about, so people start to teach you to speak, teach you to stand, help you quit all the things that you had when you were younger, and then you realize what it means to be forced to lose. You cry heartbreakingly, and your parents start to have to ignore your pain for the sake of a "for your own good".

That's when you understand what "good" is. "It turns out that 'good' means that at an age when others don't drink breast milk, I can't drink it;It turns out that 'good' means that when others learn to walk, I also have to learn to walk;It turns out that 'good' means that I will do what others do! "This is 'good', permanently chasing the pace of others, and finally standing on the head of some people, walking under the feet of others.

On this day, you will be able to speak, you can express your preferences accurately, and you are very happy, but gradually, people start to tell you that you want to share, and at this time, you understand, it turns out that those toys that originally belonged to me actually belonged to my parents. They can give it to other children at will, when you don't want to give, it's impolite, not generous, not sensible, all kinds of rebuttals to you will blurt out, they start to educate you, "You have to know how to share, only if you learn to share, you will have it!" "But what I like is not mine, so what I don't like is given to me?

Do parents really not know? I don't know, I've never been a parent, I don't understand, but I know that your parents will start to teach you something, they will start to teach you to "exchange", they will start to teach you how to exchange gifts with others, get what you want, that is, use what you want, to exchange what you want more, or alternatively, someone else will use what he wants in exchange for what you love! So, you start to have the idea of "snatching"!

Isn't it the best way to take what you want and make it yours without losing what you love? Yes! So, force has become the fantasy of all of us when we were teenagers!

In order to protect your beloved, in order to get your beloved! Maybe what we get is above board, or perhaps, what we get is not to choose to be cold!

"Human nature is inherently good" means: at the beginning of life, that is, when everyone is born, their nature is good.

This sentence comes from the traditional enlightenment textbook "Three Character Classic" in China, which shows the root of human beings, everyone is born, has a pure and good heart, and some people will become bad people when they grow up, losing their good nature, because of the social environment, family education and other aspects of the shadow code traces.

From "the beginning of man, the nature is good" to "people do not learn, do not know righteousness", it tells about the importance of education and learning to children's growth, and the acquired education is timely and correct, which can make children become useful materials.

1. The original nature of human beings is Wang Yinglin, a writer and poet of the Qing Dynasty.

said from his "Three Character Classic".

2. It is the first sentence in the three-character classic, and the first four sentences of the "Three-character Classic" say: "At the beginning of man, nature is good." Sex is similar, Xi is far away.

The first two sentences of the sentence are from "Mencius Tengwen Gong I": "Mencius is good in nature, and his words must be called Yao Shun." ”

3. Meaning: When you are born, you are good, but because of the growth process, the acquired learning environment is different, and there is a difference between good and bad temperament.