When we can t change ourselves and others, what will you do?

Everyone can change, but it's much easier to change yourself than to change others.

If others are not willing to change, then you can change yourself on the basis of certain principles, of course, provided that the change will bring good results, whether it is for you or for others, that is, whether it is "worth it".

Thinking about any problem when you are in a bad mood will not lead to good results, so it is recommended that you think about such questions again when you are in a good mood, and you will think about it much more clearly.

If I really feel that what I do and think is very correct, then I will do it in my own way, although I can't change others, but in my life, only I am the real king, my decision is the final I will execute, as long as my goal is determined, then I will be very serious and hard to achieve it, with my practical actions to prove that in fact, my choice is wise I always firmly believe: believe in your own strength in your heart!

We can't change others, but we can change ourselves; We can't change what has happened, but we can adjust our mindset. Writer Yang Daxia Yang Ke sent a message that changing oneself is the beginning of transcendence.

Don't deliberately change anything, or the result will be unrecognizable.

Everything goes with the flow, calm down, everyone will have the feeling that life is only as it was when they first met, and there will be the helplessness of looking at each other across the river. It is better to have thousands of rivers with water, thousands of rivers and months, and thousands of miles without clouds and thousands of miles of sky.

...Wait for someone else to change themselves.

Then insist on being yourself, don't care what others think of you, believe in yourself, don't blindly follow the herd!

Only when there is a goal will there be a desire to change to find your own purpose

Now I truly believe that the people you meet are all about making you grow and become a better version of yourself.

After going through so many things, the current base socks are very strong, maybe this is the beginning of a kind of self-healing, and suddenly feel the sentence: "When you can't change the world, change yourself!" "It's wise.

Now I am much calmer, I have dreams in my heart, but I don't stay in my imagination, I like the feeling of running, and the feeling of doing my best to complete a job is really good.

In the world, in fact, everything is a floating cloud, living a good moment is the best, at least this will not leave too many regrets in the current Wu Feng's bright tone, a good life is the best reward for the present, I believe: it is my things that others can't snatch, not mine, I don't need to force it.

Let the past pass, I believe that what the future will leave me is what I need to cherish. Don't think about the past, live up to the present, don't be afraid of the future, live a down-to-earth life, and be a person who lives hard.

Along the way, I realized that I can also be so strong. I am grateful to all the people I have met in my life, and I am grateful for my continuous efforts and growth along the way.

Last night, a friend sent me a message saying, "This class of students is too difficult to bring, and they are not active at all, so I am almost out of content." ”

I said that this is actually a very normal thing, after all, everyone's schedule is different, some students don't read the group message at all, and what we need to do is to do what we can, as for their reaction, another matter.

"You're right, but it's human nature to want to be recognized by others, to get feedback," she said.

In fact, she is right, everyone wants feedback for their efforts.

But what I don't want to say is that, in fact, many of the things we do, more important is to give feedback to ourselves, and learning to introspect seems to be more important.

Life is your own, don't pin your hopes on others. We must study hard, constantly improve ourselves, output in a timely manner, and submit a satisfactory answer to our life is the most important thing.

We can't ask others what to do, but we can change ourselves, and may we live in the rhythm of our own lives and become a better version of ourselves!