Is it a pity that I haven t been in love for four years in college?

It depends on whether you want to talk about it or not.

If you don't want to talk about it, it's not a pity.

If you haven't found a good one after 4 years of college, it should be a pity.

Overall, there is a large base of people who are not in a relationship in college. You know, there's an imbalance in the number of men and women in college. Either too much or too little.

Quite a pity! In the future, you can sincerely tell your girlfriend that I have never been in a relationship in college, and I want to leave the best things to you! ~~

Of course not, if you hold this thought, it will become "love for love's sake".

It's sad.

Do you feel fulfilled your college life? Are you satisfied with your life? I didn't do anything in college except take care of a woman's emotions (let alone study), lost a lot, graduated, broke up, what did I get, and now ......Alas......

My example is typical. Love is a mess of people's minds, so be cautious!!

However, the regret lies in one's own heart, as long as it is worthy of the conscience of heaven and earth.

Not counting! Is it a pity not to meet it? Who said that?

Don't forget it; What's wrong with that?

Let's cherish everything we have now.'"

Regrets, there are many regretful things, since they are all in the past, why bring it up.

I regretted it when I talked about it in high school. It's best not to talk about college.

Falling in love is a serious thing, and I don't seem to have seen anyone in my family fall in love twice.

So it's very incomprehensible why take the matter of love out for fun, and finally see someone who looks more serious, and I'm still regretting it.

People say that there are three things to do in college, otherwise college life will not be perfect. First: skipping class; Second: make-up examination; Third: fall in love. What do you think of it yourself?

I think it's a pity, the feelings in college are pure, after graduation, facing the oppression of work, the urging of parents, and the urgency of falling in love, I will think more about it, and I will take whether it is suitable for marriage as the primary reference condition, and the lover's previous relationship is not "I like you and want to be with you" This kind of simple love.

In high school, we couldn't fall in love, and studying was more important at that time, but when we got to college, our study life was colorful, and love was allowed, so why not talk about a relationship that both people liked?

There is a lot of spare time, and there are also many things that can be done between lovers. Visiting the campus together, this will become a part of the campus memory in the future, and it is a kind of young love that can be worth recalling; Walking together in the snack street, you can share the joy of food together; Become a scholarship winner every year and imagine a better future; Share sadness and happiness together, and after tomorrow will be a strong and confident self. Growing up together because the other person makes themselves better, this kind of love is what you want to have in college.

But even if your college love ending is sad, it doesn't matter, after all, this does not mean that in the future, I believe that people who have experienced these feelings will eventually grow, you will become a better version of yourself, understand the way of getting along with more lovers, have your own understanding of love, and establish a correct view of love.

If you haven't been in love in college, you can regret it, but don't regret it, love is not a must for college, if you have it, it's the icing on the cake, and if you don't, it's still beautiful. Regret is for the pure beauty of college love, and love after work may be mixed with interests and more considerations. But regret is really unnecessary, college without love is nothing more than not being able to experience the emotions of the special time and place of falling in love in college, you are still you, you can talk with friends, you can live up to the time in your studies, and you can enjoy college life.

The love after graduation is the love that belongs to that stage, and the difference between it and the love in college is time and personal experience, but there are also joys and sorrows, and unforgettable emotions, which are also worth pursuing.

I think that not being in a relationship in college is something that people will regret a lot.

College was the happiest time of my life. At that time, it was not like high school, you needed to study hard, get into a good university, it was difficult to fall in love, and you delayed your studies. When you get to university, you have more free time, and your parents won't care about you.

Boys and girls in high school are still young, but in college, both boys and girls will know how to dress up, and that is your most beautiful time. At that time, I didn't fall in love, I didn't find someone I liked to spend time with, and in the future, I regret thinking about it.

Falling in love in college is the purest. At that time, you didn't need to think about anything, money, career, etc. It is very happy for two people to go out for a meal, watch a movie, or go out for a walk together.

At that time, girls can be as hypocritical as they want, because boys have a lot of time to coax you, you can make awkward noises, you can lose your temper, because the feelings at that time just pay attention to these things. Pure to the point of falling in love.

After leaving the society, the feelings become more and more things to consider. After leaving college, everyone has to worry about their own careers and survival problems, and there is not so much time to coax someone, comfort someone, and spoil everyone. That's when all the stresses of life come to you.

At that time, when you fall in love, you have to think about whether you have the money to fall in love, you need to consider the geographical location, and you need to consider whether it is suitable or not, rather than being in love like in college, only thinking about whether you like it or not.

If you miss your college years, you won't be able to make up for any time in the future. The time we think about the most is our college life. But you didn't fall in love in college, and there will always be something missing from your memories.

There is no figure of you and the person you like on the playground. There is no place for you in the library, there is no familiar old place in the corner of the campus, and there are no memories of you snuggling up to each other on the school lawn. These are things that can't be made up for by leaving campus.

When you recall it, you will be left with regret and regret.

Therefore, in this prime age, everyone should be brave enough to pursue their own college love!

It is a pity that I have not been in love on campus, because on campus, everyone has the opportunity to meet the person they like and will experience a wonderful love process, but there is no such opportunity at the moment, and it is a pity and regret to miss the campus love period.

The campus love period is an important period in a person's life, this is a period full of importance, an extremely precious opportunity, an experience of learning love, and an experience of adolescence. During this time, we can meet all kinds of people, we can get to know ourselves more deeply, understand our loved ones, understand our own feelings, and we can also learn a lot of social skills, learn how to get along with others, and fully express ourselves, and achieve certain achievements in self-realization.

Although we have never been in love on campus, we also have the opportunity to experience the mood of love on other occasions, such as at work, we can get to know the person we like through chatting, and experience the joy and excitement of love. Because people are more mature in society and have a deeper knowledge and understanding of each other, it also makes it easier for us to accept the differences between the sexes, understand the need to control our own behavior, and respect each other's hearts.

Whether we have never been in love on campus, or we are learning about love in the later society, we must cherish this love. It's a pity that you haven't been in love on campus, but don't give up on love, because love is the pillar of happiness, which is used to perfect the soul and make people truly feel the value of life.

As soon as I arrived in college, the word "early love" seemed to be a thing of the past, and it was no longer regarded as a flood beast, and many people even regarded it as a process that must be experienced in college career.

Every year during the freshman admission season, students who have no mathematics hold the longing for love, hold the admission letter, and drag their suitcases into the university gate.

And a few years later, when they graduated, some people came in pairs, and some people were alone.

No way? You've graduated from college and haven't been in a relationship yet? ”

While it may just be a question without malice, in the ears of the listener, it may be particularly harsh.

So, is it really a pity that I didn't fall in love in college?

We need to look at it separately.

One: There is a favorite person.

You have a crush on someone, but you never confess it.

It may be hesitant that he has no experience in love (after all, high school is used to brush up on questions), it may be that he still has to work hard after graduation, or he may be shy, or he may feel that he is not worthy of the other party. In short, during the years of college, you just hid in the shadows, silently watching from behind.

After a few years of ups and downs in society, looking back on this leaky period of campus time, maybe I still sigh with regret.

After all, as you grow older and more experienced, there are more and more people to carry and worry about, and there is no capital to do anything for your feelings like when you were a student.

Therefore, it is easy to fall into the illusion and remorse of "if I had confessed it at the beginning" in the future.

Two: Because it's embarrassing to be single.

When everyone is in love, doesn't I look out of place when I'm single?

Many college couples are together with this mentality. Or maybe I feel that I have been depressed in high school for several years, and I finally got into college, and I always feel a little lost if I don't fall in love.

So, as long as they don't hate each other, the two choose to be together.

It's not necessary to have a love model like this, if it's just to kill time, there are a lot of things you can do in college, and you may have other regrets in retrospect.

Some people regret that they didn't fall in love in college; Some people regret that they didn't study well in college; Some regretted not winning scholarships; There are also people who regret not reading all the books they want to read in the library.

On the other hand, people who fall in love for the sake of falling in love will either quickly withdraw after the novelty of falling in love has passed because they take the relationship too lightly, or they will be hurt and unwilling to let go because they attach too much importance to the relationship, both of which are unhealthy.

Love is when two people attract and admire each other. There is no such thing as "the right time" in love, but whether you meet the "right person". And this person will not necessarily appear in your college life.

On the contrary, going with the flow, blindly falling into love under the influence of the surrounding environment or mainstream opinions, and wasting time, energy and emotions from the "wrong person" is irreparable no matter what, the real regret.

In short, love is just a small episode in campus life. If you really meet the person you fall in love with, then cherish each other and work together.